This game - Never Have I Ever, reminds me of the time I get to spend time with my friends when we were in college. We always play this game when we're almost drunk yet we always gain new information and fun facts about each other even though we're friends for years already.
I've read @bbyblacksheep 's Never Have I Ever (Valentine Edition) and I find it fascinating so I thought, why not answer them as well?
Let's start!!
Never have I ever been in a relationship
I have. Twice. My previous relationship then the one I'm currently in. To be honest, I find it hard to stay committed before haha because I find relationships really demanding. I really value solitude. Plus, I enjoyed my single life - I can talk to and flirt with people without having the commitment. My motto before was to 'collect, collect, and collect' hahaha.
Never have I ever had my first kiss
This one was a big deal. I don't kiss just because. I kiss because I truly love the person. And yep, I had.
Never have I ever had a Valentine on February 14th
I have, yearly. Lol. Since high school up to now, I always have a Valentine. My high school days were my admirers, friends, and my ex boyfriend. Then college came and until now, my partner is my Valentine.
Never have I ever received flowers, chocolate or a stuffed-animal from someone who's not blood related
I have. Flowers, chocolates, stuffed-toys, e-load, necklace, bracelet, rings, letters.. name it.
I don't want to brag but I started to receive these things when I was in 6th grade hahaha too young!
I can still recall the first time I received a mug from a close friend / an admirer. He knew I was into coffee.
I was in high school when I received stuffed toys, flowers, letters, chocolates and a lot more even without any occasion. I can still remember some guys from other sections who waited for hours outside our classroom just to give those to me.
Honestly, I told them that I cannot accept the gifts because I don't want them to misinterpret it. I don't want to give them false hope but still, they insisted that I'd get and keep what they've given me. Oh well, my friends really liked the idea of accepting these gifts because they were the ones who eat the chocolates hahaha
I also remembered that one Valentine's Day when my two gay classmates approached me separately and gave me flowers and chocolates. I knew already that Bert had feelings for me because he confessed a year before but I didn't expect him to give me flowers, I thought he's into boys already! And the other one, JR, my seatmate, just confessed his feelings that day with flowers on his hand. He even told me not to take it seriously because he didn't want to be in a relationship with me, he just really adores me. Those are some of the genuine confessions I've ever encountered. Until now, whenever we talk about those days, they still admit they're attracted to me lol. Lucky to have those two as my friends!
Never have I ever been asked out
I had but it took them awhile to ask haha because they thought I was out of reach and high maintenance but I'm not 😅
Never have I ever been rejected
Never. Whenever I have a crush, either they like me or they love me HAHAHA kidding aside, I never experienced not being liked back by my crushes. Lucky me I guess?
Never have I ever broken up with someone
I had.
Never have I ever cried over someone I liked
Never. As I've said, either my crush likes me or loves me, there's no heartbreak. There's a time when I secretly adored my crush, then he confessed his feelings for me! That's the only time I admitted that the feeling is mutual. My motto is not to admit it first, even if I really like the person. I am that confident that they like me as well! HAHAHA
Never have I ever been in love with my best friend
I have. It's my current partner. We were in a circle together. We liked each other before but we didn't admit it at first because we thought it would ruin the friendship but here we are, 8 years strong!
Never have I ever received a love note
Love note as in love letters? If yes then I have. Random love notes from my admirers back in high school until college and of course, random love notes from my partner. We are still writing each other's letters - yup, the handwritten ones, written in beautiful stationery.
Never have I ever crushed on someone silently for a really long time
I had. It was my current partner. We had our own relationships before we entered our relationship. It's because we thought the feeling is not mutual and we have the same thought, what if confessing our feelings might ruin the friendship we have? But we did admit anyway haha and now, we're lovers! ❤️
And that's it for my Never Have I Ever (Valentine's Edition). Thanks @bbyblacksheep for the idea. If you want to read hers, here it is.
I've decided to write articles about love this February. I think I have a lot of stories to tell.
Let me know your answers too! 🥰
February 5, 2022 | 6:46pm
Wanna try this sis. Nabasa ko na rin yung kay @bbyblacksheep.