When the conversation gets boring

When the conversation gets boring, how would you light up the fire again? How to keep up with the conversation when you are already talking for one day straight and you almost made each other as diary? I don't know but I am not really good in keeping the conversation alive until the person I am talking with gives up.

I am the type of person who doesn't know how to keep the conversation going. (Except for my gf 😂)

Before, I used to message woman who I think are of my taste. There are a lot on Facebook and Messenger and I can also go through look at their profiles as much as I want. I was fond of social media back then when I was still in High School. I know some of you can relate as well.

Let's have a short throwback.

Before, when our Facebook accounts have just created, we cannot put our fingers to rest because we keep on adding friends and confirming new faces just to gain a lot of friends. I don't know but before, when you have a lot of friends on Facebook, it's a plus for you. It means that a lot of people like you and some also consider you as famous. I really regret adding friends and accepting friends I don't know before that now, I am thinking I should start my unfriending journey one of these days. I don't like seeing posts of someone I do not know. Are you also like this?

Alright. Let's go back to the topic. I can still remember one of my chatmates before who told me I should be gentle. Gentle in talking with girls. I am a straightforward type of chatmate because I don't want to waste time running around the bush. This girl messaged me first and I don't know what's her intention. I don't know her and she doesn't know me either. She replied to one of my Facebook stories.

Caption: Quarantine Feels

I don't know what gotten into her mind but her reply was this...

It's so big.

I was really puzzled that time and I looked at the photo many times but I can't see anything big on it. That's why I thought she's fooling me around. I asked her...

Do I know you? What are you talking about?

She just said..

No, I don't know you. You know you should be more polite when talking to girls.

Yeah, I know girl but how can I be polite when I don't know what she's talking about. That's why I told her that I will give her a penny so she can buy someone who can she talk with. She just left my message on seen.

After that, she never messaged me again.

I also have this chatmate who's like a zombie. She doesn't get tired looking at her phone and I think she doesn't have something to do in their home as well since she's always up on Messenger whenever I message her. From morning until midnight, we spent the time talking to each other with anything to talk about. She told me her story but I never told her mine. When she was done about everything and asked me to share about me, I just told her my details like I am filling up a biodata. She also told me my life was boring. That was almost 12 AM I think so I was sleepy and almost fall asleep but my eyes widened when I read that. How can she tell that my life was boring? Is she my neighbor? We just talked for three days and her conclusion was a turn off.

That's why I decided to end the conversation with her by saying she's boring as well and I just responded out of respect. After that, she told me she was sorry so she went on and talk about something else which made me felt uneasy and restless. But, I was too sleepy and can't keep up with her fire so I just messaged her with

"Okay"

"Hahahaha!"

"Lol"

"I see."

She still message me the day after tomorrow but I did not responded. I can't keep up with her and our conversation will be boring again. I don't want that.

How about you guys there, aside from saying those words I mentioned above, how do you recognize yourself as "bored"?

What did you do to make the conversation keep going?

Hello everyone! If you have some useful tips or guide which can help me improve, you can let me know in the comment section. I may not know all about you now but I am eager to know you deeper. I will work hard so I can be like the amazing writers here. I have talked to some people and they are all amazing.

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