Not all the time we can do what we would like to do. In some opportunities during our life we want to do things that are difficult to do. At present, and thanks to the confinement due to social distancing, the fact of not being able to do what used to be routine is repeated over and over again.
I like the tranquility of my home but sometimes I had strong desires to go out to the countryside, to the beach, to the river, to the mountains, to the beach or simply to eat something very tasty outside.
Reading the post of another user with her virtual trip inspired me, I wanted to make my own, a virtual trip of my country. And I did… But I fell short, in the middle of it I realize that it was too much to tell and without having my own images to illustrate. I have no images saved because they were all left without backup in a damaged computer.
But I have this idea in my mind and I'm going to do it. It’s clear that first I must let go of the social isolation we are exposed to nowadays, but I know that if my God gives me life I will go back to visit my favorite places in my country and I will take the needed photos and keep them in a safe place.
But let’s go back to the initial point, sometimes no matter how hard we fight we cannot achieve something we long for. Sometimes even our intentions are not enough, we fight harder, we risk, we strive, we give everything for everything and we only manage to get more frustrated in the attempt and fail.
What makes some people succeed? What makes some people get a clear path for their desires to come true? Are they luckier, are they more committed to their craft or is it simply their destiny?
Many times in life I wondered why things for me were so difficult to achieve and instead I saw other people who were at the same level as me but everything was much easier for them.
That led me to wonder why some people find those things difficult and why others find the same things easier. I don't question why I struggled so much, what I want is to expose the two circumstances with the same result.
And there is the other part of my questions, people who at the slightest effort give up. Who prefer to live under the complains, who struggle without much effort to get by other methods the few things that can satisfy their momentary needs.
I have heard many times the same story of people who tried and failed to achieve their goals, people who left the responsibility for their future in the hands of others. These people stopped in the achievement of their goals because they didn’t find the support they needed to move forward.
Is it necessary that other people take care of our life, while we choose to achieve success or the goals we set for ourselves in life? Or is it only our responsibility and no one else's to get the tools needed to reach a happy ending?
There are so many questions I ask myself, but I don't have the answers. I will always have another question and another answer, but I can assure you the following…
The success we have in life does not depend on second persons, on another individual. Our own great effort is indispensable to reach our goals and to feel that we achieved what we set out to do. If someone else intervenes to make it easier for us to achieve a less tortuous path, that will be very stimulating, but the simple fact of wanting to achieve something is enough.
My dear friend who is reading this post, if you are interested in being more efficient, or in opening your horizons, it’s good if you plan and try to do so.
It’s also good for you to know that it’s very stimulating if someone offers you help to optimize your tasks and to achieve them in a satisfactory way for you.
But the most important thing you have to know is that you must have the idea fixed in your mind. You must know and program your life in such a way that if you don’t find anyone to give you tools to help you climb your steps. You must know that with the strength of your mind, with the capabilities you have and with your mind fixed on your goal you will be able to achieve your desires.
Dare to do and you will succeed. I say this from my own experience.
__________________________________
Thanks to my readers and sponsors for following my publications. God bless you.
That's right. We have to find a way to do things. Learn to be resourceful. We just need to be more patient and not to be so hard on ourselves. When I started here in read, I thought I couldn't do what others are doing but I'm glad that I am here still getting about two months now. We just need a little more push and a little more drive to make it.