Learning From People You Call Friends

bad friend david selfish david. hypocrite david. shameless david. I will never forget the good or bad done to me. I've experienced this too many times. I come to the aid of anyone in need. But when I'm in trouble, no one is there for me. I hate this situation. I am also unemployed for yuan so you understand I don't have a lot of money so there is no one around me. But if I had a lot of money, everyone would be with me. this is so bad and sad

OMG that's really bad of David. Let me just say he did that intentionally. If not, he ought to have returned those calls back or check on you guys at home. Thanks to your brother-in-law for his time and tools

Oh! how sad to hear about it. It is so disappointing. Though we didn't expect anything in return when we are helping but we are hoping to get the same help when we need it the most. Hopefully ma konsensya din sya for not answering the call or even call you back.

para sakin din...family lang matatawag kong one call away friend ko...not that I don't trust my friends,siguro nasanay lang ako

That's so bad of him, it's so disappointing but thank God you now know the type of person he is. You just need to be careful around him. So many people we call our friends but they aren't even closer to it at all. I like the fact that you pour out your mind about it rather than keeping it.

Can def relate po. It's just a random share, pero I wonder why I am not that lucky in friendships. Haha. I always end up getting disappointed because I always get less than what I deserved. Over time, naghehesitate na tuloy akong magbigay ng hanggat kaya ko, kasi parang sila wala namang pake sakin.

It's very bad me calling someone and not picking my calls, especially when it's a known person. They don't even know if the caller's life is at risk

People like David is everywhere,true friend will come in your hard times not only in good,there are people who only see you when they need help for their necessity but cannot count on them in return.

Friend in a need is friend indeed. Actually there are many people around us that just get their own benefits from us. When we need them they didn't bother to hear us. We should beware of such selfish people.

Owww. We should stop calling the Davids in our lives friends. Sorry. But it's time to cut them off.

Aigooo, yong hindi naman sa pag aano pero sana yonh akala natin na mas tutulungan tayo yun pa pala yong mismong walang pake if ever mag ask ka ng help. Parang friend kalang kapag need ka ee. Aigoo, kapag sakin ganyan paranh nakaka tampo lang.

The reality of life momshie. Hay, sad lang and disappointing talaga. May mga tao na di marunong tumanaw ng utang n loob. But at least you and your husband is not like David momshie.

I'm not surprised momma because I've dealt with people like David all my life and I am still dealing with some right now. They are parasites...they want to feed off you but would never allow you feed off them. This is why I don't confuse loyalty with people who only want to use us for their own gain. David has no shred of loyalty in him and as humans, he is always quick to forget the good he has received until he needs a new one.

My uncle did the same with us. Other family members. Some of my friends too. I've learnt never to go to certain people no matter what because I know what their response would be. I've decided to save my energy for those who are worth it and not those who just want to use me. It's shameful but David would soon learn the hard way.

Your good heard and that of your husband allowed your brother in law to turn up. Good people can never be stranded no matte is betrayed they are.

Hmmmm, disappointed but not surprised madam. That's why we shouldn't expect too much from them. That's life 🤷‍♀️

Friends like David are not reliable. Imagine when he was needed the most and yet he failed. That’s just bad

Gosh saddening and super nakaka disappoint hayss. Kaya family parin talaga ang unang tutulong saatin, that's why maintaining a good relationship in the family must come first

Ma, I would say everyone will not be the same. We all are indifferent and it takes a real friend to be who he or she is. Your husband played his role as a good friend to him which is his own way while his friend is another personality. That is human for you.

I have had similar experience too but what do I do? Though it's disappointing but I understand that A will never be the same way as B and so, we should just ignore and keep doing our best.

Sister we need real friends these people are not more able to be called as friends. It is sad your husband needed friend for help but he didn't respond well.

Aww that's sad to hear that a friend that you used to help can't return the help to you. Hays, may mga ganyan po talaga person na di manlang marunong tumunaw ng utang na loob

A grabe din friend nyo na yan, sana nakita nya kayo right after receiving all that missed calls at ng mahiya nmn the next time he asks for help or borrows stuffs from you.

Yes I agree that true friends is a blessing. Many are like davids around and some I know too. That is why, I am too picky now because many are like davids in our neighborhood and it gives me a lesson to know such.

That is human for you, expect less. Thank God your brother in-law was available.