General cleaning
Sharing you what happened today. In the morning my husband went to market to buy ingredients for our dish for lunch. At first he told me that he want to cook fish stew, so I did not say anything since I told him already last night that I want shrimp and veggies in coconut milk, so I did not bother to remind him what viand I want. When he cameback from market he told me that he will cook shrimp and crab with veggies and coconut milk instead, coz he remembered what I wanted 😁🥰.
Flexing you what he cooked 😊
Actually this viand is the first one that he cooked for me before we enter in a relationship 😊
After lunch he went to bus tetminal to pick up my MIL who will take good care of our baby when I back to work. When they came and my MIL done eating and rest a little time. She automatically clean the portion of the house that we did not usually visit haha. We have a small space but there are portion that we really not giving any attention. I have been asking my husband to do the general cleaning since last week but he keeps on saying that he will do it later, since I do not want to argue I just let him decide when he is going to do it. Im glad my MIL came and she was able to do the general cleaning of our small house .
Honestly Im not good in cleaning, I usually clean what I saw, and usually I will ask someone to clean all my mess. Coz I know that I am not good at it thats why I always ask my nieces to clean my room before when I was single. In return I will jist treat them in fastfood. Same when it come to my office I used to have someone to do all the cleaning. Cleaning is not really my forte, but I want an organize area but dont expect me that I will do all the cleaning.
There are really things that we are not good at it, Im not justifying my laziness chaarrr, I do cleaning but not that intense haha
Thats all for today,
Thank you😊
It's laundry day
Good day everyone, I hope everyone are ok since colds and cough are common these days. Thank God Im totally fine. Since in 3 days time I will be returning to my work so me and my husband clear all of our mess and of course we need to wash our dirty clothes. As usual, our routine is my husband will do the laundry and I am the one who will hang it.
By the way I just want to flex 😁 he cooked paksiw na bangus last night aside from stewed mussel, coz the mussel is for dinner while the milk fish is for breakfast today. Here is the stewed mussel that he cooked. Im not a fan of mussels unless it is part of buttered seafoods of baked mussel in cheese. But last night I ate almost half of it or more hihi. Maybe because its been a while since the last time I ate it.
Since we already ate late our breakfast we did not eat rice meal for lunch. We just eat banana loaf. Before he start the laundry he ate papaya first, I dont knoe whats with papaya I do not like eating it in plain. Well I can eat it if it is in the fruit salad, but if I eat it as is. Naah I really dont like it 😁
My husband finished the laundry around 5 pm, while I am hangjng the clothes I feel my hunger and thats the time I realized that I did not eat my lunch and we did not eat merienda either😂
Sometimes because of our busy schedules or we are busy doing things we forget something that are also important to us😊
Thats all for today I just share some of our highlight for today chaaar. Daily blog yarn 😂
Thanks for reading
My little one's vaccination day
Good day read.cash fam, I feel better now compared yesterday. Just sharing you how our day went today. As what I said on my article yesterday today is the vaccination day of my baby. We went to our barangay center past 10am, since my baby woke up late coz she sleep late last night. Since she has cold and cough we waited for the doctor first for her check up, coz we need advice from the doctor if she can receive her vaccine today eventhough she have colds and cough. Since the doctor is late we have to wait for him.
Around 11 am the doctor arrived and upon checking her vitals Im glad that she is just ok, since cold and cough are just normal coz she does not have fever. So after her check up the nurse give her the shot of the vaccines, one in the left leg while the other is in the right. This time she cried loud since she was shot while she was awake compared before that she is sleeping. So this time she probably feel the pain.
I also feel pain in my heart as of the moment chaaarrr🤣🤣🤣. Actually slight hihi. Coz the ticket price of the reunion concert of Eraserheads was already release. And sad to say the cheapest price is 3,050 php
I never thought that it will be pricey like this haha. The last time that I watched their concert it only cost 300php lol now its 10 times higher haha. And one of my friend mention me in the comment section
I really thought I was able to watch it in 50/50 chance, coz Im planning to reward it to myself as a bithday gift since the day of the concert is near on my birthdate. But seing the price of the tickets naaah I better eat delicious food with my family. So definitely I will not able to watch it haha how sadness.
Yes I used to be a impulsive buyer but I never spend that much for a single event that will only last for 2 to 3 hours. But if we are rich why not haha, coz I know that their performance will be worth it. And feelings of the enjoyment and excitement is really different when tou are part of the crowd. But since we are not rich haha I will just move on😊. Even if rusty will give me that amount I will still not spend it for that ticjet hahah eheem rusty it seems that you are not visiting me lately hmmm 😂😂.
Thats all for today. Have a good day and keep safe everyone.
Not feeling well
Good rainy afternoon everyone. Its been raining here in our place since morning. I woke up this morning with sore throat, it seems that I will be having a fever. But thank Gods it did not continue, but I still dont feel that well. Actually my baby and my husband got colds 2 days ago. But its already gone now since they already take medicines. But last night and till now my baby is coughing although it is not that frequent I still feel worried. Tomorrow is her vaccination day so we might also visit a doctor for her to be check.
Since Im not feeling well today, I crave for hot congee since it is my comfort food especially during times that I feel sick. Im glad that my niece next door is available to fo to the market to buy ingredients and to buy medicine. After I ate, I lay down in the matress where my baby is since I did not put her in her crib. Since Im not feeling well I just let my baby beside me and I just wear face mask . Maybe after 30 minutes I feel asleep, when I woke up I see my baby sleeping beside me. I feel guilty that she sleep on her own.
I just hope that I will feel better soon, coz its hard to take good care my baby. Im glad the hubby is on keave starting tomorrow.
Thats all for now. I supposed to published this a while ago, since I fall asleep I was not ableto finished it. And im afraid that rusty will not visit me since I was not able to read some article for now.
Thank you
Perks of being the youngest
I used to share here mostly of how hardship my life is before. Sharing how I was able to cope up with those challenges. But of course my life is not that all hard. I have also experience to be pampered. My life is not that hard, yes we are poor but my parents was able to provide foods in our table. And being a working student during college is my choice coz I do not want to be a burden anymore to my old parents.
Despite of growing in a poor family I can say that I had a happy memory of my childhood. Since I am the youngest I benefited from the salary of my older siblings 😁 when they already working. Our eldest is D1, we have 12 or 13 years of age gap Im not sure how old he is now. Since we have a huge age gap and he is too strict and grumpy, we are not close. But with D2, I think our age gap is 10 or 11 years. Although we have that age gap we were close coz he is cool. He is the one who pampered me with everything, when he started working. I remember that every payday he will bring hersheys chocolates or toblerone for me or he will bring me to Jollibee to eat my favorite spag and chickenjoy. When D2 is still single I was able to get what I want but it change of course when he got married and I understand it. While D3 and me have 6 years gap and with D4 we have 4 years gap.
When I was a kid I used to play with D3 and D4, actually some thought that I will grow as lesbian since I used to play with boys game. Even when I am already a teenager D3 and D4 bring me in their basketball games everytime theres a barangay league so that they have someone to give them ice water when they need to lol. We even stay late outside coz there are time that their games end really late. Of course I do not have to worry coz I know that my kuyas will take care of me 😊. And I love watching their games coz aside from being their water girl, I am their cheerleader who sit on the bench with other players haha. And these two Kuyas are also the one who's doing my school projects. D3 used to do my school project when I was in grade school since he knew what art is, actually both of them (computer is not yet in trend before) They both won in poster making contest before. Since D3 is already a working student when I was in high school he was not able to do my school projects, so D4 replaced that ŕole. I remember during that time since D4 is already in college and he usually came home late, I cannot wait him anymore to tell him what my project is. So I will just left a note on what he need to do and I will sleep. And when I woke in the morning my school project is already done😊.
While my sister is the one who fixed my hair before going to school. She knows how to do different kinds of braid.
Those memories of my childhood proves that our life is not that hard. It jus happened that when I starting to grow my siblings starting to be old also, so they have to have their own family. That means that they will face their own life with their family. Thats why when I was in college I need to help myself. Coz D4 did not get a stable job right away and D3 only works as rank and file that time. Maybe this is the reason why D3 still gives in into all my paglalambing whenever I ask him, coz he was not able to help me before. Since he is now blessed he share it with us. And our parents taught us to help each other and share what we have to one another.
Our family is not perfect there are some tampuhan to us siblings, but since we are 6 there are still a moderator. Its happy to look back on those memories when I do not have to worry what life will bring me.
Old habit dont die easily 😁
Good day read.cash fam, its a gloomy day today here in our place. Maybe rain will fall later. Since my baby is sleeping right now I was able to do this article and later I will continue the Kdrama that I am watching.
Yesterday I message my older brother D3 since I have 4 older brother coz Im the youngest and all their names start with letter D 🤣🤣🤣 I better assigned code for them. Anyway I chatted him that I need additional cash on my e wallet amounting to 300 php coz I need to buy something tru online and I do not have time to go out to cash in and I do not want to convert my earnings here and it is not that big since I already used it to buy cake for my baby's 3rd month and I also used it to pay for the baked goods that I ate last time 😁. So after he read my message he sent me 500 instead of 300 right away. And I asked him if the difference is for my Jollibee cravings 🤣🤣. He just gave me that amount and I do not have to pay for it. Coz we are like that. Unless its a thousands of pesos😂. Actually I still have debt to him during my pregnancy and he just told me that I can pay it if our financial capacity is already stable. Coz he knows that I usually pay him everytime that I borrowed some money from him.
In our family, brother D3 is our knight and shining armour when it comes to financial since among of us, he is the one who has the better job and also his wife. Im just glad that his wife is also a good person. Before I marry my SIL adviced me that I should never showed off to my husband that I am earning bigger compare to him coz it may hit his ego. Coz my sister in law is earning much compared to brother D3. Although they are almost same in terms of position they are working in different company. It just happened that she works in a international company who compensate well their employee. Maybe because both of them are really generous in both families, thats why they were really blessed.
I just realized that I brought my habit when I was young until now that I have my own family lol. Coz I am the youngest I usually ask brother D3 and D2 everytime that I want something to eat or I need some personal things before. It maybe sound shameful but I do not feel ashame with them and Im not the type of person naman who just take and take 🤣🤣. I also give if I have, actually my older sister owes me a lot before, but I told her that dont bother to pay me coz I know that they are having a hard time when it comes in financial since her eldest is already in college. I know how hard it is.
There are really habits that dont die easily. Since I believe that my kind of habit is just some kind of "paglalambing" to my Kuyas I can say that nothing is wrong with it. Coz if incase that they cannot give what I ask I will definitely understand it, coz that what is family love 😉
Thats all for now. I just share how hard my face is when it comes to my brother haha.
What motivates you in life?
This is supposedly my article yesterday, as what I have said in my article yesterday. Anyway with regards to the bicol express that I cooked, my husband love it 😊 see Im not just praising myself haha. So lets go to my topic.
Is there anytime in your life that you feel that everythings are not going according to your plan, that make you want to quit in whatever you are doing? And what make you stay on your goal or what motivated you to go on? Me, lot of times 🤣🤣🤣. Let me share to you some of my experience where I want to quit. Ow it seems that I have lot of experience when it comes to quitting haha. Anyway I'll just share 3 instances since I have only 1 motivator when I feel like quitting.
During my first working experience as a service crew in one the biggest fast food chain in the country. Where I feel like quitting my job coz of the schedule where I came home super late like almost 1 AM everytime that I am in closing schedule. But in the end I was able to finish my contract coz that time my goal is to finished my studies. Its hard to be a working student where you need to use your strength to work at the same time you need to use your brain in order for you to passed on your subjects. Despite of those hardship I stay on my goal coz its also a dream of my parents, that all of their children will finished our studies coz they know how hard life is. But unfortunately they cannot provide my school tuition fee since they are already old. Since I am the youngest I am the last to fulfill their dream.
While Im in 3rd year college I also thought of giving up my studies and focus on working. But decided to go on coz my goal is to finish my studies not because its my parents dream, but because I know that it will help me to have a better life. Coz I do not want to experience again the hardship that I experience before. Maybe those experiences are things that motivate me. And I want my parents to be happy.
When I acquire a house in lot tru in house financing, since I have to pay for its downpayment or what you call equity. I feel like I want to give up that property coz in the first 6 months of paying its amortization my lifestyle change instantly since I need to save some money.
But in the end I did not quit, coz what I really want is a better life. My hard experiences in life are my motivation to move forward, coz I do not want to be stuck on that kind of situation. Yes we was able to eat 3x a day and sometimes we have snacks when we are kids, but that is not my dream life style. And I do not want my child to experience those kind of hardship, maybe it is also the reason why I end up marrying late. All I want is a better life. I know that there are still challeges that I need to face, but this time I have more reason to pursue my dreams. Coz now there is a little child who will be benefited of whatever efforts that I will be doing.
Thanks for reading😊
Random thoughts
Good day to all read.cash fam. Its a rainy day today here in our place. Before I start I want to flex what I am cooking today since I was able to ask someone to go to the market and my baby is not clingy today😆. Here is what I am cooking bicol express by truely yours haha,. I have been craving for this since last week
Actually this is not supposed to be my topic today. But it just happened that some thought circulating my mind. And I cannot concentrate on my real topic today, in fact I already on my 3rd stanza while cooking lol. Since I want to flex this I will just share you hows our day today.
Today we have to deliver all the orders of the baked good that we are reselling. And mostly of those are repeat orders since they liked the taste of the products.
My husband left earlier compare to his usual routine coz he need to slow down in driving to avoid deforming of the products and its packaging. One item was left coz the one who supposed to bring it to the customer will not be able to come to work coz of her colds. So I just eat it for breakfast haha
So i need to pay it out of my earnings here in read.cash lol. Coz that is business you have to pay it if you consume it. Although it can cover up by our earning in reselling those baked goods, its better if I pay for it😊. Again thank you rusty😇
While typing this I am carrying my little one (while waiting for the viand that I am cookind to be cooked)coz she was awaken by thunder. Actually she has her cold today maybe because of changing of weather and I am observing her if we need to bring her to her pedia. She had colds before and we still have medicine for it.
After cooking and do some household chores, I will continue the Kdrama that I am currently watching its title is "Sweet stranger and me" its a romcom series, according to google it was release back in 2016 pa which is based on webtoon 2015. I just got curious on this Kdrama when I watched a video clip of it in Tiktok so I search for it but unfortunately there is no Tagalog dubbed, so I have to stop now and then in watching it if I have to do something since I need to read subtitles.
By the way this is the finished product😊 its taste good naman mapapa extra rice k . Nah Im not just praising my cooking ability I just stating a fact 😂😂😂 coz mostly of my cooked items are just pacham and Im glad that I got this one . Since we are just 3, me, my husband and our baby who live here in our house this viand will serve till dinner.
Thats all for today.
Thank you and keep safe everyone.
How to cope up?
Mostly of us have already faced challenge or struggles in life once in our lifetime. How you was able to cope up?
Based on my experience one greatest common denominator of coping it up whatever challenge or hardship that I encountered is prayer. Nah I would like to clear that I am not a religious person, I seldom visit church to attend mass and honestly I do not read Bible and I do not have memorize any verse😔. But I believe that theres God who created everything, that make me believe in the power of praying.
In every situation that I feel like I am breaking I always runned to HIM by praying wether in church or in the comfort of my own room. And of course I also pray to give thanks for all the blessing.
I remember when I was in college, I was confused wether to continue my studies or just stop since I am already working that time. I prayed hard to be guided on whatever decision I will make. Theres a chapel in our campus where I stayed during breaktime coz usually I have a broken sched since I am an irregular student due to my working shift.
When I had my first heartache, in order to cope with it I went to church almost everyday and prayed. Know what? Everytime that I went to church that time I lighted one candle together with prayer that all the pain that I felt during that time will washed away lol. I lighted almost hundred pieces of candles until I stop. I stop lighting candles when I do not feel anymore pain. Maybe I should title this "how to move on" chaaarrr😂😂. Remembering those times makes me laugh lol.
Before I enter in a relationship with my husband now, I prayed hard wether to be in telationship with him or not , coz he is younger than me and some of the things that I do not want in a man to be a boyfriend, he has it such as tatoo and more 🤣🤣🤣. But I ended up marrying him. I believe that its a Gods will why we ended up together.
Before I got pregnant, I prayed hard because I had PCOS that time. I am already worried coz I am not getting any younger. And during my pregnancy we encountered lot of struggles in means of financial due to lots of laboratory test and some medication. And we are glad we surpassed all of it.
Those are just some of the challenges and struggles in my life where prayer is the answer to ease all the worries and pain that I feel. Coz everytime that I am in the situation that I feel that it is hard to cope with I always pray, wether I am sad, in pain or i feel anger. And of course it is better if there is someone that you can trust to share all your feelings.
Im not saying that when you pray everything will be ok, there are wishes that do not come true or problems that will be taken right away. But by praying all the heavy feelings that you feel will lessen. This works with me, but I am not sure if it works to some other too. Maybe its all about your faith and the way you handle it😊
Thanks for reading 😊
My little one on her 3rd month
Happy rainy evening to everyone. I hope everyone are safe. Just sharing you what happened today.
Today is the 3rd month of my baby. As what we used to during on her monthly milestone, we order a number cake for her 3rd month to my baker friend. It supposed to be mini mouse coz that what is the design of one of her onesie (I just based her cake on what available dress/onesie she have) but we have misunderstanding on the design coz my friend thought, is mickey mouse lol. But it will still serve its purpose so I did not ask to change the topper since it looks beautiful naman.
Anyway thanks again rusty coz I was able to buy this out of my earnings here in read.cash. We do not have extra budget for other dish coz I am trying to save some money hehe, and since my husband have his duty today so we do not plan to cook or buy food for merienda aside from cake . But one of my brother and my niece came before lunch and asked what am I going to cook for merienda. I just told him that I have limited budget😂, so he gave me money to buy ingredients for pansit haha. Coz I was not informed that my other brothers will also come, so we need some food to share with. After lunch I went to supermarket as instructed by my dear brother while my other brother take good care of my baby
Actually I thought that my brother who sponsor the food will not come anymore because theres a typhoon coming today,and I never thought also that he will invite all of my siblings to come by to have a get together.
Despite of the incoming typhoon we able to celebrate my little one's 3rd month together with our family and my husband was able to come in the afternoon.
Its been a while since me and my siblings had a get together, the last time is last summer this year when my brother treat all of us in a beach outing. Its happy to know that despite of busy schedule of each and everyone they was able to spend some of their time to visit us. Maybe because we are family. A bond that will never taken away from us that was taught by our parents. But for sure it will be much happier if we are complete.
Thats all for today. Keep safe everyone😉
Booksmart or street smart?
As we grow old mostly of what we want and believe change. Like when it comes to your perception. Let me share to you what point of view I have during the times that I am still a student.
When I was in grade school I am grade conscious, but I am not belong to top 10, I am just an average student but I make sure that I maintain my section from grade one to six which is section 1. And one of the rules of my father is if we have a grade that are 79 and below he will not sign our report card. When we are kids me and my siblings consider it as an achievement haha.
While during high school all I want is also to stay in section 1 since mostly of my classmate starting grade school are also my classmate till high school so my sets of my friends are also in the same section. But this time no pressure to have a good grades lol.
But when I am in college all I want is just to finished my studies, I do not care if my grade is 3 or what you called "pasang awa", I even have a failed grade which is 5 and the worst of it, it happened twice in just one subject. When it happened I just move on right away, since I am working student that time and I have my own earning its not big deal if ever I failed. But thinking about it I just realized that I wasted thousand of pesos because of that since the price of per unit during that time is more or less 1k since that subject is 3 units hmm its really a bit big amount for someone like me who is working 4 to 6 hours a day during that time.
Yes it is better to have a good grades when the time that you will look for a job. But I also have met lots of people who have good grades in school and most of them are good in presentation, but when they were already in the actual situation they do not know how to strategize. Its hard to be live in by the book all the time, sometimes you have to be aware what is in the real world. Coz not everything are taught in the school. There are also people who have very low grade before but became more successful compare to those people who are in the honor list.
As what we say, you can never judge someone just because of their scholastic records, coz there are people that are stabilized by their own experience in life.
Maybe it is better to have a balance knowledge, in order for you to survive in the real world. Coz as what saying says after you finished your studies thats the time you will face the real challenge in life. Study hard but dont be harsh on yourself.
I lost 😁
Good day read.cash fam, I was not able to make an article yesterday due to busy schedule chaarrr😁.
Sharing you how did our day went. Yesterday and today is my husband's restday, but yesterday we decided to clean some of our mess and rearrange our small house in preparation of my MIL coming who will take good care of my baby once I go back to work.
For the meantime we stay in my family's owned house but we have our own small place here since our old house was divided into 3 small apartment (I do not know how to call it lol) coz 2 of my other siblings also stays here. We decided to stay here for the meantime so we do not need to rent while waiting for the MRT 7 to be operational, coz it will be hard for me to travel to work if we will stay to our own house which is located somewhere in Bulacan. And speaking of our house, I get stressed yesterday because I received a demand letter from Pag-ibig requesting the copy of official receipt of real tax payment for this year. Since we do not receive any notice for this I asked my husband to go the office of the developer of the subdivision to ask the process of paying it since it will be the first time that we received that kind of demand letter. And according to the admin office of the subdivision we do not have to worry about it coz they are still the one who will process it since the title of the unit is not yet under my name. Since my husband went to Bulacan yesterday we were not able to finished all the things that we have to do and for the first time that he is on RD he did not cook a good dish but instead I just cook fried hotdogs for lunch and luncheon meat for dinner.
Since he was not able to cook yesterday he cooked today fish stew in tamarind. Atlast after a week I was able to eat a decent meal again 😂.
After we ate our lunch, my husband told me that he will take a nap first before he will do the laundry. Since he did not do the laundry last week because his lazyness came out 😂, I teased him that for sure he will not be able to do the laundry again same as last week and he told me that we shall bet on it and I agreed to bet 2 boxes of pizza. While he is taking his nap I washed the dishes and clean up the remaining mess. I thought that I will win our bet since his afternoon nap took longer as like as before, but around 2 pm he woke up and prepared all the dirty clothes and do the laundry. So I lost in our bet😂. After he finished the laundry I am the one who hanged it as our routine while he go out after he take a bath and buy pizza.
Im glad that I still have some fund for unexpected expenses for instances like this haha. And of course its because rusty became generous this past few days 😁. Although I lost atleast I have a happy tummy. It still a win win scenario😂
Thats all for today. Thank you for reading.
Thank you Rusty😊
I started in read.cash 10 months ago, I only became active here last june after I gave birth. Coz at first I do not know how I will earn from those articles I made. I thought before if I just read and likes some of the article I will earn. So I got disappointed when I already made some articles but it did not earn so I stop making articles.
But when I got bored after I given birth I tried to make an article again. Thanks to my sister in law she gave me the idea how it works😊. And I am glad that rusty visits me now and then. Although there are times that maybe he is too busy that he forgot me which make me sad lol.
I usually not a type of person who started the conversation either in online platform or in person. But because interaction is the key here in read.cash, I started to be more vocal in my opinion in those article that I read. And thank to this platform I have learned to set aside my shyness in commenting in others work (coz I thought before that mostly who are in this platform knew each other the way they leave comments in articles thats why at first Im a little bit shy to leave comments coz I feel that I am an outcast 🤣). And also I was able to read some articles that are impormative. And meet writer who have sense of humor and creative like @Ruffa hehe I really like the way you write although when it comes to crypto trading I cannot relate anymore😂.
And of course I love this platform coz I was able to satisfy my cravings lol. Since food is life 😊. Sharing you what happen this afternoon. As what I have mention from my previous articles that me and my baby only left in our house everyday. Since the classes already started, my niece who usually I asked to take care of my baby when I have to go to the market is already on class I do not have a choice but to eat what is available on out stocks. Since I dont feel eating canned goods or noodles today, I decided to get some amount on my earning here in read.cash to buy food online. As I explore the delivery app I saw that theres a 99 php discount in the item that is in my cart , actually I have been craving for it since last week thats why I already added it on my cart but I am trying to be frugal 😂. So I grab the chance to satisfy my cravings and I am so happy that I also got additional less of 40 php so it lessen my guilt feeling of spending 207 for lunch. Actually it is for brunch since I just drink coffe this morning.
Maybe its not that bad to satisfy my craving once in a while 😊
Thank you rusty for visiting me.😉 it makes my tummy super happy 😁
One rainy afternoon
I woke up at 930 Am today due to the sounds of heavy rain dropping in our roof. Actually my first woke up is 4Am due to the alarm of my husband since he will be going to work. Usually after he left I will sleep again. But this morning our baby woke up early so I need to feed her. So after she sleep I continued my sleep.
After doing some household chores and eat my brunch I decided to continue the Kdrama that I am watching in Netflix. While watching, my husband mention me in a post in facebook
My excitement erupted. Because the post is about the upcoming concert of my favorite band which is eraserheads. And it has already its date which is December 22 this year. I searched for the ticket price but as of now is not yet for sale. Few days ago there is already a hint that they going to have a reunion concert again because all the member of that disband group posted this photo
Their group became famous in 90's with their hit single Pare ko. I known the band because one of my brother's friend is a avid fan. Since we lived in a wide place when I was a kid it became the hang out of my siblings friend and later on me and my friends (oh I miss that place 😁).And that friend of my brother brought the casette tape of his newly purchased album of Eraserheads that time and they listen to it. As I listened also that time, I find their music cool. A mild alternative rock . And thats the start that they became my favorite band. I keep looking forward in every guesting of Eraserheads in every TV program. I really like them but I am not a typical fan who will spend to buy their album. I am contented by just hearing their music. Actually most of the songs in my mp3 playlist before are their songs
And when the group was dispanded in 2002 because Ely left the band, I felt sad coz I will not see them again performing in the same stage. Eventhough Ely created a new band I did not like it the way I like the E-heads.
Thats why in year 2008 I did not missed their reunion concert in Moa grounds. Where I had to say lies to my managet just to attend that concert coz she did not allow me to take my leave so I just lied to her that I am not feeling well on the date of that concert.
And now that they having again the reunion concert, I want to watch it but unfortunately there is a posibility that I will not be able to witnes it coz December is the peakest season of our company where all day off starting December will be cancelled. Well I just hope that I will bw able to watch it😊
Love yourself
This article is some how related to my article yesterday. It is not a continuation of that article but it has connection with it.
For me it is important to love yourself first for you to be able to give love to others. Loving yourself does not mean being selfish. And one way of it is how you let other treat you. As what the saying said "***how*** ***you treat yourself is how you are inviting the world to treat you".*** Coz you are the one who teach the people how you will be treated. It is not only applied to your partner but it should also apply in everyone you meet.
This is what I have said on my article yesterday. If from the very start you allow your partner not to treat you good, well definitely he will not treat you better later on. I know that you can never tell or you will never see all the bad attitude of one person in an instance. But observing one's behaviour will save you from a mess. Yes there are possibilities that a not so good person will change for a better, but sometimes you have to lay your cards in order for them to realize what is wrong with them.
Sometimes there are people who already experienced to be abused by their partner while they are still in dating stage but still decided to marry the one who abused them. But why do others stay in toxic and abusive relationship? Does it means that they not love theirselves? I watched an clip interview of a tv program to a psychologist . According to her mostly of those kind of cases, their experience in childhood has a big impact why they end up like that. They allow it to happen because they want to please other people. While other stays simply because they do not know where to start. Those wife who only depend on their husband while other reason is they want to stay because they dont want their marriage to be broken and be a broken family. Mostly of those people are thinking that it will affect their children.
This is why it is important to love yourself so that you will be able to give love. Loving yourself or setting standards on how you will be treated does not guarantee that your marriage will last for the rest of your lives. Because as what they said ***"A long lasting marriage is built by two people who believe in and live by the solemn promise they made".***
Some important reminders in choosing your partner
While scrolling my news feed on facebook I read a post in Peso Sense one of the page that I am following, its a post in regards to one of the follower who seeking advice about her partner who does not treating her well. Actually that is not the first time that I read that kind of scenario, you can see it also in some tv programs. A wife seeking advice what she will do in her situation where her partner is not treating her well while some ends as a complain.
While you are still on a boyfriend-girlfriend stage of relationship you must observe the character of your partner, coz you will not see it during courting stage coz definitely they will show only positive things. I believe that entering in a romantic relationahip your goal is to lead that in more serious stage. Its a way of knowing if both of you have the chemistry and if he/she has the character that you can stand until the end. It is also a way to set standards and bounderies of dos and donts.
As a girl I stand firm that never ever allow your partner to hurt you physically and used abusive language towards you and never allow your man to shout or even raised his voice on you coz for me its a way of disrespecting you. Call me super OA or too sensitive but that is my stand. The moment your man raised his voice on you gurl you better think right away , I consider it as a red flag and its a big NO NO. Coz I believe that once you allowed it, he will think that it is just ok with you. And there will be possibility that he will do it over & over again.
Since I grew up seeing how my father treat my mom, maybe thats why I ended up setting that standard. Coz I have never seen or heard my father shouting my mom and I never seen them fighting (maybe they are very discret about it). Thats why at the very beginning of my relationship with my ex boyfriend now my husband I emphasized that rules. I am not sure if its because I said it thats why he is not doing it or it is really his character. But definitely I can say that my husband is a good man. Although its too early to tell. But in our almost 4 years relationship I never experience to be shouted by him. Try nya lang, he will see the devil in me 😂😂.I am not saying that our relationship is perfect but there are also some tampuhan that mostly because of my sensitivity lol. And I am really glad that he never make patol😂. And I hope that he will stay that way 😂.
As early as boyfriend-girlfriend stage you must know the attitude of your partner, coz it will be harder if you are already married when you will find out that you can not stand with his or her not so good attitude. Coz when you are already married you have to consider lots of things especially when there are children involve.
These are just some of the many things that you have to consider...... I am not a pschology expert nor a love guru but all what I have mention are based on my opinion😉
Thats all for now.
Two heads are better than one
Good day read.cash family. I have been busy for these week since me and my husband decided to resell some baked goods that were made by a friend of mine. I need to answer some inquiries in messenger of some possible buyer. I also have been busy taking good care of our baby. Now that her routine changed, her every napped lasted only for 1 hour to 1 and a half hour, but sometimes it only lasted for 30 to 45 minutes and thats the only time I will take the chance to do some household chores. Coz when she is awaked she is blabby. Although she only produce sounds, I still talking to her and it also consume my time. And I used some of my extra time watching Kdrama " The Taxi Driver", a action and thrilling genre.
Anyway I would like to share you hows our day went today.
Today is my husbands RD so I have time to sit down and relax lol. Early this morning I went to the market to buy ingredients for arroz caldo, since as what I have said before congee is one of my comfort food. When I came back my husband is sleeping again, he is the one who supposed to cook but he told me that he want to sleep more coz he is planning to do the laundry. So I have no choice but to cook it🤣. I know naman how to cook, but he is better than me when it comes to the kitchen, coz mostly of what I cooked is pacham 😂. And I hate slicing ingredients especially when it comes to ginger, onion and garlic, I just slice it the way what is easy for me lol.
So after more than 1 hour here is my finished own version of arroz caldo 😁
I forgot to buy some fats of beef but infairness it taste good naman daw as per my husband and nieces who ate it.😊
After we ate breakfast my husband went to the market to buy ingredients for the dish that he will cook for lunch and I am the one who left to take good care of our baby. While my husband is cooking I bathed our little one and feed her. While waiting for what he is cooking he joined us in our bed to talk to our baby since she is really blabby. She loves talking by making sounds.
After an hour here is the dish that cooked by my husband sinampalukang manok, since young leaves of tamarind is hard to find in our market he just used the instant tamarind powder. But still, it really taste good. It's one of my favorite dish that he usually cook.
After we ate lunch, he felt lazy and told me that he will just do the laundry on his next RD, since it's not that much. Our set up when it comes to laundry when he is RD he is the one who will do the washing and drying of clothes thru dryer while I am the one who will hang it. Before I got pregnant we used to help each other in doing the laundry. Now I only washed some of our personal and important things such as undies and his uniform during my free time.
In every task, it is better to have someone that will help you to finish the job. It is important in the family to have assigned task each and everyone so that it will not hard for only one. As what the saying says " A relationship should be about helping each other deal with the stress the world brings and not adding unnecessarry stress to each others lives" .
Thats all for now.
Thank you
There are really come a time that you just want to lay down & relax 😂😂. Its been 2 days since the last time that I made an article. I just finished watching kdrama "The Taxi Driver" and Im a little bit busy answering some inquiries. And my little one starting to utter sounds . Its funny talking to her even though it is just a mumbling sounds😊
I miss my mom 🥺
Its been four months since my mom back to our province. After I read an article here in read.cash about mothers love, I can't help myself to be teary eyed. I do not know, I know that I am strong person but when it comes to my parents I easily breakdown.
I grew up close to both of my parents, maybe because I am the youngest. I rememeber when I was a child, I do not eat other vegetables aside from laing, jackfruit in coconut milk and banana heart in coconut milk. Everytime that our viand is vegetable that are not included in the list of what I eat, my mom will set aside some portion of the main ingredient such as sardines or meat so that I will have my own viand since she know that I will not eat if it is vegetable. I still remember times that she tells story before I sleep.
As I grew I have seen all the sacrifices that what my mom did for us to survive our daily life. One of it is she helped my father by selling some snacks and fruits outside our school. Honestly at first, I feel ashamed that my mom was there outside the school selling stuffs. During that time I am too stupid not to understand the situation. Later on maybe around after a week I understand why she have to do it. I even become her reliever in selling after my class. She always do things in order to help my father to earn some money.
I remember the first time that I got my mid year annual bonus, I bought a sala set for our house coz our old sala set is already not in good condition, she was surprised that there is a delivery of new sala set. I still remember how happy she is that made her cry same with her reaction when my older brother bought her a washing machine. And the time time I bring her to the mall to shop some of her personal things and to eat out, her happiness is real. She was sooo easy to please.
I am sad that I was not able to give her a better good life after I finished my studies. Yes I was able to give her some portion of my earnings before but I know that those are not enough. Coz I put my happiness first by spending on material things and by travelling. And I have some guilt feeling. Although I and my older brother are the one who supported them when they need financial help such as emergency I still feel that those are not enough for all the sarcifices of my parents.
When she had her stroke, her attitude change or maybe because she is already too old since she is now 78, her undrestanding is not same as before. And I hate myself everytime that I make patol to her. I do not want to try to justify it, but maybe because of my hormones because I am pregnant that time thats why I make patol to her. Oh my gosh my tears are falling while typing this 😁. Maybe I just miss her so much that I want to go to our province to see her and introduce to her my little one.
Now that I am a mother, I appreciated more all the things that my mom did for us. A mothers love is realky unconditional. Is it true that whatever your age is when you got home the first time you will ask is "where is mom".
To those who are with their mom make sure that you will made them feel the love that you have for them. Coz there would come a time that you want to show that love but it is already too late. Thats why everytime that I had a chance before I always hug my mom and tell her I love her. I am not a perfect daughter but I know in my heart that I love my parents so much. And losing them is one of my greatest fear.
Back into the business
Now a days you will feel the hardship of life, especiallly that almost of all the basic commodities are increasing its price. Having only 1 income is not enough, especially those family that have a little one. Large portion of their income usually went to basic needs of the baby such as milk and diapers.
Since I am still on leave, I decided to resell again some pastries to add in our income. One of my friend who is a baker ask me if I wanted to resell some of her items. Since I know that her baked goods are really taste deliscious and I already proven it, I agreed. Coz I do not want to resell items that I am not confident with. Coz how will I promote items if I do not believe in it personally and I also want my customers to have confidence and faith in me when I said that its taste really good.
Here are some photos of what I sell
I asked my husband to sell it to his coworkers and I am glad that we got 31 orders of different pastries in one deliver where we earn more than 1000 php 😊 and I still have some orders to serve and some already for Christmas since it can be a Christmas give away.
Before I got pregnant I resell some peanut butter and while I am pregnant I used to made ice candies and sell it. Coz I am not used to, not to have my own money and I also want to help my husband, and infairness I was able to pay for our electricity bill out of its profit. But when I am already 8 months its hard for me everytime someone is calling to buy coz I need to go outside, tpos yung iba paisa isa pa ng bili 🤣. Now that I have given birth I can not do it coz my ref already gave up last month maybe because its already 13 years in the service lol. It is the first expensive appliances that I bought.
At first I also planned to learn how to bake thats why I bought last year an 30L oven, but after watching tutorials I found it complicated and of course I need to invest on some baking materials and utensils. And I feel that baking is not my forte😂. Coz you need to be consistent in mixing and you should have the right amount of mixture unlike in cooking you can make adjustments if you are still not satisfied on its taste. And I feel like it will be tiring if you are the one who will bake, compare to one who will sell 😂.
For now this is the only thing we can do, but hopefully soon our plan of having our own food business will come true in Gods time and will. Whats important to us now is we have additional income even though its not that big, it still better than nothing at all.
Thank you for reading😉
Things I regret part 2 😁
While listing all the things I regret yesterday, I found out that I have lot in the list so I decided to cut it into 2 articles, coz I think that it would be tiring or boring to read an article for more than 5 minutes.
By the way after more than a year finally my national ID was delivered in out doorstep yesterday. It was my first government ID using my married name .
Anyway lets back to my topic, here are the additional things that I regret;
***I did not save right away***. After I finished my studies I was able to have an stable job immediately. Since I did not enjoy all my earnings on my previous jobs coz all of my earnings went to my school needs, I spent mostly of my earning (on my regular job) mostly on foods and buying my wants and house improvement like sofa and some appliances. I bought foods that I was not able to buy before and share it to my family. I am not saying that I regret spending money that I shared with my family, what I regret is I did not save some portion of my earnings.
***I withdraw my investment out of emotion***. When I transferred to other company there is option that we can invest which earning tru dividend. When I feel stressed coz of work and think of resigning I pulled out right away my investment without thinking while I stayed in the company for additional 4 years after withdrawing my investment. So I did not enjoy the benefits of it.
***I was not able to control my emotions***. There are instances that I burst into my emotion where I answer back my Business Unit head out of stress and tiredness. After that I was branded as prodigal daughter 😁
***I should listen to my instinct***. If I just listened to my instict before, I have not wasted my 2 years in an on & off relationship with someone that I cannot trust 😂. And I would not resulted to almost destroying myself just to move on by doing thing that will be my greatest regret if ever I did that. Im glad that my faith and my self control is greater than my emotion and I came up to my senses right away 😂😂
***I should not be too trusty to people***. I should know before that not all the people around me has the same mindset as what I have. I should not give my all trust and confidence to my team before. That made me feel that I am not a good leader 😔 and destroyed my confidence.
***I should be choosy lol***. I should distance myself to those people who are only good to me if they gain something from me. And I hate it realizing that there are people like them.
***I should studied how read.cash work.*** I regret that I am not active in this platform on my first 7 months after I made an account and did not studied how to earn from it.
So far, that are the things that I regret, but still I still believe that everythings happen for a reason. Maybe God allowed us to decide on something and made a mistake in order for us to learn and to test our faith.
Things I regret
Is there anytime in your life that you regret something that you did or something that you did not do? Well I think all of us has it. It does not mean that it is all about doing mistake, it's like questioning what ifs? Me, I have some regrets and I will share you some of it.
***On my fourth year in high school***, I regret that I did not take the entrance exam in PUP ( well I am not saying that I am sure that I will pass that exam 😂) coz simply because I thought I will not be able to enroll on the next school year that time.
***After high school graduation***, after I passed the entrance exam in the state university near our house, I did not take the oppurtunity to study there which offer business course, for a non sense reason. It is because during that time the school campus is not yet in good condition. There are no school building that time. There are only classroom that are same as what in elementary and high school campus. And I do not like their school uniform. During that time I want the feeling of a real college student. ( apaka arte poorita naman lol )
***During my first course in college***, I regret that I did not finished my first course which is BS Math for Teachers. Because at the very first place I do not want to be a teacher, I cannot imagine myself being in a classroom in front of students. I did not take it seriously because I am afraid that if I will finish that course I will end up teaching. Only lately that I realized that even though I finished that course I can have a work that is not related on teaching. If I just continue that course maybe I will not experience the hardship of being a working student coz I do not have to work because I studied that time in a state university where my tuition fee is just more or less 500 php. By the way I ended up enrolling in this university coz its one if the well known university in the country and I like their school buildings 😁
***During my 2nd course*** . Taking a business course is I really wanted from the start since I was a kid, and when I starting in that business course I decided to take accountancy as my major. But in the end I ended up taking management as my major coz I am already a working student that time who does not focusing on studies 😁. It's one of my regret I did not take the major that I really wanted and not giving my best on my academic. The 2nd one is ***choosing*** ***the school***, yes I graduated from a well know school which specialized in engeneering that time, but that school is faraway in our house. Now I realized that if I choose the near school I will definitely save time and money coz of lesser transporation expense and lesser travel time.
In our life there are some decisions that we made out of emotions or out of influence of others . Sometimes we decide without thinking especially when we are still young and not matured enough. And when we grow older and looked back of the things that we did not do or things that we did, sometimes we questioned ourselves what if we not carried away by our emotions or what if we choose different path.....
Those are just some of things that I regret doing and I regret not doing. I still have lots on my list.
But thats all for now 😊
Thank you for spending some of your time reading this 🙂
Another milestone of my little one😊
Today is another vaccine shot of my little one. The routine of my baby is already changed from 2 to 3 hours of broken sleep, now she already can sleep straight of 6 to 8 hours during night. Since she woke up around 7 am this morning and sleep again around 8am she woke up late for her vaccine, we supposed to went to the health center at 9 am but she woke up around 10 so we are in hurry.
When we reached the health center at past 11AM the staff of the center asked why we are late😂 and adviced us that next time we should come early. Since there are lots of baby waiting for their turn to be vaccinated I sat down near the center and feed my baby while waiting and asked my husband to ask one of the staff if the center offers ear piercing with hypoallergenic earings. Exactly one of the staff heard as talking and she answered our inquiry and get the sample earings so we can choose. They offer a birthstone earings but unfortunately earings for June are already sold out so we just chose the earings for May coz of it's cute design since it will only use for the meantime. We just want her ear to be pierced while it still soft and it will not hurt that much .After we paid for the earings she direct us inside and we do not have to wait to be called.
As we reached the office the nurse informed us that she will give 2 shots of vaccine, at first I was hesitant coz I know that it will hurt my baby. Imagine she will be given one shot to her right leg and another shot to her left leg plus ear piercing. I cannot imagine how it hurts to a little baby😔. But in the end we decided to push tru atleast it will only hurt her onetime bigtime😁. While the nurse giving the shots I cant help myself to close my eyes in order for me not to see whats happening especially when they do the ear piercing, it felt like im the one who is hurting especially when my baby cried.
She looks more girly this time
When we went home around 12 my husband cooked sopas since it looks like it will rain by afternoon.
After I gave birth, there are only rare instances that I was able to eat good food since me and my baby only were left alone everytime my husband go to work. Thats why we definitely have a decent meal when hubby is on RD😊. Im glad that I have a good husband🥰
Thats all for today.
Just sharing you hows our day today.
Have a good day and keep safe everyone😉
Quality vs quantity
Since by next month I am going to back to my work, I started to declutter some of our stuff, its funny to realized that I only have 4 pairs of jeans left😂 and 3 pairs of shoes. One is the white sneakers that I used as part of my uniform, one is running shoes that I usually wear when we travel which is already 4 or 5 years old 😆and other one is a black sneakers that I bought 6 or 7 years ago.
I remember when I am in high school, its a trend to wear a branded clothes and use a branded face towel . Since it was a public school there are only few students who is capable to have it. I do not know whats with wearing or using branded items, in my thought it is just to show off that they can have it or maybe I just envied them that they can have it while I cannot. Coz deep inside I know that I want it also. The difference is I know our capacity financially so I know that I can not have the luxury of having it. Plus the fact that my close friend is just same with me, we cannot afford it 😂.
When I was working during college I chose to buy branded clothes, at first my reason is simply because that is what I see others wearing. And when I worked in a high end boutique after college it makes me more attracted to imported branded clothes, everytime that we will be having a season sale which is 70% off I will definitely buy atleast 1 item coz I cannot afford it in regular price. Maybe because it makes me feel like I was already overcome the poverty where I am before or maybe I want to feel that atleast my life improve by having it. Well I really dont know, those are just possible reason.
When I transfered to other company, I felt that I am more pressure to wear or use branded items coz there are times that I need to attend meetings and meet some of the boss.
But when the time goes by and I get older and older I realize that its not about all the brand when it comes to clothes. All you have to do is look for a shop or store that sell a good quality item in a cheaper price. Or try to look at ukay ukay you can find sone good quality clothes in a cheaper price. Actually 3 of my blazers was bought in ukay ukay😁. But when it comes to shoes, I will still defenitely buy a branded one that I know that will last for years especially if your going to use that shoes everyday . Coz I have lots of bad experience buying cheaper shoes. Like what happened when I started working in my current company I bought white sneakers (that was required as uniform) 6 times which just last for months, if I tally the total price of those shoes I will be able to buy a good brand. That is why I still preffered a branded shoes.
For me it is ok to some of our belongings are just only few but you know that will last longer because of its quality than to have many things but you will only use in short span of time.
Its like having a few friends that you know that are true to you than having lots of so called friends that are talking ill behind your back😊
My budget meal wedding 😁
While exploring my cellphone to delete some apps and games that I do not use anymore, I opened the ISAVE MONEY apps. The application where I used to entry all my expenditure and income before, during the time that I am working in order for me to track where our money go incase I need to remember. Coz there are times that I was wondering where my money go, how come that I do not have money anymore before the pay out lol. And I saw the saved budget and expenditure of our wedding in that apps.
2 years ago when me and my ex boyfriend now my husband 🤣 decided to get married in civil ceremony. It was the peak of covid19 pandemic where all your movements are limited. We decided to get married on our 2nd year anniversary as girlfriend and boyfriend which is Oct 8. One month before our desired date we already budgeted all the expenses that we will be needing. Since there are still covid pandemic we only invited limited guest and our budget is also limited😂. Actually this is the reason why we get married during pandemic to avoid lots of guest charrr😂😂.
We came up to the budget of 35,400 but by Sept 1 our actual cash is only 24,300 😂
I want to share how we came up to that amount
Here are list of all our expenses
We came up to the supposed budget of 35k coz at first we want a gold but not that expensive wedding ring but we end up buying silver instead. And our souvenir is mug
And I just wear tshirt instead of dress on my wedding day. Coz thats where I am comfortable with 😁. We bought couple shirt at Me & U shop tru online.
Since gatherings are not allowed that time we decided to have 2 reception. One is in cabalen where we ate with our friends. We chose this coz its already unlimited food. While my family and some of our neighbor is in the house thats why we put some decor for picture purposes😂. Thanks to my older brother who created the letter cut and to my nieces for doing the back drop 😁
And our wedding cake is a gift from my baker friend 😊
We exceed the budget for the house receptions maybe because I did not consider the alcoholic beverages while budgeting lol.
With regards to pampering amounting to 2000 I am not sure if I went to salon for a hair rebond 😂 and I also dont remembet what are those unexpected expense 😂.
The day after the wedding we travel to Tagaytay for honeymoon charrr
That travel is also budget meal since we just spent 3k.
Mostly of all the girls, they dream to walk in the aisle and wear a beautiful wedding gown, and I am one of them. But in reality wedding is not a fairytale, it is not how grand your wedding is, it's not how expensive and beautiful your wedding gown is. It is all about the reason why both of you decided to get married and how long you are willing to fullfill and to hold on to all your promises to each other.
I know we have still a long journey to go, we cannot say yet whats ahead of us. I just hope that our marriage will last a lifetime 😊.......
Thanks for reading 😊
One of my favorite comfort food
Good day to all, its been a while since I wrote an article here in read.cash 😄. Coz as what I have said last time I was hooked by watching kdrama. And I just make singit lang writing article and watching kdrama when my baby is sleeping. Since today is my husbands restday I was able to have time doing an article by sharing you what happened today.
I thought that it would be a rainy day today coz of the typhoon that's why I ask my husband if we can make rice porridge or congee with beef fat. Because I have been craving for it and it is one of my favorite comfort food. I do not know whats with congee but I can eat it everyday (yung masarap na luto ah). But not in everymeal for the day ha lol. Just only once a day😁. I remember when I was a kid there is a lugawan that we used to eat together with my brothers coz their congee is really good and we paired it with tokneneng and their vinegar dip sauce is also good. And when I grow older congee become my comfort food especially if it has lechon kawali or paired it with tokwat baboy na lechon kawali.
Early in the morning while our baby is still sleeping, I went to the wet market to buy all the ingredients for the congee. I supposed to buy only 1/4 of beef and will ask for the fats since it is just free if you buy beef, but I feel shy so I make it 1/2 kilo lol. When I got home I prepared all the ingredients and asked my husband if he want to do the cooking and he accepted it. So he is the one who cooked and I am the one who take good care of our baby.
Aroung 9 am he was done cooking . And infairness it taste good . The taste that I am looking for everytime that I will buy congee to well known lugawan. It satisfies all my cravings for today. Actually I eat it also during lunch, I just bought vegetable spring rolls to pair it.
Sometimes simple things makes us happy. All we have to do is appreciate it and be thankful.
Thats all for today😊
Im too busy that I cannot have time to focus on my on going article lol. Maybe this is because I am a mother and a kdrama addict 😂😂😂
Customer is always right?
Since I was hooked to the kdrama "The Veil" which is I currently watching Im a little bit busy lol, thats why I was not able to make an article yesterday. One of my favorite genre of a series is action thriller which make you excited for the next episode . And you cannot wait long to finished it until the end 😁. That's why I love kdrama they awake your curiosity and you will not notice the long time you already spent watching it. Anyway my topics is not about that Kdrama.
With regards to the title of this article, nah I completely disagree. Yes the customer is the bloodline of a business, without them the business will not sustain its owner and employees. Customers are not always right but instead I believe that Customer are always first. It is one of the core value that was taught to me on my first company which I follow until now.
The customer is always right dialogue is one of the abused excuse of those customer who does not know how to understand and feeling entitled duh 🤨. All of us are customer whether you buy to a small store to buy candies you still consider as a customer. But not all of us became part or have experience to be in a retail industry or any industry that focusing in a customer service.
As a customer, is there any time or incident that you feel irate to the one who gave you the service either a cashier or a waiter? And if it happened what you did?
There are lots of time where I experience not so good customer service such as giving the wrong order coz the cashier is not attentive or the cashier is too slow to the point that falling in line already consumed your breaktime and many more.
For a customer's perfective who does not have any experience in a retail industry, you will easily feel irritated and disappointed if you know that you was not given a good service. For example you have to fall in line and spent some of your precious time just to buy your food, especially when you are just on break. It will definetely will challenge your temper. But in a person who is on the same field, you will understand what took them so long to provide the service that you need. Some cause of the delay is also other customer. There are some customer who already fall in line for minutes but when they reached the counter to order, thats the only time that they will choose what they are going to order. There are also possible reason such as lack of manpower due to sudden absence of some crew or any things that affected the store operation. But it is different if the scenario is if the crew or staff is chatting with other staff that makes their service slow, or those staff who act rude, those are untolerable for me.
As a customer all of us are expecting a good service everytime that we enter a establishment wether it is a food industry or a retail industry. And we are disappointed if it was not given to us. But I hope that before we release our anger be reasonable first. Think before you act. Do not act as if you already pay for the life of a staff the way you cursed at them. There are right way to handle your disappointment and be civil enough to raise your concern to the right person. Shouting and coursing others does not make you superior, it is only shows how uncivilized you are.
As someone who provide customer service, make sure that you know how to do your role as what is expected from you by the company and by the customer and it is giving the best and efficient service.
Thats all for today 😉
Thank you read.cash
My husband take 2 restday this week, which is yesterday & today. Yesterday coz its our little one's 2nd month and today coz I suppose to visit an opta due to the itchiness of my eyes and it is also our laundry day😁. Since I got pregnant he is the one who do the laundry until now. I feel lucky that we have that set up 😁
Since my eyes are not itchy anymore after I used eye mo, we did not went to hospital today to visit opta. On lunch time my husband just cooked shrimp paste with pork so we have stock in case we need condiments and viand in case I was not able to buy foods. After lunch he already do the laundry while I am the one who take good care of our baby.
While my husband is doing our laundry I cleared all our mess and I saw my APC
Its been years since I ate this brand of pizza, I crave for it and check my coins if it has enough fund to buy a pizza😂 coz I used to transfer all my earnings here in read.cash to my coins account.
I asked my husband if he want to eat pizza for merienda and I will treat him coz he is the one who do the laundry😁and I know that he is a little bit tired coz he washed 2 laundry basket of our used clothes. Actually I am the one who is craving for pizza lol. Pizza is one of my comfort food. Although this brand is not my favorite brand, it is cheaper compare to other well known brand plus the fact that it is buy 1 take 1 if you have that card. So we decided to eat pizza for merienda. Around 4 pm I called the branch of that pizza chain to order pizza for pick up since there is newly open branch near our house. After my husband done with our laundry he picked up my order.
I choose angel supreme which is one of their best seller
And the other one is triple treat. Where you can have 3 flavors in just one box which are aloha, pepperoni and all meat.
Thanks to read.cash I was able to satisfy my cravings and not to feel guilty of spending 515 php for our merienda. Since we are already full we did not eat dinner anymore🙂 so technically we still save some money coz we did not buy food for dinner.
Thank you to my sister in law @Yen for introducing me this platform. I was able to share my thoughts at the same time to earn some money within the comfort of our home while Im on leave 😊
Another milestone of our little one
Yesterday I was not able to be active on social media and othet platforms coz my left eye is so itchy so I decided to rest my eye for the meantime. And if it will continue today I will definitely visit an opta tomorrow. And last night my baby is not in her good mood that makes us awake till 3AM😔.
Since today is the 2nd month of our baby I went to savemore before lunch time to buy some stuff. Me and my husband decided to celebrate her monthly journey until her 1st birthday. It is just a simple celebration.
I just ordered a number cake to my friend who gave us a discounted price 😁 as she always do 😊 . Our theme for today is floral since her dress that she will use for pictorial is floral 😅
And of course her outfit is what is in her closet🤣Actually this dress was given to her by my niece together with the shoes, since my baby is a little bit long , I decided that she will use it na coz for the next coming months for sure it will not fit her anymore lol.
And I cooked 1kilo of spaghetti since this is just for the family and we do not have an extra budget for more lol🤣 since I just used the money that we earned as dividend from our savings /investment. Exactly that the pay out was released the other day so we have a budget for this simple celebration.
As usual I just used the remaining balloons from the gender reveal and the number balloon which I bought last month
I know being a parent is a long journey and a lifetime commitment. Seing your little one growing each day makes it more exciting , and we always look forward for her next milestone. And we always hoped and pray for her healthiness.
Thats all for today😊
Have a good day and night😁
@mhel_dita
