"Learning and discipline begin at home"

Article #89

September 17, 2022

As I observed in our modern generation, children nowadays are much different from before. You can see the big changes and how they act at a young age.

Learnings and Descipline begin at home

As a parent, how do you teach your children to be good individuals when they grow up?

Being a parent,we have a big part in the growth of our children and it depends on us on how we teach them good discipline.we should also learn on how we teach our children that makes sense and guide them understand the reasons why we get angry or mad when they do mistakes. Our children develop their minds as they grow. we cannot control everything around and they get influenced by modernization.

Parenting is the hardest task we could ever imagine, there are no hard and fast rules about Do's and Dont's. We should long our patience and understanding because part of their growth also their emotions become more sensitive. there might have a chance that they will not understand the way we act as their parents.

What should be the best way on desciplining our children?

• Talk calmly with good action

Parents have their own ways on how they teach their children when they get mistakes. As for me,I talk calmly and avoid spanking them literally. torturing them physically is a big wrong and it should not be accepted. Mostly mothers are the one who disciplines and teaches the children good thoughts and behavior in our home.Way back on my young age, when I make mistakes my mother talk to me in a nice way about what I did is wrong.she explained it well and she makes sure that Ive learned the reason for what is wrong or the consequences that might be done.

• Talk at home not in public

Our children also develop their emotions and they get so sensitive when we shouted on them in public or in front of their friends.wait until you get home and try to talk to a child in a nice way with no one hear but only you and your child. in that way,they can feel secure and be loved.they would understand the situation and it would be easy for us to teach them to be good and respectable individual when they come up on our age right now and when they become a parents also they would teach their children the way their parents do.

• Talk with good words and in a nice way

Let's try to find out the reason why they acted on that way. Maybe they have some problems that make them out of control and this is also very important to check on them from time to time.make them understand that in every bad action must be corrected for no repitation.

Final words,

Not only children knows how to act in a good way with good morals but also as we parents to them ,we should also learn on how to take a good action on teaching them to grow with good behavior. the behavior of a child depends on what kind of home he or she has and it is also a reflection of what kind of parents we are .

All words stated was just my own opinion on how I manage myself as a parent of one.I know that parents are not the same on how they train their children to be respectful and good and I understand that.

That's all for today and thanks for dropping by!

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