Don't let yourself be humiliated by anyone

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You don't want to be the kind of person who gives in to peer pressure and acts like an idiot when you know better. You're better than that.

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If you feel like you're being humiliated by someone, take a deep breath, think hard, and ask yourself: "Who is doing the humiliating?" If the answer is the person who's humiliating you, then you need to step back and re-evaluate how much of an impact they're having on your life. If it's not them, then it may just be that they're trying to get under your skin. And if they are trying to get under your skin, then they've already succeeded!

Remember that when someone is trying to make you feel bad, it's not because they don't like you—it's because they want something from you. They want something from you that they can't get from anyone else in their lives; therefore, they have nothing but disdain for anyone who doesn't fit into their plans for them.

Don't take it personally!

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That's right—you are a queen/king and you deserve to be treated like one. Even if someone is looking down their nose at you, be confident in your own skin so don't let them make you feel small. If someone has the audacity to make fun of you, just laugh it off! We live in a world where everyone is always trying to outdo each other and there's nothing wrong with that.

Yet there are people who will always find fault with you and try to bring you down at every turn in your work, family, social and personal life with no end in sight. Like, don't let someone make you feel bad about yourself because of something that isn't your fault.

It's not like you can control who is around you or what they're thinking, and it's not like there are any laws that say people have to treat you nicely.

So if someone is being mean to you, don't let them get away with it! If they're hurting your feelings, tell them to stop and explain that they're making you feel bad about yourself. Then ask them why they think it is okay to do this and why they think their actions are OK.

If the person doesn't listen, then talk to someone else—someone who knows how scary bullying can be—and tell them what just happened. This kind of thing happens all the time and it can lead to serious problems later on down the line if we let people get away with things because they don't know how bad bullying is yet.

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I had lots of wisdom and realization by just reading your post sis. Yes, they want something from you that is why they keep bugging you, also if you react negatively, they are just trying to see your weakness so don't let them.

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2 years ago

Human life is very important and precious. Positive, negative, reality, success will determine everything on our life. Therefore the value of our life is very infinite. Everyone should love their own life very much. Injuries and insults by others should protect oneself. You should protect the personality of your life.

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If a person doesn't listen, then talk to someone else, yeah I do that, thank you for sharing this wonderful masterpiece.

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2 years ago

True my friend. We shouldn't let ourselves to be humiliated from the others. We are unique and we must stand on it. We only know we truly we are.

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I've been humiliated before by my own peers, so I left that Job and now I found a better one :)

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