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Disclaimer: all of this is just based on my opinions and experiences :)
Lemme share this one.
I have this former friend. (Is that the right term? Haha) Yeah, we're not friends anymore. Yeah that's life, may aalis may dadating para umalis ulit hahaha.
Here's a very short story of their friendship. (???) XD
We all know and we are aware what friends are, right? Supporting EACH OTHER but with limitations.
Here it is, they knew each other for a long time. They labeled their relationship as friends. Hmmm. But the boy was always asking and taking and taking and taking whatever he wanted. And the girl keeps providing what boy's want.
One day, my friends and I overheard their conversation. Not our intention! Don't get us wrong! Haha.
Boy: I want to eat this one (maybe he is showing it through his phone.) sadly, I don't have money.
Girl: How much is that?
Boy: P199 pesos only.
Girl: Oh okay. Order it, I'll pay.
Boy: Yeees! You're the best friend! Thank you. (Then he left in our classroom)
One of our friends asked the girl. Is that really a friend? It seems you are his sugar mommy. With a confused look.
Then she replied, "It's complicated, we are more than friends. I love him and he said that he loves me too."
"And then?" We asked.
"What did he do about it?" I asked.
"He just said that we are better off as friends" she answered.
"Wait what? Friends? You love each other but better off as friends? Then you always buy what he wants, stop it. Let's say, you are a couple. Still, it is not right that you will buy everything for him. Friends are not like that, even the couple. Know your worth. Don't let him use you" our friend says.
What a complicated relationship.
It is like,"mahal kita kasi kailangan kita" at "mahal kita kasi ikaw yung nandyan" (I love you because I need you and I love you because you are the one who is there.)
The girl told us that she is afraid that the guy will leave him if she doesn't buy something for him. Damn! If the boys were like that, don't be afraid to be left. He is not worth it. Aside from that, there is no assurance that he will love you forever just because you buy things for him. That's not how it works. Even if you give your all if he will leave you, he will.
My point of sharing this here is, don't let others abuse you and don't abuse others. Not because you know that someone has feelings for you, you will take advantage.
What is your opinion about this?
Yaaay! Finally, I'm able to write here again. Kilala niyo pa ba ako? 😆 chaaar.
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Na miss kitaaaaaa bii! Busy na busy ka na talaga sa lovelife mo ha. Sanaol may juwa! 😂💗
About sa boy na tinutukoy sa itaas, pakisakal please haha, ginigil niya ko. Pasampal din kay ate ghurl at baka matauhan sa katangahan.