Something from here and something from there, mixed together.

Today I am writing alliatory thoughts. I have read several posts throughout the day and am excited to see the diverivility of ideas in each of the user people I follow.

One post I read early was about lies. It will be a topic that many will address over the course of the week. (friend Coquicoin)

Lies are always lies. There is no such thing as white lies or black lies, they are just terms that we have added to give us some sort of comfort in knowing that we are telling a lie to make the person feel good.

We know that the truth often goes down badly, because we do not know from whose mouth it comes, or I guess it’s better to say with what intention those words are said. Sometimes there are people who come to us with all their bad intentions. They bring us all their evil and envy and throw it on us.

What do I mean by this? That there are people that instead of telling you the truth about what is happening to you, they tell you a big lie to lower your positive energies and weaken you, something like they feel resentment for your triumphs and instead of celebrating them with you they say things as ugly as their evilness allows them to.

If you don't really know the heart of your interlocutor you may fall into their evil intentions.  You feel disappointed in the achievement you may have obtained, because you have believed their lies.

On the other hand, if you know your capabilities, then you will give yourself the opportunity to doubt the comments made by the enemy.

It happens to us very often, people who instead of congratulating us for some achievements we have reached. They come to us to spew all their venom and frustration because as simple as that they were not evaluated in the same way.

The only thing we must be clear about is that there are people in our work environment who will always be aware of what others are doing to belittle them, either with lies or false testimonies.

There are also friends who will tell us white lies, or as they’re also known, merciful lies, but in this case I say, if we are really friends, why don't we really say what is going on... why do we beat around the bush?

It’s that sometimes we who are friends do not want to hurt the other by telling the truth, “How you dance so ugly, how you dress so strange, how you laugh so vulgar, how you talk when you eat” and many other things more.

But at the same time I say to myself that if we are friends why not tell the truth to the other so that he/she can improve what he/she does. Maybe he will thank you or maybe he will get mad at you.

Or on second thought why don't you let that person be free? And live his life as he wants. Dress as he/she pleases, talk, eat, dress, laugh and everything as it makes him/her happy.

And in this way of being I sign up. I believe that life is something very complex for many and for others it is very simple, I think we should always be ourselves and not let anyone's opinions change us.

Live life in the best way we see fit, whether we dress badly or well, whether we dance well or not, whether we laugh out loud or not, that is our life, our way of expressing ourselves.

We all want to be happy but we seek the approval of others, but that way we will not be who we are. We will always be predisposed to what others will say and we will not be our own self.

I also read some posts where people say they feel bad, they don't manage to be read the way they want to be read. They fail to reach the people they want to be read by.

I can say that we all went through that, that our beginnings were one granite by granite, that we did our part, giving the best of ourselves in each publication.

Writing from the heart, doing what we like. With time people notice others. One way or another they get to see you.  So don't feel bad if in your beginnings you are not approved by some.

Keep writing, keep going, do what you like. Write from your point of view, without copying and you will like what you find in time.

Sometimes my bad conection is very mean to me, when I have to do something fast, and what I'm doing is that I go through the publications quickly and first I give them my tip. Then I read and lastly I go to the comments. That way, when my internet connection goes down at least I left my tip on the post.

Because when I re-enter the page the post I was reading went to the last page, then when I try to look for it again I lose many important seconds in which I can be doing the same with another publication, because often I have to sort through 15 or more pages of new posts, depending on them.  That's why you may notice many of you have no comments from me, but only my tips.

I like to go through all the users I follow but sometimes I can't.

I realize and have read that many are saying they have bad connections, so I guess I'm not the only one with this problem.

I tried to do a different post today with some opinions of the readings that caught my attention. I hope you find it useful!

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