Being in a relationship with a woman

Blog :26
Date :February 21, 2022
Time :3:40 pm

For all the relationships I already shared here this one is the different one.

Way back year 2010 when I worked as a secretary of a lending business but my salary is not enough to provide for the needs of my 3 years old daughter. I was a single mom at that time. Maybe some of you here already read my Article Journey as a single mom.

I decided to find a job in Cebu with the help of my elder brother Alvin. Alvin has been working in Cebu for more than 16 years now. He helps me to work in the same company where he works.

I work as a merchandiser at Robinson Fuente. It was my first time working in a supermarket, particularly in the fruit and vegetable area. I meet this guy who is also a native of Bohol. He is assigned to the rice section. He started courting me for a couple of weeks before I said yes. He is the kind of man who is treated like I'm his Queen or his baby. We decided to live together in a boarding house near Robinson. Our relationship was going smoothly for a couple of months. He told me that he wanted to get married but I am not yet ready to be married at that time.

Until my 6 monthly contracts in Robinson ended and my coordinator reassigned me to another Mall, at Metro Ayala.

In Ayala, I was assigned to the fruit salad area near all the other stalls. Every time I arrive at my station there is this Lesbian one who kept on teasing me that I am late and I just answered her that she is not my boss. She's not the one who pays for my salary. So why she's bothered? Honestly, I don't really like her. But when fate plays you around. I got closer to her. Until I fall in love with her and I choose her over my boyfriend. I decided to live with her. Honestly, it was my first time to be in a relationship with a woman. When my family found out about it they were mad at me they think I was going crazy. Anyway, she is a half-American half Filipina but she has never seen her dad. Her mom is a single mom.

We live in a boarding house for a couple of months before we decided to stay in her mother's house. I thought everything will be going smoothly until I found out that she is communicating with her ex-girlfriend. Not just communicating but they're still seeing each other. I don't really know why she has to cheat on me. I am younger than her ex not just younger but not to brag I look prettier than her ex. I was still in my 20's that time and she's way older than me. If I remember it right she's more than years older than me and her ex was years older than her.

She's always the one who started our fight or misunderstandings. She has always been jealous for no reason.

There was one time she was taking shower and I heard her phone beep and I open the message and it was from an ex-girlfriend. Her ex-girlfriend is asking what food for lunch she wants. So when she was done taking a shower I told her that her ex texted her and asked what food she wants. She was shocked but didn't bother to explain to me. She decided to go to work and I followed her. I saw the two of them talking near the market. I confront them If they still want to be together? I was terribly shaking. They don't bother to answer so I decided to walk away from them. There's a church near the market so I decided to stop there and I started crying so hard. I felt so devastated that time. When I was in my moment of drama there was a little boy ask if what's wrong with me, I did not answer him I just continue crying then I heard the little boy talk to the security guard. The little boy said that he have seen a crying lady, she cried because she don't how to go home. Upon hearing it, it made me smile.

After that incident, I still decided to stay with her until we had a fight that made me decide to end up my relationship with her and go back to my province.

I pack my things and went back to my parent's place.

It was perfect timing when I was back in my hometown because my first-degree cousin who owns a computer shop was looking for someone to manage her business.

Even if I don't have any idea how to operate a computer shop I still accept her offer. September 07, 2012, when I started working at the computer shop. It wasn't easy at first because I don't really know how to operate a computer and I don't know how to print documents that or pictures. Until I learn on a daily basis.

One day I was surprised when my ex Lesbian boyfriend showed up at the computer shop where I work. I don't really know how she was able to find me. So we end up being together again. But honestly, I don't love her anymore. I just used her for financial reasons. She stayed here for a couple of days, meet my parents, and then she goes back to Cebu. She was been supporting us financially. Sometimes she visits us here or sometimes we visit her in Cebu that's how our setup goes until I decided to finally break up with her. I can't continue using her. I told her everything and she fully understands me.

For now, we are not friends on Facebook because my husband didn't want me to communicate with my exes. But we're friends actually.

Closing thoughts

Being in a relationship with a woman or a man is no different. I have big respect for my ex Lesbian because She was been a father to my daughter, she tried her best to provide what we need. We just didn't end up together because of some circumstances. How about you guys? Have you tried to be in a relationship with same-sex?

Photos used in this article are all owned by yours truly unless it is stated.

Lead image source

Check my amazing and generous sponsors