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When the conversation gets boring

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When the conversation gets boring, how would you light up the fire again? How to keep up with the conversation when you are already talking for one day straight and you almost made each other as diary? I don't know but I am not really good in keeping the conversation alive until the person I am talking with gives up.

I am the type of person who doesn't know how to keep the conversation going. (Except for my gf πŸ˜‚)

Before, I used to message woman who I think are of my taste. There are a lot on Facebook and Messenger and I can also go through look at their profiles as much as I want. I was fond of social media back then when I was still in High School. I know some of you can relate as well.

Let's have a short throwback.

Before, when our Facebook accounts have just created, we cannot put our fingers to rest because we keep on adding friends and confirming new faces just to gain a lot of friends. I don't know but before, when you have a lot of friends on Facebook, it's a plus for you. It means that a lot of people like you and some also consider you as famous. I really regret adding friends and accepting friends I don't know before that now, I am thinking I should start my unfriending journey one of these days. I don't like seeing posts of someone I do not know. Are you also like this?

Alright. Let's go back to the topic. I can still remember one of my chatmates before who told me I should be gentle. Gentle in talking with girls. I am a straightforward type of chatmate because I don't want to waste time running around the bush. This girl messaged me first and I don't know what's her intention. I don't know her and she doesn't know me either. She replied to one of my Facebook stories.

This was my Facebook story that that girl replied on

Caption: Quarantine Feels

I don't know what gotten into her mind but her reply was this...

It's so big.

I was really puzzled that time and I looked at the photo many times but I can't see anything big on it. That's why I thought she's fooling me around. I asked her...

Do I know you? What are you talking about?

She just said..

No, I don't know you. You know you should be more polite when talking to girls.

Yeah, I know girl but how can I be polite when I don't know what she's talking about. That's why I told her that I will give her a penny so she can buy someone who can she talk with. She just left my message on seen.

The face I made during that time

After that, she never messaged me again.

I also have this chatmate who's like a zombie. She doesn't get tired looking at her phone and I think she doesn't have something to do in their home as well since she's always up on Messenger whenever I message her. From morning until midnight, we spent the time talking to each other with anything to talk about. She told me her story but I never told her mine. When she was done about everything and asked me to share about me, I just told her my details like I am filling up a biodata. She also told me my life was boring. That was almost 12 AM I think so I was sleepy and almost fall asleep but my eyes widened when I read that. How can she tell that my life was boring? Is she my neighbor? We just talked for three days and her conclusion was a turn off.

That's why I decided to end the conversation with her by saying she's boring as well and I just responded out of respect. After that, she told me she was sorry so she went on and talk about something else which made me felt uneasy and restless. But, I was too sleepy and can't keep up with her fire so I just messaged her with

"Okay"

"Hahahaha!"

"Lol"

"I see."

She still message me the day after tomorrow but I did not responded. I can't keep up with her and our conversation will be boring again. I don't want that.

How about you guys there, aside from saying those words I mentioned above, how do you recognize yourself as "bored"?

What did you do to make the conversation keep going?



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The letters were too big I guess. LOL. The people on my friend's list are the people that I have met personally. So that is the people from elementary to college and to the people that I have worked with. I do not send/accept requests from people that I do not know.

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3 weeks ago

Which letter? 🀭😁

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3 weeks ago

Hahahaha. The letter T 🀣

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3 weeks ago

It's weird how some girls act nowadays. They think that it's okay to go below the belt just because they are girls. If someone is talking to me and they feel bored, it's not my problem, they just don't fit in with my vibes. 😹

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1 month ago

Lol this is bomb. I agee with you in this 100%. πŸ˜‚

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1 month ago

Ako, kapag may kachat ako tas magreply lamg samen dikona nirereplyan sabay ignore na HAHAHAAH pero nagrereply ako if importante, ayoko lang takaga nasasayang oras ko sa ganyan.

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1 month ago

Taray naman ni manang. Pero sa bagay, ayoko nga rin magsayang ng oras sa pa "hi", "hi" lang hahaha

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1 month ago

Ako kasi manong if kakausapjn ako ng tao gusyo ko unv may sense HAHAHAH di ung"hi" tas kamusta blabla. Gusto ko if ichat ako diretso agad sa kung ano ung reason bat agchat ganon HAHAHAAH

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1 month ago

Korek. Dapat sabihan ka agad na uutang pala syabhahaha

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1 month ago

Hahaha. Ako hindi rin ako consistent pagdating sa mga nakakausap, pero kapag bet ko talaga, ilaban ko pa rin. Hahaha. Eto, jowa ko na ngayon. 🀣

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1 month ago

Sanaol madam hahaha! Iba rin talaga kapag bet eh kasi mapapasabak talaga tayo walang sukuan

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1 month ago

Totoo yan. Hahaha. Nakuha ko rin naman, charot.

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1 month ago

Congratulations sayo.😁

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1 month ago

sa personal apperance sa akin pare sir, whaha. wala din talaga preno ang bibig ko kung minsan kaya hindi mawawala na may masabi ako sa iba hahaha. Honest lang naman eh.

May nakachat na din ako sa FB non, yeah maganda sa una pero kapag matagal na nakakaboring na. Tyaka Long distance eh, hindi mo alam kung totoo sinasabi whahaha.

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1 month ago

Grabe naman yung personal appearance haaha! Sa bagay nga naman mas mabuti na yung prangka di ba. Ganyan naman talaga cguro basta chat2 lang walang spark kaya boring pag tumagal. Di mo pala bet ang ldr sir pare hahaha pano yan pag may na meet ka soon na malayo tapos matamaan ka

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1 month ago

Kaya nga Iwas muna ako pare sir, may balak akong mag ibang bansa eh hehe. Malayo yun hehe

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1 month ago

Ay sanaol sama kami

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1 month ago

I can't make any conversation long especially in person. Your chat mates are quite amusing though :D

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1 month ago

Really? I really thought you can keep up the conversation both in chat and in person because that's how I see you in here po Hehehe

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1 month ago

Uh-uh, it is very easy in this virtual world, but not in person. I can converse more with people I am close to, but not with anybody. You have to strike a conversation first, otherwise, you won't hear a word from me, lol!

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1 month ago

Taray naman hehe

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1 month ago

Lol. It all depends on the person that we are talking to. As for me, if someone that I am talking to have the same vibes as mine, surely that there will be no dull moments between us either personal or through chat.

That's the feedback that I always get from ky close friends, no dull moments with me. And I can't argue with that. Got some good sense of humour and I am really really talkative. Haha

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1 month ago

That's very nice to hear. 😊 i wish i have the same energy as you because I can't really maintain a good conversation. But yeah you are right. Who we are talking too is a big factor to the flow of conversation.

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1 month ago

True. When you're talking to a person whom you are comfortable with, I'm sure there will be no dull moments too. I'm also not a good convertionalist myself but if I'm comfortable to the one that I am talking to, that's when the conversation will go on and on.

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1 month ago

I hope I find her 🀭

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1 month ago

LOL pag ako kausap mo, nakakatulog ka in 2 minutes. I am boring as hell :D

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1 month ago

Ganun ba po? Siguro sa chat lang di naman cguro sa personal hehe

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1 month ago

Huhu relate ako dito. Noon daming nag friend request sakin tas accept ako ng accept hanggang dumami tas ngayon sising sisi na ako kahit sino sino nalang nag cha chat, sorry bina block ko talaga hahaha..πŸ˜„ Ang sama ko di ba John..πŸ˜„

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1 month ago

Hahaha okay lang yan ms. Ramona. I think lahat tayo pinagdaanan yan at tsaka may right naman tayong mangblock kasi account naman natin.

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1 month ago

Kaya nga John.. Minsan nang a unfriend na din ako...

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1 month ago

Okay rana hehe

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1 month ago

I'm terrible at making conversations last. So I don't think I can give any advice on that. LOL

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1 month ago

It's fine, ma'am. 😁

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1 month ago

I'm not that chatty in person even in any platform. I'm not the one who will initiate a conversation for I am more of the silent type. To keep a conversation going, I just let the other person talk lol! Some people just like to talk so I would let him/her talk about himself/herself. Like you, I don't talk to people I don't know or add people I don't know. For a long time, I don't accept friend requests unless it's someone I know on a more personal level.

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1 month ago

Oh, we're the same bro. I guess most guys who have other business to do doesn't know how to keep up with a conversation. 😁 Yeah, accepting someone you don't is not necessary.

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1 month ago

Kapag "haha" na lang ang reply saakin automatic seen na yan πŸ˜‚ tapos sinasabihan nila akong seener eh ano Naman e rereply ko dun "hehe"πŸ˜‚

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1 month ago

Hahaha nga naman. Yaan mo na yun

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1 month ago

Nakakaboring na nga makipagchat tapos boring pa ang kachat haha yung tipong matagal pa mag isip ng topic. Ginagawa ko hindi ko na nirereplyan haha

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1 month ago

Hahaha same here. Dapat may sense yung topic at interesting sa una pa lang diba. Sayang oras kung pa hi hi lang

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1 month ago

Humahaba lang yung usapan pag may chika sa GC namin pero kung private message to someone ? Nahh! Di ako nag iinitiate na pahabain ang chat lalo na kung wala namang sense haha.

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1 month ago

Hahaha gc lang malakas. Hahaha boring naman kasi pag pm2 lang tapos hi hi lang hahaha

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1 month ago

That girl see ghost in your picture haha. Pero iniwasan niya lang yung question mo πŸ˜…..Sakin once na may nagchat sa akin na diko kilala .na ang first message eh hi ..nirereplayan ko ng hello..at yun dina humahaba ang convo haha..kasi naman susulpot nalang bigla tas mag hahi lang pala..then pag sineen mo sasabihin seener. Pero pag babae nangamusta sa akin..means concern siya then papahabain kona convo gang sa mag bid goodbye na kami.πŸ˜…

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1 month ago

Hahaha same pala tayo bruh. Pag hi hi lang at kumusta parang ang boring talaga eh. Bye bye goodbye din ang labas.

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1 month ago

I am not also good in keeping conversations 😒..., I can manage to accompany someone and not talk 😒

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1 month ago

Oh, don't be sad. It's alright. You are just being yourself and it's fine.

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1 month ago

Being a bored companion 🀣

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1 month ago

So what, diba? It's fine. Someone will find you and will not get bored being with you

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