I am taken because why not?

Chain articles are in trends nowadays. Most of us participated including me participated into this and write my own version of it unti there's a challenge about single that goes in trend and we , the users here who are taken already requested if there's a version of this challenge for those taken and then @Eybyoung wrote an article about it and then tagged me to write also.

Here's her article. Random questions for taken.

And here's the website for the set of questions. Relationship questions.

I have picked a few chosen questions that I will going to answer honestly and with all of my heart. Char 😂 So here they are.

I became a mother for almost 3 years and as I observed with my kind of parenting , I am half strict and sweet mother because I want my child to know that I have the authority to say things to him because I am his mother. Don't get me wrong , I know you knew how sweet I am as a mother and how I cared about my son but I want also my son to listen to me and teach him that whatever Mama did is for the sake of him. I also want to be a parent that is open to our children because I didn't experience it to my mother. I saw myself as a mother who will be very supportive to all the dreams of our children and a mother who always there to ask our children if they are okay and give them the confidence they needed to achieved thier dreams.

I will not forget this line when the boyfriend of my friend talk to me in those times that I was so wasted. So here's his advice. Respect yourself first and guy will respect you too. This advice became my turning point to asked myself to change and respect myself to be able to find a guy who will respect me also. Then he's right because after I learned how to love and respect myself , my husband came in the picture and he thought me that being in a relationship is not all about worldly things.

I remember my comment a few days on @MissJo article that exes can be friends. Yes , I have 2 exes who are my friend in Facebook account because we are in good terms and we are casual. I have a few exes before I got married and we are all in good terms. But now even if we are in good terms I choose not to be stay in touch with them because what for? One time my ex boyfriend chatted me because he was explaining a thing about his online business but my husband knew it. I even posted it in noise.cash because he said I miss you even if he's already married.

The biggest difference between us is our personality. My husband is an approachable man while me is a snobber one. Now we are living in our place but it seems he's the one who live in here for long time because he was already close to our neighborhood. Like what I said on my post in noise on his last restday he went to our neighborhood to connect on wifi. And me? In my years of staying here , I can't able to do what he did. I am not so friendly like him.

He is also very straight forward and I am not. He always express what he want to say even if he knows you will be hurt because he believes its okay if you will be offended , whats important is that you knew your mistakes. While me? I am not straight forward because I always think what people will going to feel with my actions.

Relationship is created for two person only. It means you can be happy together without thinking of other people as long as you didn't do anything wrong. Maybe it makes you confused? There's a saying " Private life is a happy life " . Posting all the happenings in social media just for Sana all and sympathy to make your relationship happy is not truly happy at all. My past relationship was like that. I always post anything on social media and even told my friends about what happened to us until I learned how to keep our relationship in private because my husband told me so and I understand that. I remember what he said to me way back. Why you need to post that if we can solve it privately?

I only answered 5 questions and now I will mention @z_graeden and @Xzeon . I hope you will do this challenge mommies hihi.