Forgive but don't Forget

We are all hurt by someone in our life and it causes us pain. None of us can ever say that he/she has never suffered. We all have this experience. Some may have suffered a lot, some may have suffered less, so they have been able to forget and forgive the person who hurt them.

But I am not writing this article to verify the extent of suffering. Because there is no cure for suffering, only the one who suffers can feel its pain, and it is a matter of time. As time passes our pains fade away, maybe time gives a layer of peace over those pains. But some sufferings cause more wounds that time cannot heal.

We should forgive the people who are responsible for our pain and this forgiveness should be done for our own peace of mind. People who make mistakes definitely deserve a second chance and should be given a second chance to correct their mistakes. Forgiveness is a must but there are some people who should never be given a second chance. Never give two types of people a second chance. Who are they?

Number one who always uses the two-faced snake principle. Those who put others in danger and talk in different places for their own good. Those who only care about the politics of self-preservation even if it harms others.

And the second is those who are very selfish people. The human race is selfish. Selfishness works within each of us. It's true, we have to be selfish in some cases because the world is very tough and there are many cheaters in the world constantly walking around us. Those who develop a good relationship with us and protect their own interests when necessary. They will forget us completely when the interest is gone or they will not hesitate to harm you if there is any decrease in their own interest.

You can never change such opportunistic people, no matter how much you love them and forgive their faults, they will always look for opportunities to hurt you! So whether they are your family members or someone you love, think 100 times before giving them a second chance.

Don't get carried away by their sweet words. To survive in our society we must have good relations with each other and forgiveness is a noble virtue. There is a very popular dialogue that, we are not connected to each other because we forget each other's mistakes, we are connected because we know how to forgive.

But beware of these two types of people. They are just opportunists and never have the values ​​to appreciate your forgiveness. I'm not talking about breaking up the relationship, I'm talking about maintaining a distance between the relationship that can protect you or me from being in danger in the future.