There are times that there is a lack of boundaries to ourselves that definitely call out disrespect. We put our foot down and we don’t know how to say no. If these become and if it’s become often, we tolerate and attract others to cross the lines, others who will take advantage of our kindness and who will use us as a convenience.

Without giving boundaries from the beginning and making out the lines we should know that we cross our own values and the more we tolerate, the more we attract these kinds of people into our lives. The more we say no and that we will never allow it, then more we cannot save ourselves from this kind of people.

When times come that we know how to use our own voices to speak for whom we are and speak up for our beliefs without worrying about others’ what to think and what to say. If we learn to stop pretending to be someone that we are not just to be accepted by others, that’s the start that we repel those people who seek to gain power over those people that are soft-hearted and vulnerable.

And if we secure in ourselves not to allow our boundaries to be crossed and not allowing ourselves to succumb to the pressure that others give us, definitely…. They will stop showing up to us often.

But, it will always be the right to do for ourselves, to stand firm, and to say NO! We should stand for who we are, ad what we are, we shout stand for ourselves no matter what! Stand firm even if your voice shakes and tears fall down.

Always remember that what we allow will continue…

Please don’t allow disrespect to continue, we should call it out! Never allow yourself to lose everything for someone else; it will never be worth it.

You should always give honor to yourself,honor what you believe and what you feel. You should act and speak up whenever you always want to be heard, do it so.

Always be reminded that no one deserves to be treated less than. We should not give permission to others to use abuse us emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially. And what’s more important we don’t have to say yes to someone’s favor if it conflicts with your way of life and keeps you uneasy inside.

We are all worthy and we are valuable. We don’t have to change ourselves for others, always remember that you are enough. If you feel that there is something in you that needs to be changed, change for you, and yourself should always be the reason for your better chances.

When you feel that you are being brought down by the actions or inactions of others, you should always ask yourself…

Is this what I’m going to tolerate?

Is this worth tolerating?

Am I worth more than this?

Take note, that we are not everyone’s cup of tea and we will never ever be. We must not carry the opinion of others towards us. At the end of the day, it will always be everything about us, ourselves. We are not living in this world to please everyone, remember the goals in our lives, we should not dwell in the cage that others set for us.

Let’s keep focusing and working for ourselves, and no matter what others throw at us, we still have the choice to go in our lives without carrying the baggage of others.

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