Wanna Live Longer and Happier? Part 1: The 8 Life Rules to Live By
Date: April 8, 2022. Friday. @frdchckn How are you doing today, everybody? I hope you're all having a good day. For this article, I will be sharing with you the first part of my first new series entitled "Wanna Live Longer and Happier?"
Even though we have known each other for a little while now, when I think of you guys, I always find myself thinking "How can I make your life better?" I've been working part-time on this article series for a while, and today I'm finally ready to share with you the first part of the series. I have been working on it for a long time, but I have only just recently finished it. So today I will be sharing with you the first part of my first new series called "The 8 Life Rules to Live By."
Nobody is perfect. Everyone experiences ups and downs in life, but it's the big picture that matters. That's how things operate in this world. At some point in our lives, we all crave for the guidance and wisdom of those who came before us. It's something that shakes us into reality, and at the same time ignites a spark of motivation and passion to push our boundaries forwards.
Some people say that life is a marathon. Others say it's a series of sprints—you run as fast as you can for as long as you can, and then you stop to catch your breath. I don't really care which theory you believe to, because either way, the important thing is this: You have to breathe.
When we focus on the moments of greatness and forget the times we've failed, our attitude toward life changes. We end up better people and with a greater appreciation for life, which by default makes us happier. Even the most successful people have experienced their share of struggles and sorrow. The difference between those who make it and those who don’t is that those who make it learn from their mistakes, move on, and improve themselves while they still can. So if you're feeling fed up, here are eight rules which have served me well, and have the potential to serve you well, too:
1. Transform all negativity into a positive aura.
Seek out the company of positive people who believe in living life to the fullest and making the most of every situation, no matter how difficult it may seem. If you surround yourself with negative people, your mindset will be negative as well. That is why it is so important to avoid negativity and surround yourself with positive people instead! Always choose the better side of life.
2. Don't compare yours to other people's lives.
Everyone is on a different journey and you have no idea what their journey is all about. Focus on doing YOUR best and don't worry about what everyone else is doing or saying. The sun and the moon are incomparable; they both shine when it is their time.
3. Stop overthinking things.
One of the biggest barriers to happiness is overthinking. It seems weird that a person can get stuck in their own head—but it happens. And one of the best ways to be happy is just stop overthinking everything. Let's be honest: the more you think about it, the more frustrated and unhappy you will become. I'm not saying to ignore it—I'm just saying to not let it consume you. It's fine if you don't have all the answers. They'll come to you when you least expect it.
4. Time heals almost everything; give it time.
It might take a while, but eventually it will heal. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try other things to help yourself feel better; just don't forget that time could very well be the best medicine. Don't rush anything, even if you're upset or frustrated, because no one's in a hurry and we all have forever, so there's no need to rush anything.
5. Except for you, no one has control over your happiness.
It starts within you. You deserve to be happy right now—and if you're waiting for someone else to make a decision or take an action that will make that happen, you are wasting your time and energy. Stop giving people the power to control your smile, emotions, and feelings. Rather, strive to be the best version of yourself.
6. Put a broad smile on your face.
Did you know that the first thing people notice about you is your smile? It's true—it tells the world so many things about who you are and what you're feeling. And did you know that it's contagious, which means that when you smile at someone else, they'll probably smile back? So smile! You've got so much to feel good about, and so much of it to share with other people. You never know: your smile might just be the key that brings someone out of their dark place today.
7. Make peace with the events of your past.
Why are there so many people who are unhappy with their lives? Because they're always fighting with their past. They condemn, despise, and blame themselves. You have to be kind and gentle with yourself when you're dealing with difficult things from the past that maybe you can't change or even fully understand.
8. Always be kind.
No matter what happens, no matter how much you want to scream and shout, or just shut down and curl up in a ball—always, always try to be kind. Life is so short and remember that everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. You have the power to make people feel good. Be considerate and lend you helping hand when others need it.
After thinking a lot about my life in general, I've arrived at these eight rules of life that we should all live by if we want to live a good and fulfilling life. These rules govern everything in my life. Not everyone may agree with these rules or my perspective. You don’t need to listen to what I have to say. In fact, you're not even obligated to read them. It's your life, after all. But if you do, please try to follow them (I know they may seem impossible at times) because it's something we should consider as we journey through life. I have no intention to change your life or instruct you on how to live it. All I ask is that you give these rules a chance and see how much better your life could be if you did.
That's all for the first part of my series! There's more to come! I hope you enjoyed reading it! Thank you and keep safe always!
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These are the things I try to live by. I try not to compare myself to others because each of us have our own pace. We must focus on our progress and not be intimidated by others. We'll have our time. We just have to be patient and keep learning.