Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Why?
Blog 75-4th
Date :May 05,2022
Time :3:36pmCheating is not only about having sex with someone, if you are hiding or deleting a conversation so your partner will not know about it then it's considered cheating.
After answering the first 20 questions about relationships, one comment caught my attention and it was from sis @Pachuchay.
She said this :
Yes, I admit I am not in love with my husband, if you want to know why I say that I am not in love with him just read my 3 previous articles hehe.
I am not in love with my husband
Mahal ba talaga niya ako o hindi?
Anyway, I myself am aware that I am not really in love with my husband. I just can't force myself to love him back. Maybe if he will do some effort so I can feel loved again then I'll consider loving him. Since there are still more questions needed to be answered so I will try to answer them with honesty and you'll be the judge hehe. So here it goes.
How much do you think you understand your partner?
Hmmm. I think I still don't understand him enough. It's just too hard to understand him.
Do you trust each other?
No. I don't really trust him. He has already broken my trust in him how many times. He fooled me many times already.
He told me that he trusts but contrary to his actions, he doesn't really trust me. He always thinks that I will cheat on him. I already told him that I decided to marry him that I will respect our marriage and I will never do stupid things that will destroy our marriage.
Have you not let your partner do something just because you feel jealous or angry?
Nah! I don't get jealous. He even talks to his ex over the phone while I am listening to them. Of course, my husband told the girl that he felt sorry for not doing what he promised. My husband used to work in Manila when he was still single. They were in a relationship and after he go back here to Bohol, he promised the girl that he will be back but then the girl just found out that Elmo(my husband) is already in a relationship with me and soon to be married. I felt bad for the girl but Not my fault because I don't know anything.
How do you feel when others find your partner attractive?
I don't feel jealous at all. I don't care if they find my partner attractive. A lot of girls are messaging him or me. Girls that still can't move on. Too bad for them, my husband just makes them hope for nothing.
Do you feel jealous if your partner hangs out with a friend of the opposite sex?
No, but I don't trust him hanging out with the opposite sex since I know his attitude and how weak he is.
How serious are you both taking this relationship?
I am serious about being married to him and making our relationship work and last long.
Do you bring up arguments very often and why?
Not really. I don't like to argue with him.No point in arguing with someone like him.
Do you make sacrifices for your relationship?
Yes. I did a lot of sacrifices for our relationship. I just don't know if he appreciates all my sacrifices for our relationship.
Have you ever apologized for what you’ve done wrong to your partner?
Always. I always accept my fault or my lapses.
Do you forgive your partner’s mistakes easily?
Depend on what mistake he has done. If it is just simple mistakes then why not. But if that mistake has been done more than once then no reason to forgive him until he realizes his mistakes.
Do you throw temper easily for small mistakes of your partners?
Not really. I just choose to stay quiet.
Is it really necessary to know everything from your partner’s previous relationships?
I guess yes. At least I will understand him better that way.
When was the last time you had an in-depth conversation with your partner?
Last week.When I told him everything that I wanted to tell him.All my frustrations, my anger, my disappointments with him.
Are you keeping any secrets that you’re afraid of letting your partner know?
No. My life was open book when he started courting me. I don't want him to know some issues about me from other people. It's better for him to know it from me.
Do you think your partner’s friends and family like you?
I guess so. It's been more than 2 years but I didn't hear any bad comments from his friends and families.
Do you feel that your partner accepts the way you are?
No. He doesn't even understand me.
Have you seen each other at your best and worst?
Worst yes. Best I don't know.
Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Why?
No. Even if I don't really love him I still respect him as my husband and I respect him as a human being. Nobody deserves to be cheated. I respect our marriage.
I guess this is all for now. There are still a few more questions but I think I need to cut it here now. Thank you for the time.
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While reading your article, one question came to my mind... Are you still happy with him?