Ladies Corner : How To Make Your Man Desire You More

If your love story Doesn't gets interesting as the day passes, then something is missing in the story - Dr. Wrinkle

Hello beautiful ladies, how are you all doing ? Lately have become a love expert and am loving it, as it is also helping me in my relationship. Today, was set aside strictly for ladies and I know some men will come to spy on us. No problem, they are all welcomed. Chuckles!

The topic for today's article could also be rephrase as 'how to make your man get addicted to you' but literally, it may not sound well, as we do attribute addiction to non animate things like phone, games and habits Such as smoking etc.

 But have you ever thought of why people gets addicted to those thinks listed above ?  It is because of the value and happiness derived from them. We get addicted to our phones because of the different pleasures we could get from it, from social networking to playing games and if such individuals are on sites that pays like this platform. So addiction comes out of personal interest, what we derive from what we are doing.

How then can our man get addicted to us?

Have stories of how people use charms and love spells to make their partner desire them the more but today, am going to list just a few techniques have used over the years and it is really working for me. I know that male folks are listening too, they could also apply this techniques in their relationship. Here is a list of them ; 

1) Make The Relationship Lively : This sounds weird to some ladies, as they think it is the duty of the man to be the entertainer, the comedian and the one requesting they go on tours and road walk. Ladies, can we also take up this rules, in my previous series, I made mentioned of how I make my partner laugh so hard each time I try singing for him, it gets to a point whenever he is Moody and we aren't together, he will always call me just for me to sing for him. Yours might no be a funny voice, it could be a melodious one, try also singing for him. About 80% of humans loves music And am sure your partner falls among them. If you can't sing, it's okay, how about you try new recipe when you are together, or go for a walk together, all this creates indelible memories on his mind. No man will want to lose someone, who meets him at his lowest, tries to cheer him up whenever he is down, and who creates time for him. You can also engage in outdoor activities and playing of games together is another interesting thing. I once asked my fiance friend the type of woman, he will want to get married to. I was stunned when he told me 'someone who will play PES, god of war and PUBG with me without feeling bored'  it was a funny criteria for me, because not all ladies loves such game. I asked him 'what if she can't play those games you mention' he responded 'then she should be there to cheer me, she should be my cheerleader' .

Wow! This means even when you don't know how to play his favorite game, you Can still hang around to cheer him up when he plays them. When you can't sing his favorite song and he does, always applaud him, it means a lot to me. Even when my fiance laughs at me, he still tells me how lovely my voice is, which I know, he is just kidding.

 2) Know Your Worth : This is very vital in relationships and should be duly observed. Before I go on to explain, let me ask a question, You went into a jewelry store and bought two watches of which both are not of same price, watch A is worth $30 while watch B is worth $120. Which of those watches will you really value ?  

I know everyone will go for watch B because of it's price tag and so will every man value you based on the principles and standard you've kept. 

In today's world it is called playing hard to get, of which in some cases don't turn out well but if asked for my opinion, I will advice you play hard to get. You are worth every stress you put your man through, he can't just have everything on a platter of gold, if he does, am afraid he may not value you. No matter how much you love him and he is asking you out, just say no, the first time. It isn't to scare him away but to know how serious he is. If he persist, then you move on the next step. My fiance still talk about our first kiss, it wasn't an easy one. He requested for a kiss on our first date, which was cool by me but I only wanted being sure, he didn't just ask me out to kiss me and walk away. So I made him answer a lot of questions, and even told him, we could only kiss after one month of being together. I thought that will scare him away or get him pissed off, but it didn't, rather it got him more closer to me. And when we had our first kiss, it was worth it and he still cherish that moment. Give your man your reasons politely, 'ssorry darling, am reserving this special item, as a gift on your next birthday, or am reserving my kiss for someone who will love and cherish me sincerely, it might take up to a two months' Your partner if he is really serious and interested will respect your decision. This makes a man desire you the more, because they can't get enough of you. Don't throw yourself at them so freely, as they will get tired when they are done exploring you. Have some self reservation and make this know to your man. If this is done, he used and dump me stories, won't be heard, because  he worked himself to get what you gave to him, it wasn't for free.

3) Appreciation : I will keep on emphasizing on this point, as it is the sweetener in my own relationship. Ladies learn to appreciate your man. This could involve you getting him a gift, sending him a cute love message or even a picture of you when he least expects. Don't wait until he does something for you, you could text him randomly, thanking him for being a part of your life. Text them in the midst of a busy schedule and watch your simple text do the magic.  They are other ways of appreciating your man, from wet kisses to love making and even random hugs. They all points to the fact, you admire and cherish his presence in your life.

Finally, if you want to make your man desire you the more, learn to be independent. All men loves a lady that will take decisions, get groceries with or without assistance. This proves to him, with or without him, your life will still be worth living. He won't want to lose you. 

Do take care of your heart, flee from abusive and energy sapping relationships, don't force or beg for love. Love is natural and it flows on its own. 

Do have a wonderful night rest! 

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