My Say: Never Afraid to Let Go if You Have to!

Letting go! From the point itself, its really hard to do it. But what if you really have to do it? Are you willing to take the risk to free yourself?

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Good day ladies and gents!👋😊Its renren16 again in house. What's up madlang read.cash mates and fam? How's your Friday? Omoo! Its Friday already!?😳 Time flies fast, as what they say. I hoped that amidst the situations we are facing right now, still you have do take care of yourselves and spend much of your time for your loved ones.

For today's blog, I will share again my own perspectives regarding the topic in my article today. So, I just decided to make use of my time in making articles which I will be giving my own opinion/s regarding the different issues, more on life and love issues. ("Charriiisabble!"XD) "Pa-feeling Expert yarnn?" Well, I'll do my best.

Yesterday, as I was waiting for my phone to be fully charged, I listened into the radio. I came across a radio station with a drama segment. For instance, you have a love or life problem, you will send a letter to the station and wait for it to be aired and the listeners will give their pieces of advice afterwards, including the DJs or Disc Jockeys. But there are times too that the sender was just want to share his/her story.

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STORY TIME!!!

Together with my mama, we listened to the story. The letter sender was a girl. She has a boyfriend and currently working an office staff. Actually they are already a live-in partner. His boyfriend is unemployed at the moment, so he was just waiting for the girl at home. He was like a house-husband.

As what the letter sender said,

"It feels like everytime is perfect."

"I've got nothing to worry about."

They became a lived-in partner for one year already. And rarely got into a fight. Actually, they have planned for their wedding. But only to find out that the guy was cheating on her.

One time, the guy asked the girl if she can lend him some money because he wants to go to their province to visit his family. So, as a generous and a loving partner, she gave him the money that he wanted. The next day, the guy travelled going to the province, as what he said but it was just a lie. The guy got into an accident. The letter sender found out that during that time, his man was with another girl. He had an affair with that woman. The guy asked forgiveness to the sender and the sender did forgave him. ("Binigyan niya nang Chance yung guy.")

Because of the accident, the sender make all the effort to took care of the guy while at the same time, she was still working to support their needs, especially for the hospital bills. A month later, the guy was discharged. Then, back to the current life they had. But they had found out that the guy has a kidney problem. So, as his partner, the girl or the sender did all the work to save up. She often do overtimes just to have an extra wage for her partner. And another problem came up.

She thought that her partner had already change. But soon enough, she found out that her partner was doing it again. His cheating again, and the worst thing is that the woman was still the same. And later on, the other woman got pregnant. She confronted her partner saying,

"Why?"

"Why did you do it, again?"

"I thought you have changed. I already gave my whole life to you. I gave you another chance but you wasted it. I did all the efforts to support your needs and you, (tinuro niya yung guy) this is all you did to me. You hurt my feelings and cheat on me, again."

"Why?"

"Am I not enough, huh!?"(crying)

The guy, again, asked forgiveness to the letter sender but she already decided to end it. She said that the guy should took the responsibility for what he did. So, at the end, they broke up.

Two years later, they had met again. The letter sender has another man, whom she was married to. While her ex-partner was with the other woman and had their child.

end..

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"Ang saklap naman nun sa part nung letter sender." She thought, everything was just fine but later on she will find out that everything she did for her partner was all worthless, because she was being cheated, not once but twice, and the other woman got pregnant. "Aguy!" -_-

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MY SAY...

For the guy, "Bro, VERY WRONG!" He just prove that he was indeed a worthless man. He already have a good life but he just wasted it because of his "kati sa katawan."👎

For the other woman, "May kati rin siya, noh?" She knew that the guy has already a girlfriend, not just a mere girlfriend, but a lived-in partner, but still, "Sige pa rin." Tsk tsk... Where did the RESPECT go?

For the letter sender, "A big hand for her!" I am happy that she already found someone whom she can spend the rest of her life. The man which really make her feel that she deserve to be loved and respected as a woman and a wife.

CLOSING THOUGHTS:

I am indeed happy as the listener of that story. I've learned that, we should; "Never afraid to let go if you have to." Chances can be constant but only for those who deserve to have it. Don't be afraid to love again. Its okay to surrender when you really have to, for the save yourself and be free from the lies. Because, not just in "Love" but also in "Life", there's a lot more to explore and discover. It may be hard in the beginning but all the sufferings and challenges along the journey will surely be payed off with good ones.

A song lyrics goes like this;

"You made me stronger by breaking my heart. You ended my life and made a better one start. You taught me everything of falling in love and letting go of a lie..."

Life and Love lessons will surely make you stronger! ;-) ("I know you know how!")

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Thanks for reading!📖😊

GOD BLESS US ALL!😇

_renren16💚_

Published on: 10.22.2021 @3:05 pm