Insensitive People
My Article is about insensitive people but first I am raising some of the behavior or innate traits of sensitive and insensitive people:
Sensitive people are those who are aware of their surroundings and the feelings of others. They understand that everyone has feelings, and they have a strong sense of empathy. They're able to see the world through other people's eyes, which makes them empathetic, compassionate people who always try to do the right thing.
Sensitive people tend to be more emotional than the average person, so they might cry at a sad movie or get angry at injustice. They also tend to be more sensitive than others in general-they notice things that others don't even realize exist because they're so tuned into their surroundings.
An insensitive person is someone who doesn't show or feel concern for other people's feelings. They can be very judgmental, which means they think of others as less than them. They also may not be able to handle other people's emotions and find it hard to understand how they feel.
It's hard to be insensitive. You are always asking yourself, "What is the perfect thing?" But you don't always know, because your emotions always provoke the way of your conception.
To be more clear, many people in our society are very self-absorbed and never try to understand others' problems or sorrows from their hearts, and instead of comforting the suffering person, they only tell their own self-congratulatory stories which make others sadder.
You're trying to be a good person, but no matter what you do, people seem to think you're making them feel bad. And you can't win!
If you want to change yourself You can start by learning how to understand other people's feelings and needs. It's not easy-you'll have to listen more carefully, think about what others are saying, and remember that people don't always have the same priorities as you do but it's worth it to make sure everyone feels heard and understood.
If anyone reading my article feels that the word insensitive fits your personality, then my advice to them would be that if you cannot comfort someone in their pain, please don't say anything. At least don't add to his sorrow by telling your own happy story. Maybe keep quiet at that point or ignore him/her.
And it's important to remember that everyone has their own flaws, so try not to take it personally if someone is insensitive.
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"At least don't add to his sorrow by telling your own happy story. Maybe keep quiet at that point or ignore him/her".
while you are defining SENSITIVE and INSENSITIVE, in the end you rather presented a very contradictory statements.
If to tell a person that its being insensitive if above met the requirement... I don't think so. It's definitely a matter of perspective. When the heart is overtly inherent with ENVY, then happy stories will always go south. I've grown old, I'm not particularly into today's generation of perspective... Most people my age who've grown challenges and struggles in life, they'd look forward for happy stories in life to lift their spirits. That's not insensitive, its perspective.
If you want to be left alone and do your sulking, and you find someone going your way and tries to cheer you up or comfort you... That people comforting you is SENSITIVE, you may not like it but it feels your pain so trying to lift your depressive spirit is not insensitive. They'd rather see you smile than frown. So, cheering you up is an effort that many and oftentimes neglected.