@mhel_dita 27 September 2022

How to cope up? Mostly of us have already faced challenge or struggles in life once in our lifetime. How you was able to cope up? Based on my experience one greatest common denominator of coping it up whatever challenge or hardship that I encountered is prayer. Nah I would like to clear that I am not a religious person, I seldom visit church to attend mass and honestly I do not read Bible and I do not have memorize any verse😔. But I believe that theres God who created everything, that make me believe in the power of praying. In every situation that I feel like I am breaking I always runned to HIM by praying wether in church or in the comfort of my own room. And of course I also pray to give thanks for all the blessing. I remember when I was in college, I was confused wether to continue my studies or just stop since I am already working that time. I prayed hard to be guided on whatever decision I will make. Theres a chapel in our campus where I stayed during breaktime coz usually I have a broken sched since I am an irregular student due to my working shift. When I had my first heartache, in order to cope with it I went to church almost everyday and prayed. Know what? Everytime that I went to church that time I lighted one candle together with prayer that all the pain that I felt during that time will washed away lol. I lighted almost hundred pieces of candles until I stop. I stop lighting candles when I do not feel anymore pain. Maybe I should title this "how to move on" chaaarrr😂😂. Remembering those times makes me laugh lol. Before I enter in a relationship with my husband now, I prayed hard wether to be in telationship with him or not , coz he is younger than me and some of the things that I do not want in a man to be a boyfriend, he has it such as tatoo and more 🤣🤣🤣. But I ended up marrying him. I believe that its a Gods will why we ended up together. Before I got pregnant, I prayed hard because I had PCOS that time. I am already worried coz I am not getting any younger. And during my pregnancy we encountered lot of struggles in means of financial due to lots of laboratory test and some medication. And we are glad we surpassed all of it. Those are just some of the challenges and struggles in my life where prayer is the answer to ease all the worries and pain that I feel. Coz everytime that I am in the situation that I feel that it is hard to cope with I always pray, wether I am sad, in pain or i feel anger. And of course it is better if there is someone that you can trust to share all your feelings. Im not saying that when you pray everything will be ok, there are wishes that do not come true or problems that will be taken right away. But by praying all the heavy feelings that you feel will lessen. This works with me, but I am not sure if it works to some other too. Maybe its all about your faith and the way you handle it😊 Thanks for reading 😊