May 03, 2022
Holiday, Happy Eid Mubarak to all Muslims
I am not a fan of family issues. It's just that I am prone to be the weakest who always loses over simple yet tiresome arguments between relatives, so I stayed placid and do not mind them for those issues can't put some food on our plates so I ignore them. There's this thing about my relatives that I somehow can't quite understand, especially throwing words at each other. I somehow witness some of that especially when they had drinking sessions and when most of them are drunk and that's when their hidden emotions about the others surfaces
It's the town fiesta today, and my Uncle who went home for a vacation, planned to have a feast in their house and all of us are invited. Their house is just beside our house. Mum decided to not hold a fiesta since my Uncle was already planning to cook and have it served for all of us. I was assigned to cook the same dishes, I decline internally but since it's my Uncle's request that's why I have no choice.
As I am always at work and only went home during weekends so I don't really know any updates or news about them. Not until these past few days that I've been idly a bystander at home where I found out that there are some issues.
Mum already told me about the conflict but I just told her to let's not interfere for it's not our business and they have to deal with it on their own since they're already old enough to know what's right or wrong. Mum didn't push more for she knows that I don't want such conflicts, especially between family and other relatives.
It so happen that today my Uncle(OFW and Papz eldest brother) shared his rants over his niece, which is the first grandchild of the clan and also my cousin on my father's side. My cousin asked me for a favor to wrap the lumpiang shanghai and to come over to their house to man the kitchen while they're away to buy the rice and other spices. As I was wrapping the said dish my Uncle seated in front of me and then we talked and talked. In my mind, I really wanted to finish wrapping all of those for I don't want to stay longer in their house. In the middle of me doing my thing at fast speed, Uncle then starts telling me his rants and all about my cousin.
I just listened to him for I don't want to be a judge. I had a lot of questions but I stayed it inside of me for I don't want to discourage All his rants he vented it out and good thing
The main point about those rants that he kept on saying is that my cousin is really more dominant, especially about the sudden changes of plan that's why my Uncle was too disappointed.
I heard a lot of complaints from other members of the family but I just told him that whatever they've been having misunderstandings they should talk it out. I just don't want conflicts so I hope they do settle it the both of them.
Thank you for reading my damp of article for today, I am so tired because of moving a lot so I'm gonna sleep.
Thank you for reading!
Be blessed and be blessing!
@mommykim
Mahirap talaga if ang magkakafamily ay magkakaaway kaya dapat peace lang May nachika nGA nanAy ko about sa tito ko at tita ko kaso di ko na tinanong pa mamaya ma judge ko yung tao diba HAHA