I am ready for marriage but I cannot cook, what can I do?

I am ready for marriage but i cannot cook, what can I do with my life?

I was not brought up by my parents because am the only child, so I have been brought up by various home helps. They have trained and taught me that am a princess, I don't need to bother with the little things they will handle them. Me and my parents are the masters of our house and nobody will interfere us. They always say of how good it is to remain single, that is why I want to get married but I don't want to be left out of things.

I want to talk of a few things I can be proud of and also my family background. My dad is a building contractor, he owns his own construction company we consult, design and build structure. This is all my father work with the help of God. He started the business in 1988, our family is blessed.

What can I say, at my age of 30 now, was just wondering how I will fit in with the family when the time comes that I get married. On the other hand it has not been easy going out to look for a husband since I have an attitude problem. I have been dating this guy that I do like at least to be part of his life and share the little things around home and go out every once in a while. He is also very kind, loving and caring as well.

I don't know how to cook for myself, I don't even know how to cook for one person. I didn't go to school like everyone else, my parents sent me to a private boarding school for girls only, I had all the best things, cooks and nannies took care of me but now am on my own with many degrees and job, I can't do anything by myself.

Yes, I know this sounds funny, talking of age am of age to get married, various guys have been asking me for my hand in marriage but am afraid if it will last. One day, I heard an advice from a very close friend, she said that why don't I get married to a guy that can cook. Since then, I have been looking for one. But I had no luck till now.

The way most guys see the kitchen is that its the best place for a woman not for them. Some of them are scared because they lack knowledge to do some things in the kitchen, others are lazy not because they don't want to help but because they are afraid of failing and doing something wrong.

Some men think that if they get married then their job will be to always pass me under any circumstance until the time come that I start cooking and making things happen on my own.

Recently I approach My dad as man will he marry someone who can't cook, he said I should sit and pray and God will send one to me that will be rich enough to cater. The man I think I need now his the one will employ for me driver so I can send a driver to park, a chef to cook on my behalf, a maid to clean on my behalf and not just an ordinary man.

And am getting sick of being like this, at least I will be free and won't do anything.