Compliments!

September 28, 2021

The best thing is to write what you think and feel.

As everyone may know I am active in Noise than here in read. I seldom read articles because of my work and I can't focus on reading longer stories because I was easily distracted so at Noise I can comment and react to short posts.

com·pli·ment
a polite expression of praise or admiration.
politely congratulate or praise (someone) for something.

Earlier madam @FarmGirl post in noise asking if a person is a pessimist or an optimist and I replied that I am both at work or at home and I also sometimes become controlling without me noticing it.

And then he replied that I was very honest haha. I don't know I am like that ever since and I don't tend to change it also because that defines who I am whether praised or judged. And I replied to her that it is just my personality hehe.

We are in the middle of a heated conversation with some contractors at that time and my head is bustling because we ate lunch late and I only had coffee earlier in the morning so I kinda feel on edge also same with Big Boss. I read her reply when the meeting ended and it just lifts my mood. She didn't know that she saved me earlier from yelling and venturing my anger on other people.

People sometimes become naive, they don't know that what they do or say will sometimes affect other people big time.

Madam's response and comments may mean little to her as an appreciation of me commenting on her post but it means a lot to me that time and even at this time while writing.

Most people who eat confidence and arrogance didn't know how to compliment others. They don't want others to be above them. Instead, they wants to be praised but didn't want to appreciate other people. They just want to brag about themselves not wanting others to be more special than them.

Your simple appreciation may don't mean anything to you or just a response meant to acknowledge someone or pity or anything not deep. But to the one receiving simple compliments, it may mean a lot to them. A simple appreciation can make a person happy.

Same as checking people on how they were doing from time to time, complimenting can also become healing to others.

Mommy Kim when she was just a teenager often brags about being genius on all the tricks how to pass the exams, knows how to cheat and cutting classes, brags about tampering her parents signature but never get to appreciate people around her because she thinks she's perfect.

There was a part of my teenage life that I become arrogant and dumb. So what happened earlier was somewhat like a breath of fresh air to me I guess.

Sometimes we compliment other people out of nothingness or because we are amazed at them. We simply say "Woah that's cool", "ÿou did well". "how to be you" etc., and also a simple "thank you" or "I'm sorry" can make a great effect on the people receiving it.

As I was writing this I just want to say.

Hey, you're awesome. You made it through the day and tomorrow you'll do well just like today so rest assured and know that you are doing great.

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Special thanks also to madam @Jane for the sponsorship renewal.

Thank you for reading

Keep safe and God Bless!

Fin!