Everyone says that our hair is our crowning glory and sometimes your aura is also depends in our hair. That's why alot of girls spend money for their hair unless that they have shinning shimmering splended hair since birth. Well, not to brag , but i inherited to my father's side the natural straight hair and my mom took care of it by cutting it short when i was a kid.

Most of kids before have long hair and it always styled by their moms, but my mom just cut it out because she dont know how to style a hair, busy helping my dad to work and i have lice 😂. I never experienced a long hair until i reached a high shool.

When i was in grade 3, my teacher keep reminding my classmate to comb her hair, because it always look messy and not look nice but in reality my classmate always comb it, its just she have a tin hair. And the worst is, my teacher keep comparing to me, she was like - look at joy, she always comb her hair, pony your hair if you dont comb it.

Whe i was already in grade 4 , i got an interest to have a long hair because my childhood friend and my classmate at the same time have a long hair even her hair is a bit dry. But my mom didn't allow me and she cut my hair again. I didn't go to shool after and cried alot, i just send an excuse letter why i am absent. You know what's on the excuse letter? that i was an adopted 😂. Yes, i said that just because my mom rejected my request, and until now i didnt corrected it 😂.

So when i get old, of course my mom didn't tamper my hair at all, but my dad keep reminding me not to color my hair. But when i was 25 years old, my best friend visit the Philippines and bring me in the salon and colored my hair. It was pass midnight whe i get back to the house and my dad is already sleeping so she dont have any idea about my hair color. And I woke up late so that my dad won't see it. But of course, i can't for a long time, he caught me after 3 days and he was like - what did you do to your hair? that's ugly it looks like rust. Well, he's the only one said that its ugly to me 😂.

After that, i always color my hair and cut it with different style and i even curl it. I use different hair iron that cause damage to my hair. My start to fall because of it plus stress in life. But of course i use different remedy to maintain it. And let me share you some tips..

Virgin coconut oil ...

I put virgin coconut oil twice once a week from scalp to tip 30 minutes before taking a bath. While waiting for 30 minutes , i massage my scalp to make it relax and the oil spread to the entire hair. It helps to lessen the dandruff and your hair will get thick and soft. But you have to shampoo your hair twice so that the oil will remove. But if your hair is dry, make it twice to 3 times a week.

Apple Cider...

I spray the apple cider from scalp to tip. the mixture is 1 is to 1 - 1/2 water 1/2 apple cider, 20 minutes before i take a bath. Even your kinky hair will shine and will look healthy. it will remove your dandruff for a week. Dont forget use the cream silk after shampoo to lessen the scent of apple cider vinegar.

Rice water...

this is my current hair care - rice water twice a week. its easy to prepare as we eat rice and this is the cheapest because you dont need to buy one because its already in the kitchen. What i did is , i put the water in the bottle that i used to rinse the rice and boiled for 3 minutes then let it fermented for 3 days. I just pour it on my head and 15 minutes before rinse it. Use shampoo and conditioner to remove the scent of fermented rice water. Your hair will get shiny, remove dandruff and less hair fall. You can watch on youtube the other way to prepare a rice water because my process is more effective on me. And rice water will make your hair longer fast .

Now, im not afraid to style and color my hair because i do some hair care that really effective on me.

What about you ? How do you care your hair?