@gertu13
Facing life in a positive way Greetings friends of the great read.cash family. Today I want to comment on something I read in a publication and that is that there are people who go around the world always arguing about everything that happens to them. I don't think we should waste our time in sadness and complaints when everything seems to be out of our hands. What I mean is that if an event happens that delays you on the way to work, or when you take your children to school, or simply your transportation is delayed, I don’t think that there is a solution if you proceed immediately to get upset and to say expletives in the air. There are people who at once already talk about their bad luck, about how bad it will be for them from then on and other things.
To take the reins of our negative thoughts is up to us. Transforming it into something positive is in everyone's best interest. What is out of our hands, I mean out of our hands to solve, then it is best to let it go, don’t get caught up in a useless thought of frustration. Life is full of pleasant moments and moments that are not, it is a balance and when we know how to manage both we will be fine with ourselves. If you have been delayed on the road, if the transport does not arrive, if you have forgotten something in the least indicated place, do not take it to the extreme because everything has a solution while you have life. Go ahead, adopt your best position, look at things from another point of view. Look for the best part of that bad situation and connect with the peace and tranquility that your being deserves. Living in agony because of all the bad situations that arise is not advisable to maintain your health. Time goes by, life takes care that everything keeps flowing. Whether or not you think for better or for worse, the only person who will benefit or be affected by your way of proceeding will be you. Nobody likes to be next to a grumpy person who fights and gets upset about everything. At the end of the road, he is left alone because he has no one to share his displeasure with. It is so nice to be grateful for everything that happens to us. Gratitude will always be rewarded with good events, whereas if you complain about everything that no longer has a solution within your reach then you will not attract the good things that could present themselves to you because you will not be able to see them, simply because you have your eyes closed to see the new that will come. Sometimes what we assume is a bad event that affects us is the best thing that could happen to us and in the long run you will be able to see it if you have an open mind and an open heart. I can give you the example of a person who is in a hurry to take her child to school and by bad luck, according to her, she missed the transportation and had to return with her child along with all the inconveniences that this brings, she leaves in a bad mood, starts the day arguing with herself. Something happens on the way and the transport had an accident, the same transport where her son was supposed to go. There are injured, parents are running all over the place, protection units are activated and it becomes an unfortunate event, this accident. Then you think... was it the worst thing that could happen to her and her child or is it the worst thing for other people? It’s then we begin to realize that what must happen happens and that we should always be grateful. After all, preserving life is the most important thing and as long as we are alive there are opportunities to enjoy and just as many ways to feel for other situations. Achieving balance in life is difficult but it can be done with patience and optimism. Have a great day. I thank you for your presence in my publications. I am @gertu13 from Venezuela to the world.
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Wow, her mood will change when she finally hear what happened, sometimes things do happen and we think is bad lock, but God knows best.
Yes, thank you.
Hurry is not solution for our problem. We should take each step with great care. Sometimes if we missed something then don't need to worry. There will be no doubt good thing in it like you mentioned a child left school bus.
Thank you for your commemt.
Complaining over everything will make one not see the positive side of anything that happens. Taking things bit by bit will help us get things right and also learn from the moment, instead of rushing over it and at the end of the day you got it all wrong.
It's so right.
I think anyone that has the mentality that life is full of ups and downs should be given kudos to, cos it's being a long time I literally saw one. Everyone just seem to be complaining and pessimistic about almost everything. Optimism and patience helps a lot, and I sincerely hope people get to understand this
There are many complaining about everything but what we optimists can do is make a post that encourages them to change the complaint for acceptance and get them to change a bit of aptitude.
It's as if this little piece of advise from you was meant for me as sometimes I've noticed that I've always lived in agony going by what others have done to me before in the past but after reading this wonderful and encourage article of yours, I can say confidently that I'm well lifted ma and I would surely make a change. Thanks a lot for this article. Meanwhile, happy new month and good morning to you as well ma
I'm glad my post made you think a bit ☺️ have a great day.
Indeed God is good and everything happens for a reason. Time doesn't allow them to be with that vehicle and it saves them from an accident and even saves their life.
Exactly, we must never lose faith. Everything happens for a greater good ☺️
One who believes in God should be ashamed of being worried . A truly spiritually enlightened being knows better than no to fudd over external events that he cant control. Things will always work themselves and everything would fall in place at it's time.
Unfortunately there are many people who only believe in God from the mouth out.
Things happen for a reason and God knows why such things take place..only if we could actually see them we'd understand nothing ever happened without God. Being thankful and turning bad situations to a pleasant one should be our call when we find ourselves in awful situations.
It's true. Thank you.
Yes momma
That was beautiful, dear Gertu. I was Inspired. Especially the part where you said, "Life is full of pleasant moments and moments that are not, it is a balance and when we know how to manage both we will be fine with ourselves." They are timely words.
Thank you.
Aweeee Gertu. Watching the genuine smiles of those lovely kids, aweee it melts my heart though.
Very well.
Everyone explains life according to their taste. Some say life is so beautiful, for some life is tough but for some life is like a cage. If you would ask from me. I would say that, if you succeed to make yourself happy then you achieved everything. This is all about mental peace. Those who try to impress people or beg for people to stay with them they're big losers. Stay positive is a blessing. Stay Positive and be productive.
Each one lives their own learning and tries to radiate what they learned from it. What I affirm is that I live in a positive way and I have written enough about how hard my life has been, but I take the good and the bad out of it and it remains in my memory.
I like the way you always write dear Gertu, I think you help many with your words. This kind of articles help me to discover or rather to have the certainty that I am not wrong in many thoughts I have about toxic people. As much as it bothers people I will always highlight the positive things in life, my life, the things that surround me. I believe that enough bad things happen to all of us every day without putting bad energy on others. So I don't allow everyone to come and deposit their bad energies on me. Note: If I see that it is a real difficulty, it is good to listen and if I can help I will do it too, but if it is gossip and repetition of the same thing I will quietly walk away.
living positively is the best way to heal in health. Life is a school and we learn if we want to. Thank you for your support 😃
Anger, fustration and complaints solve nothing. Sometimes they make things worse. If we try to sray calm we can get sooner to the solution if any. If we can't do anything in that moment when we need help, then it's not worth to be angry.
Thanks for your opinion. It seems that there is a fashion in which the majority come together to complain. I see no solution to anything with the permanent complaint.