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She Got Her Heart Broken Again Another girl again whose heart was broken for the nth time. I wonder why she still never got to learn her lesson. It's not like it was her first time but how come she's still not an expert on this. If only had she listened to her brain, she wouldn't have had to endure this feeling of being rejected again.
Listening to her heart has been the worst thing she ever did in her entire existence. Yes, it made her feel alive, but that feeling wouldn't even dare to last. I told this friend many times to always consider her brain first and only follow her heart when she's certain. Too bad she's so stubborn like me and you. It was in the year 2020 when, according to her, she met this dude somewhere from another realm. She had no idea what was in him that made her like him at her first glance. Love at first sight? Perhaps that could be the one. But she doesn't know him and was busy entertaining the other dude.
https://pixabay.com/photos/man-woman-dog-pet-pug-owners-2425121/ Oh yeah, there was another dude involved. It's not like they were together, but she was just enjoying their time as friends. The second dude though was just a random guy whom she got to know a little before she quit her previous venture in life. She felt a special connection to that second dude but didn't bother to mind till they lost in touch for a long while. A lot has happened but in 2021, they met again. Yes, their path has crossed, and those two started to catch up again. After a while, her feelings started to come back and though she tried to prevent it, she couldn't just ignore her feelings. Fast forward and the two became close.
https://pixabay.com/vectors/heart-broken-broken-heart-love-5515235/ It was running smoothly until one day, something came out unexpectedly, and it messed up everything. The guy has changed and is now nowhere to find. Poor friend coz she's now broken-hearted again. Now she's been nagging me about this thing. Is she expecting me to give her advice? Advice that even I am struggling to apply for myself? Nonetheless, I still gave her a piece of me that I've learned from the past, and that's to let go when the other one is no longer wants to stay.
*Closing thoughts* She's sad, but she'll definitely get over it for sure. Told her, been there, done that, just trust the process, and she'll be fine. She sent me a smiling emoji, which, unfortunately, indicates that she won't listen. I've been in the same situation before. I used to ask why but now when I see the signs, I knew it would be the end. When that person goes, I just don't bother anymore. I let him go without why's. After all, people come and go, so we better prepare ourselves in times like this. Yeah, it will cost a lot of pain, but a friend says, it's better to feel the pain than not choosing to love again.
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It's better to feel the pain than not choosing to love again. I prefer this too. It's a nice feeling that you will give love and being loved again by someone you truly love. Pain, that was just part of the process and will surely makes us more stronger. 😊
Yes. No pain, no gain, ika nga. And that's a recipe for us to becoming a stronger and wiser version of ourselves.
Agreed sis.
I hope she overcome that very soon For now she needs to cry and cry more until there were no tears left.
Exactly. Mauubusan din yan ng luha one day. Magsasawa din siya kakaiyak and when that moment comes, back to herself na ulit siya.
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Aw. Tinood ui. Naa jud para sa atoa. Ang uban na delay lang jud. Haha. Salamat pero di man ako ang naay issue. Akong jumega.
I think we all had experience such kind of pain but you're right that if they want to leave then let them go. It's easy to say but hard to do hehez. I have such kind of friend who's always asking for advice but didn't listen to what I've advice to her.
Hahaha. Dami niyang ganyan. Ako, ganyan din naman ako. I listened to them but I always follow my heart pa rin. 😅😅
I love that your last quote “it will cost a lot of pain, but a friend says, it's better to feel the pain than not choosing to love again.” If you decide to choose love again after a pain you might be lucky to relinquish your pain but not all are lucky when tend to choose love again and will still curse more pain. I pray we all find what's suitable for us
I pray we all do. That would be great, to be honest.
ana jd na... makarecover ra na si friend... hehe then kataw an nlng na nya ang panghitabo
Tinood ui. Ana jud na.
The thing is that not everyone that comes into our lives comes to stay and we mustn't be too quick to lean on people in case they show their real identity that might hurt us badly. Life can't be smooth always, we have all been through this one way or the other.
Thanks for this. I mean I should remember this for myself. Lol
Getting your heart broken isn't the easier thing to deal with. It can be heart shattering and not many people fully recover from it. But it's true what you said, "Yeah, it will cost a lot of pain, but a friend says, it's better to feel the pain than not choosing to love again."
True. Not everyone can recover right away, but I hope she will.
I can say every girl has been there before but it can be anyone because our hearts melt when it finds its missing part but the guy is such a devil in human cloth
Or maybe they're just not meant to each other so they are destined to fall apart.
Maybe, maybe not Or maybe the guy is not capable of holding a relationship that's why he keeps fluctuating like electricity in her life
It looks toxic to me, she should not allow herself into such a relationship, then again, when girls love a guy, it's always deep, it's not that easy to just quit.
Girls tend to fall easily. No matter how much they want to avoid it. Well, that's part of life. You fall in love, you get hurt, you learn, and you stand again.
She would get it right someday, heart break from now is better than eternal heart break for life in marriage .
True. Breakups are actually blessing in disguise.
Masarap po talagang mag mahal kaso masakit pag nasaktan ka mahirap mag patawad at makalimot sa taung minahal mo nang lubusan.
Sabi nga nila pag nagmahal ka, except na masasaktan ka talaga. Kaya ayoko na magmahal. Char.
Kaya nga po. Ang iba takot na kasi ma aaring maging paulit ulet lang ang mang yare ay ang masaktan sila ulet at laging umiyak. na para silang nag durusa nang paulit ulet.
My best friend is in the operation of moving on after a tough breakup too, she's struggling of letting go because of her love. What I can do as a friend is to be always there for her no matter what happens. 💗
Tama. Kaya kami chika chika na lang dahil nasa malayo siya. Pero alam kong Survivor yun siya. She'll be okay soon.
Magiging okay din sila, soon. 😊💗
Alam mo sis, kapag kasi nagmahal ka, mas nangingibabaw ang puso kesa sa utak. Kaya you can never say na may expert about love. Siguro yun iba eh mas malakas lang angbisip nila kesa sa puso but you cannot say na expert sila. I hope your friend will soon find the right one for her..
Totoo naman talaga. Kahit gano ka pa ka confident, pag yung taong yun, mahal mo talaga, lahat ng defense mechanisms mo mawawala. Hirap talaga ipredict. Hope she'll pass through this.
She will sis, basta anjan lamg kayo mga friends nya to support her..
Naalala ko friend ko. Like, she can't let go the person she loved for almost 3 years. For because, the boy leave here for without any specific reason. Masakit magmahal, masakit masaktan, nakakatakot umibig muli. But, if you know how to handle relationship dahil sa past na nangyari. Then, it makes you strong dahil sa napagdaanan mo noon.
Ouch naman nung 3 years. Saklap. Masakit din naman talaga magmahal tapos iiwan ka lang. Nakaka phobia yung paulit-ulit na scenario na ganito. Kaya ako, gang crush lang para pag lumayo, wala masyadong sakit.
Akala ko naman ikaw to. Haha.. Makakamove on dn sya
Haha. Broken din ako kaso hindi kasing lala niya. Hehe
She's tough I must say :) She loving again for the nth time and getting broken for the same nth time means she isn't giving up on love hehe.
As they say, try and try till you die. Lol. I mean succeed. 😅😅
Lol! If she is as tough as that in money-making maybe she will be very rich na :)
I remember my sister on her. My sister are so martyr when it comes to someone she's in a relationship with. Even if she's hurt many times, she would still forgive her gf. Her gf cheated on her and she knew but then she still chose to stay and continue the relationship and get hurt. Then repeat. Tiring but I believe they will soon get over it and will choose themselves over the others.
True. Some people just tend to stay no matter how toxic the relationship is coz they are hoping that it will change eventually. But yes, they'll get tired of it eventually.
The best advice I would give to anyone in these heart broken situation is not to let stuff get into your brains...Be brave and confident, because all that pain would seem so unnecessary on future... trust the universe :)
True. It's not something that will stay for a lifetime. Never let the feeling crushed you forever.
I haven't experienced loving someone yet, but I wonder why are they asking me for advice? 😂 My guess is that I give advice based on logic, not based on feelings. Masyado po kaseng nagdadamdam yung iba.
Madali talaga mag advice pag dating sa iba. Kasi walang halong biased. Pero pag dating naman sayo, if ever ikaw na ang involved, mejo iba din. Hehe
Ohh this is what they called loving so hard. But I am sure she's going to get over it in time. It will take a long process but I believe people can really go on and let go.
It takes time but as they say, time heals all wounds.
Hmm the crazy things we do for love "{
Tama! Nakakabaliw nga naman talaga. lol
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