Toxicity in Society, Protecting My Inner Peace

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What is toxicity means? Toxicity is the quality of being toxic or poisonous and being very harmful or unpleasant in a pervasive or insidious way.

There are many toxicity in our society. Many people around that can be harmed us. Every situations and scenarios are different. Sometimes the toxicity can be forgiven but sometimes is not. They may even know how to take ownership and express remorse for their harmful action. In other way harmful behaviours goes on with no change or responsibility. These kind of people are defined toxic.Toxic people can be avoided in all cost because they will eventually suck the life out of you. Nothing good comes from being in any kind of toxic relationship.

A toxic person is someone who complains all the time, blames you for their problems, drains you of your energy and dumps negative feelings on to you. They are basically a leech and should be avoided because they will eventually suck the life out of you. I personally have lots of experience with toxic people and toxic relationships around me.

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Toxic in Society

  • GOSSIP NEIGHBORS- Do you have a neighbor like this? Do you want to have one? HAHAHA... If you want I will give you some, there's a lot of talkative neighbors here. I don't have any problem in their chismis thingy if they are not talking about my family. And the sad one is their information and news that they spread all over the town is not true.If you go out with your fully dress and a little make up on you face, the first thing that will come to their mind is you have a mistress or you are dating someone. They are very suspicious to the point that they are ruining your life in their wrong accusation. I don't get it why people are always invading your own privacy. Please neighbor mind your own business.

  • BACKSTABBER FRIENDS- It is a friends that you are okay to them if you are together, but once you are away, they are talking behind your back. It is okay if they will tell that "Oh Mhy is so beautiful and blah blag," but the worst thing is they are talking negative on you. I don't have any problem if is true but my concern is they are creating your own story. What a life! They are the author now of your own life. For me, secret is a secret, but for them your secret is the whole town secret.... They are invading someone's privacy.

  • ARROGANT RELATIVES- It is like a knife stabbed in your heart if you have this one in your family. Unfortunately we have one, and the sad thing is she is my father's sister. Yes, she is my real and true blooded Aunt. She belongs to a rich family because of her husband. Not very rich but let's say she is ahead than my family in terms of financial status.She treat us like a trash. She wants to manipulate my father in her own hand. I feel sorry for my father for having a sister who doesn’t care about him. I can't imagine why there is a people like her. They are always leaving you behind. It is better to stay away from her, and besides we can live happily without her. Less hassle and less worries.

Actually there's a lot of toxic in our life. They are everywhere, but the most important is you will know how they should be avoided and how to cut them out of your life entirely. Toxic people come in various forms and shapes and they all should be avoided because they carry a lot of anger that will eventually blow up in your face. They also can be unpredictable, very controlling, jealous, insecure, extremely sensitive, disrespectful, fake, and unreliable. They will gossip about you behind your back and put you down any chance they can get. They will do everything to kill your joy and your dreams. They will try their best to manipulate you to get what they want. You can’t trust them.

Don't mind the toxicity in your life. As long as you didn't hurt someone, you are good to go. Face them, be brave, stand straight and show them that you are not affected. Don't let them to ruin your life. Because YOU are the boss and you are the only one who can manage your own life. It feels not good when they are around but who cares. You only live once so live your life to the fullest. Don't mind them.

Thank you guys for reading this article of mine. See you on my next one. Muuuaahh ♥️ mhy09

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Tama po kayo piro para sa akin ang pina ka toxic ay ang mga tao kasi kaya kaya tayung paikutin at gulohin ang utak natin at paniwalain sa manga bagay bagay.

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3 years ago

Right! I don't know why there are a lot of o people who want to involve themselves in someone's life just to bring toxicity. God gives us each life so why disturb others? Arrggh!

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3 years ago

Hehehe all of it I relate sis. There are a lot of toxicity in our lives. Yung nagpanggap pero hindi naman totoo sis. This is sad but it's true it's part in our lives we cannot prevent from it. Yes you're right sis it's depend on us on how to avoid those toxicities, neglect all of it. Just continue our life because we know ourselves than them...

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3 years ago

Tama sis, be yourself and continue life. Dont mind them at all. Baka inggit lang sila kaya ganun....🤣 thanks sis and good morning.

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3 years ago

I agree with all of the things mentioned above pero for me household toxicity ang pinaka worse. I am a product of toxic household at sobrang nasstress ako sa kanila alone. Unting bagay lang sigawan agad. Kahit anong gawin kong pag iignore, walang nangyayari kasi kasama ko silang nakatira dito sa bahay

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3 years ago

Naku sorry about that, basta huwag ka na lang tumulad sa kanila. Di ko alam ano sasabihin ko para mapagaan ang loob mo... basta pray na lang na maging maayos ang lahat. Good morning...😊

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Toxic people is everywhere but I chose to ignore them and focus to myself. I learned that giving them an attention towards them will never help.

Arrogant relatives sucks indeed!

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Why arrogant relatives are everywhere? 🤣 Dont mind them, as long as you didnt hurt someone just go on, be yourself and continue life.

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GOSSIP NEIGHBORS

I can more too lol!

BACKSTABBER FRIENDS

lol! I actually feel sorry for these people for they haven't felt loved.

ARROGANT RELATIVES

That's just sad the way your father is treated.

We really should kill them all with kindness. We should leave a peaceful life and stress free life so treat them well. At least you know in your heart and conscience that you did not do harm to them.

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3 years ago

yes po, tayo na yung magpapakumbaba....tama ba hahaha para sa katahimikan ng buhay.. thank you sir

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Arrogant relatives? Yes maramiiiiiii. Hahaha bahala sila sa buhay nila.

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3 years ago

ano ba yan lahat ng nagcomment dito meron nyan, bakit ganun no kung sino pa kadugo mo siya pang masama ugali. Pero sabi mo nga bahala sila hehe... magsasawa din yan

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Di mawawala talaga yung mga toxic relatives ehh ewan ko talaga

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Hay naku sis relate ako sa mga toxic n nkapaligid kaya ang gawa e layuan sila ayaw kong mastress sa mga ganyang klase ng tao. Mas mainam pa minsan na mag isa nalang tayo. Kaya fight lang always.

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haiiist ang dami kase pinakikiaalaman sa buhay, ayaw sariling buhay ang imanage at ayusin....

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Hahaha andami kong relate lahat sila meron sa buhay ko jusko pero syempre mas maganda nalang natayo na mag adjust na lumayo sa kanila mas maganda nalang yung tayo ang tatahimik at tayo ang lumayo kesa gatungan pa katoxican nila sa buhay natin 🥺 nakakasad lang na kung sino pang pamilya mo sila pa talaga ang ganyan diba? Dito din sakin eh HAHAHA Dami nila lol

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Ay naku sis kaya ko nasulat yan haha, minsan kase hindi mo din maiwasan magalit kase sumusobra na...

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Bat di napasama si ex bhe. Haha excited pa ako mag basa haha, grabe bilis nasa 41st na ou,. Congrats bhem, sinong mag aakala aabot tayo sa ganito hehe keep going.,!!

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3 years ago

Ayoko isama yun bhe masisira ang morning ko...hehe....yes bhe congrats satin mas lalo na sayo

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3 years ago

Mhy. Mga relatives ko toxic. Nagsisiraan sila. Haystt. Ewan ko ba. Kadugo naman sila pero nag aaway through online . Public pa naman. Minsan kmi na lang nahihiya kasi kapamilya namin. Pero yung isang fam lang na family namin yung Toxic.

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Hindi na yata maiiwasan ang ganyan sis, huwag na lang tayo maki level sa kanila, tumahimik at magpakumbaba na lang.

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3 years ago

Toxic people can be found everywhere. They can be our friends, neighbors and relatives as you said. It is so easy to spot those types of people. But sometimes, we can't also deny the fact that at some point in our lives, we also became toxic. However, as long as we are breathing, we can always be better.

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You are right in some point of our lives we also became toxic, but not in ruining someones life. Its a big no, hindi kami magkalevel hehe

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3 years ago

Truuuee. Grabe na din yung naninira ng buhay ng iba.

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3 years ago

dito madami saming toxic...Ung mabait ung tao ggwin nila ng storya para mgng masama sa paningin ng ibang tao ung tao n pingcchismisan nila

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3 years ago

hindi nawawala yan, bakit yata may ganun ayaw sariling buhay ang pakialaman...

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3 years ago

Arrogant relatives sis, ung tita ko sobrang toxic. Sa sobrang toxic minsan di maiiwasang maisumpa e 🙄

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Naku sis pareho pala tayo, kung sino pa talaga ang totoong kadugo siya pang masama ang ugali....

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I guess men are luckier about your toxic analogy, because I have no complaints about it either. Not many men I know do. But I can hear and observe that some women have friends, relatives, neighbors as you liken them.

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Yeah you are right, men is luckier. It is based on my experience and so far no men involved in that. Thank you.

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