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Written by   61
2 months ago
Topics: Friendship

No:84-06

November 21, 2022

I am trying my best to pull up myself from the recent bad news i received that one of my best friend is not in a good health state. Trying hard to put a smile on my lips and go on with my daily life though my heart is weary.

Teary eyed yet smiling, crazy? 😅

I want to go on with my daily routine but can't help my tears from falling , goodness my eyebags are really plump and weight a kilo, hahaha! See??

Talking about friendship, i happened to read these prompt question first at Mr. Nice guy @Coolmidwestguy and would like to give thanks to him for mentioning me on his article and that gave way i guess for Rusty to notice me again , hoho! And for the generous tip that you gave i felt like you are perfect as rusty's sub for a while,lol! Thank you so much!

And yesterday morning i was able to read a version of another Mr. Nice guy here@ARTicLEE and decided to make my own version too coz it's timely. You would agree with me guys for sure if i say that this is a good site to look for nice virtual friends . Thanks to you sir!

If you happen to check my subscribers i only have a little, only 57 as of the moment but i am glad that all of them are "cream of the crop". I also have a small circle of friends in the actual world, i like it that way. Anyway let me begin..

What is a friend to you?

Someone i could talk to about anything under the sun will be fun but not a requirement . Friends are someone to pull you up when things are going out of hand . Brave enough to accept your flaws yet has the guts to correct it if necessary.

No matter what level of friendship it is , being nice and real would be the best foundation for me. Friend is someone who understand though no words are coming out. Person i could be myself and comfortable to be with.

Do you have a bestfriend?

Yes i do have. One of them for 27 years and the other for 24 years. The first one , we are opposite in some ways but we clicked. The other one , we have the same wave length as what they say. There's another and he's a guy that call me " maangas" ( proud) hahaha! coz according to him he can't hide anything from me coz though he's trying to be cool or something yet i know deep inside when he's not good or up to something. He's 6 footer yet he's afraid of me, hahaha! He hated it when i'm staring at him and he would be like , ok! ok! i'm gonna spill it out. Geez why can you read me?? Do you have sixth sense? lol!

We don't see each other often coz some are in different sides of the world but we do communicate often through chats and video calls. They are part of my life, my heart and i would be devastated if something not good happen to them.

Do you think having many similarities is necessary to become friends?

I guess not though some similarities may help to start a friendship . Same interests that will bring you to a common ground.

Our differences helped us to understand what's on the other side of the coin. How to deal with different type of personality. My Guy bestie is manic deppressive, one is conservative , one is naive yet adventuruos but one thing in common ... we are all crazy! lol!

Have you ended a friendship with someone?

Naaah! I can't remember any , we just lost contact but ending it intentionally was not.

Have you lost a bestfriend?

Yes my first bestfriend i lost from commiting suicide. Her name is Agnes. I was there several times when she attempted doing it , but when we parted ways ... and she's broken , i was far away from her , she did it. Two weeks prior to her demise, she sent me a 3 long pages of letter full of dreams and hopes, yet she lied so i won't suspect she'll do it again.

Do Women or Men make better friends?

No preference as for me. By experienced gender is not an issue. It depends on your personality.

Do you believe in Soulmate friends?

This i do believe for real. Unseen forces connected us. I did'nt look for them . I guess we are friends from the past reincarnated, hehe! I refer to them as the "Cream of the Crop". The best amo g fhe rest of my friends.

Connections are too strong , we for several times dreamed of each other suddenly when one of us is need of someone to talk to or somehow in not good state.

Me for instance would suddenly feel uncomfortable and uneasy then i will find out that one of them is not in good shape.

She'll undergo BMT tomorrow🙏

My two bestie's are currently facing a bumpy ride. One, suspected for a blood cancer and will undergo , bone marrow test tomorrow. And the other one just lost her husband recently from Acute Leukaemia and she's now suffering from deppression and pneumonia.

Her husband just died recently 😔

As i've mention , my connections to them are too strong i got affected too and can't help but to feel anxiety and sadness too. I'm feeling blue and exhausted as if i am the one suffering. I was trying to give both of them some strength.

You know like a vampire , allowing them to suck in my own blood so they could ease their pain and survive.

Hoping and praying they both survive their ordeals. I love them so much , it's also hard for me knowing they are facing difficult days lately.

In conclusion...

I am not a perfect friend nor a perfect soul , i have flaws i am aware of but i am real . I don't care much about other peoples lives. " You'll go your way and i'll go mine , as long as our paths don't cross you don't bug me " attitude is what i am.

I don't mess around and i value your privacy as i highly values mine. I am simple and living with the basic. If you want to be friend with me , i am open for it. I am not special , i am just me.

I can read minds ?? no, but if we are close , i could feel your pain or happiness as if our hearts beat as one . That's the magic of friendship , wonders of being soulmates!

Thank you readers and to Mr. Nice guy @Coolmidwestguy thank you once again! To my sponsors as always " Salamat po ng Marami!"

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You've been always a good friend to me sis and even I have the least of numbers I'm happy because we have connections that makes us stronger. I also felt how sincere you are sis kasi kaht ako gsuto mopo dmayan

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2 months ago

Coz you are also a good one. Very honest and sincere person.

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2 months ago

What a beautiful line you have said that friend should understand even you are not uttering any word

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2 months ago

Yes dear , if you have found such friend , we are truly blessed. I have found mine and they are really worth keeping . Sometimes words are not needed we just feel and know it.

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2 months ago

You're so pretty po :) By the way, friends really matter to me, friends that I can rely on and I can trust for the rest of my life.

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2 months ago

Ayieee, thanks bhe! Same as you🥰 Yes, we all need somebody or someone to lean on and i do believe in our lifetime we are going to meet them and have that special friend.

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2 months ago

Its really important to have a friend, ung totoo

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2 months ago

True , at naniniwala ako na bawat isa sa atin may mahahanap na tunay na kaibigan.

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2 months ago

Yes.

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2 months ago

You answered these questions so well. I bet so many others see you as a great friend. I hope and pray that both of your best friends do get better. It's true we feel the pain or happiness in those we have bonding relationships with.

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2 months ago

Yaaay! Thank you so much! Your words are much appreciated and so the rewards! lol! So generous of you. Thank you for taking time to read. May the Highest bless you more Sir.

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2 months ago

I also lost my best friends because they also commit suicide before and it's really one of the most heart breaking feelings ever. I hope na maging okay na po mga friends nyo ate, praying for them.

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2 months ago

Thank you bhe , hope wherever our friends are, hope they find peace na. May our prayers serve as their light so they could find their way home na rin. 😔

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2 months ago

Nakakasad naman yung friend mong ngsuicide sis.Hirap siguro to have a friend na ganun kasi nawoworry ka lagi pag di siya okay

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2 months ago

Totoo yun bhe , dati pumapasok yun na may balot ng panyo sa may wrist area nya pag tinanggal mo yun makikita mo na dami nya slashes.. Ilang beses din na napipigilan ko kasi i was there to listen to her pero nung magkaiba na kami ng school nung College , ayun na , natuluyan na😔

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2 months ago

Hirap pag ganun. Kasi na experience ko din Yun with my ex live in partner. Nakailang beses na din siyang nag attempt B4 natuluyan

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2 months ago

They need professional help kasi at medication. Mental health is very important na hindi nabibigyan ng pansin.

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2 months ago

tama sis need talaga ng psychiatrist para matulungan silang labanan at maintindihan yung mga pinagdadaanan nila

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2 months ago

Tru bhe , mahirap sa ordinaryong tao na intindihin minsan pinagdadaanan nila. Kaya mas ok sana kung may institution na pwede sila agad pumunta to consult na hindi ganun kamahal.

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2 months ago

yung mga my mental health isyu eh kailangan din ng mga tao o pamilyang handang intindihin sila

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2 months ago

Gusto ko sagutin yung mga questions din ate. Be brave ate and we pray to your friends ate. Trust lang ni God. Everything will be alright ate.

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2 months ago

Thank you as always bhe. I'll wait for your version , goooo na!

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2 months ago

You're welcome ate. Bukas ate. 🥰

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2 months ago

Thanks bhe, keepsafe always🥰

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2 months ago

You're always welcome ate. Keep safe din po.

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