First time: Unforgettable experiences in my teenage life

Blog 25
Date :February 18, 2022
Time : 4:40 pm

Just like they said there's always a first time. Just like how I got my first kiss when I was in high school. It was new years eve when my suitor suddenly kiss me on my lips. Yes, suitor only and he is not yet my boyfriend. I was literally shocked by what he did. Anyway, that is just part of my first in life.

We all know that too much can harm us. Just like drinking hard liquors can make us vulnerable sometimes and we can't control ourselves.

I was 16 years old when first I tried drinking beers. I had this boyfriend of mine before and we got some one-on-one drinking sessions. Lol, not really a drinking session. He was 4 years older than me. After being a little tipsy we decided to go home. I was living in a boarding house just a few steps from their house. When we were in my boarding house. He started kissing me and He told me not to be drawn away as we are both tipsy. I just love how he respects me. So after that nothing happens and then He goes home.

There was one night when my boyfriend and his friends had a drinking session just nearby the boarding house, his friend handed me a glass of hard liquor (Tanduay). I told his friend that I don't really drink Tanduay. I just don't like how it smells.

One night my boyfriend invited me to go with him because he wanted to take a shower. I don't really know what does he mean. I don't know where he wants to take a shower. Without asking anything I just go with him. We entered a place where there was a minibar. I don't really know what's that place. We go upstairs and entered a small room. Whoah! I was so freaking ignorant. I don't have any idea that we just check in on the lodging house. Well, how would I know? the name written outside the building was "Mantaring Inn" I didn't know that lodge and Inn is just the same thing. Well, I grow up in the jungle or it's just my excuse for my stupidity. Anyway, I go with my boyfriend because I trusted him. I thought he respects me as a woman. He took a shower and invited me to join but I told him that I don't want to. After he take a shower he tried to tempt me but I told him I am not yet to do that kind of thing. I was 16 years old. He told me why I go with him to that kind of place if I am not willing to do it. I told him I am not familiar with that place and I trust him he won't do anything that can harm me. Nothing happens to us that night and I was glad that he never force me to do it with him. We decided to go back home.

A few days after that incident He asks me for a favor. He wants to cool off with me. Just for a week. He was still a college student at that time and he told me that his sister is coming home from abroad and his sister was the one who supported his studies. His sister wants him to focus on his studies. I told him that usually, cool off would end up breaking up.

Three days after cooling off he can't take it anymore as he really wanted to see me. We live just nearby. We're neighbors. But I told him we are cool off so we don't need to talk or see each other. Until we finally broke up.

After a few weeks of being single, I met this guy named Raygan. I meet him at my workplace.

There was a night when my board mate invited me to join her together with her friends. We were hanging out and drank some beers. I didn't know that Raygan is a friend of my board mate. After being a little drunk Raygan accompany me to go back to my boarding house. He started kissing me and I was like Hey are we on now? Like, are we now in a relationship? He just agreed. And that's how my relationship with Raygan started. The first few weeks of being in a relationship with Raygan was going smooth until one night my ex-boyfriend (I'm sorry I don't really remember his name) visited me at my boarding house and he was really drunk. He regrets what he did. He wanted me back but he knows that I already have a new boyfriend. I let him sleep in my boarding house because he was too drunk. He can't manage to go home.

However, I didn't let Raygan knows about it. I know it was wrong to let my ex-boyfriend sleep at my boarding house but I can't just let him leave knowing that he was too drunk.

December and it was my 17th birthday Raygan and I celebrated it with some beers lol. Drinking session again When we were back at my boarding house we were both tipsy. He forces me to have s*x with him. He rapes me. I was raped by my boyfriend. He was my first. Our relationship last for a couple of months before I decided to end up our relationship.

Anyway, this story happens 16 years ago. And it's part of my previous article abortion will never be my option.

Closing thoughts

I may have quite different teenage life but I think what's more important is the lessons I learned from those experiences in my life. How about you guys? What are your memorable or unforgettable experiences in your teenage life?

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