"Every baby is a blessing, no matter what the circumstances are. Growing and birthing a human is insanely miraculous. The fact that our bodies are even capable of something so amazing is mind-blowing." - Lauren Haley
Before we go on, I want to greet everyone, "Good morning," "Good afternoon," and "Good evening!" For today's article, its all about my parents, particularly my mama. They want a grandchild. Yes! A grandchild! (°ｏ°)
Last Saturday, MGD visited me again. So, I wasn't able to have much time in here because I entertained my boyfriend at home and spent the rest of the days before he went their home yesterday. So, it been three days. And yes, I am very happy to spent that days with him and with my parents. We ate meals together, have some talking afterwards, and do the bonding thing.
Fast Forward, my mama asked about MGD and I. She said, "When are you going to get married?" "When will you give me a grandchild?" Like what? I was so shocked to hear that from her. I laughed at her saying, "Ma, are you sick or something?" My mama just laughed at me also. Honestly, she kept on saying that even before. A lot of times. I just take it as a joke of hers tho, but, at that very day, she seems serious about it. She even said it like she really meant it. After that, I went my room and thinking about what she said. "What if I really do it?" Hihi. I laughed at myself. But, what if?
MGD and I will be celebrating our sixth year anniversary as a couple this month. As a matter of fact, both of us wanted to have our baby, but as for me, I still felt hesitant because of the so called, "Responsibilities". I think about the positive and negative results it will probably give to us. There are lots of what ifs in my mind. Given the fact that I still don't have a stable job, as well as MGD, I hardly think about having our baby. I am afraid if we cannot sustain the baby's needs. I want to really give the very best that I/we can for the baby. That's one of the reasons why I cannot decide to really have one.
Looking at my mama and papa, whose fond of playing with my little cousins, I think they really wanted to have their own grandson/granddaughter. Sometimes, I heard my papa saying, "Kanindot sa feeling nga naay hagwaan nga bata." He meant to say that, he wants a baby to be played of. Same is through with my mama. She even said, "Pagminyo na mo!"(You should become husband and wife), "Unsa pa may gipaabot!"(What are you waiting for?) "Sakto naman mo's edad."(You're old enough). "Gusto nami'g apo kay tiguwang na intawn mi."(We want to have our grandchild because we're old.)
Its good to know that I have that kind parents that kept on supporting me even in that kind of matter. But, "who knows in the aparador?" Lol.. Just kidding. If God will bless us, it will surely come. In His time and will! o:-)
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Thank you to these wonderful people!❣️
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Thank you for reading fellas!📖
To God be all the Glory!😇
_renren16💚_
09/03/2021
A child is a blessing, but no doubt that changes our lives. We must make that decision when we feel prepared and that the moment is right. And not to please others, even if those others are our parents.