My Cream of the Crop

No:84-06

November 21, 2022

I am trying my best to pull up myself from the recent bad news i received that one of my best friend is not in a good health state. Trying hard to put a smile on my lips and go on with my daily life though my heart is weary.

I want to go on with my daily routine but can't help my tears from falling , goodness my eyebags are really plump and weight a kilo, hahaha! See??

Talking about friendship, i happened to read these prompt question first at Mr. Nice guy @Coolmidwestguy and would like to give thanks to him for mentioning me on his article and that gave way i guess for Rusty to notice me again , hoho! And for the generous tip that you gave i felt like you are perfect as rusty's sub for a while,lol! Thank you so much!

And yesterday morning i was able to read a version of another Mr. Nice guy here@ARTicLEE and decided to make my own version too coz it's timely. You would agree with me guys for sure if i say that this is a good site to look for nice virtual friends . Thanks to you sir!

If you happen to check my subscribers i only have a little, only 57 as of the moment but i am glad that all of them are "cream of the crop". I also have a small circle of friends in the actual world, i like it that way. Anyway let me begin..

What is a friend to you?

Someone i could talk to about anything under the sun will be fun but not a requirement . Friends are someone to pull you up when things are going out of hand . Brave enough to accept your flaws yet has the guts to correct it if necessary.

No matter what level of friendship it is , being nice and real would be the best foundation for me. Friend is someone who understand though no words are coming out. Person i could be myself and comfortable to be with.

Do you have a bestfriend?

Yes i do have. One of them for 27 years and the other for 24 years. The first one , we are opposite in some ways but we clicked. The other one , we have the same wave length as what they say. There's another and he's a guy that call me " maangas" ( proud) hahaha! coz according to him he can't hide anything from me coz though he's trying to be cool or something yet i know deep inside when he's not good or up to something. He's 6 footer yet he's afraid of me, hahaha! He hated it when i'm staring at him and he would be like , ok! ok! i'm gonna spill it out. Geez why can you read me?? Do you have sixth sense? lol!

We don't see each other often coz some are in different sides of the world but we do communicate often through chats and video calls. They are part of my life, my heart and i would be devastated if something not good happen to them.

Do you think having many similarities is necessary to become friends?

I guess not though some similarities may help to start a friendship . Same interests that will bring you to a common ground.

Our differences helped us to understand what's on the other side of the coin. How to deal with different type of personality. My Guy bestie is manic deppressive, one is conservative , one is naive yet adventuruos but one thing in common ... we are all crazy! lol!

Have you ended a friendship with someone?

Naaah! I can't remember any , we just lost contact but ending it intentionally was not.

Have you lost a bestfriend?

Yes my first bestfriend i lost from commiting suicide. Her name is Agnes. I was there several times when she attempted doing it , but when we parted ways ... and she's broken , i was far away from her , she did it. Two weeks prior to her demise, she sent me a 3 long pages of letter full of dreams and hopes, yet she lied so i won't suspect she'll do it again.

Do Women or Men make better friends?

No preference as for me. By experienced gender is not an issue. It depends on your personality.

Do you believe in Soulmate friends?

This i do believe for real. Unseen forces connected us. I did'nt look for them . I guess we are friends from the past reincarnated, hehe! I refer to them as the "Cream of the Crop". The best amo g fhe rest of my friends.

Connections are too strong , we for several times dreamed of each other suddenly when one of us is need of someone to talk to or somehow in not good state.

Me for instance would suddenly feel uncomfortable and uneasy then i will find out that one of them is not in good shape.

My two bestie's are currently facing a bumpy ride. One, suspected for a blood cancer and will undergo , bone marrow test tomorrow. And the other one just lost her husband recently from Acute Leukaemia and she's now suffering from deppression and pneumonia.

As i've mention , my connections to them are too strong i got affected too and can't help but to feel anxiety and sadness too. I'm feeling blue and exhausted as if i am the one suffering. I was trying to give both of them some strength.

You know like a vampire , allowing them to suck in my own blood so they could ease their pain and survive.

Hoping and praying they both survive their ordeals. I love them so much , it's also hard for me knowing they are facing difficult days lately.

In conclusion...

I am not a perfect friend nor a perfect soul , i have flaws i am aware of but i am real . I don't care much about other peoples lives. " You'll go your way and i'll go mine , as long as our paths don't cross you don't bug me " attitude is what i am.

I don't mess around and i value your privacy as i highly values mine. I am simple and living with the basic. If you want to be friend with me , i am open for it. I am not special , i am just me.

I can read minds ?? no, but if we are close , i could feel your pain or happiness as if our hearts beat as one . That's the magic of friendship , wonders of being soulmates!

Thank you readers and to Mr. Nice guy @Coolmidwestguy thank you once again! To my sponsors as always " Salamat po ng Marami!"

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