Mom's needs to be strong and ready

It's another time again my dear fellows to write here in read. For today, I'll be sharing my feelings for this day. It's a journey of roller coaster emotions due to some unexpected things happened in the morning.My daughter go to school today, and it was around 8:26am, when I received a text message that my daughter is crying in school. And her teacher told me that I need to get her because her eyes are painful.

I was really worried, so I immediately call my husband in his workplace to come with me going to school. We borrow her workmate's motorcycle going there. When we arrived in school, she was covering her eyes and we take her home.

As a mother I'm trying to help her as much as I can, because I feel pity for her crying while saying that her eyes are painful. She was saying that she's so unlucky because she always been into an accident this past few days. So, she sleep for few hours, until the afternoon.

At night, we're having a problem again because she's still complaining about her eyes are in pain. I let her opened her eyes to see if there's something inside, and yes there is a glitters on it. It was color blue,and she's crying when I attempt to get it through a cotton buds.

It's takes more than an hour before we finally removed the glitters, she's telling me,that it's aching. At the back of my mind I was thinking, if we will bring her to the EENT, it will cost 2,000 pesos, or more,and we still don't have money yet at the moment. But, after an hour, the glitters was moved out from her eyes.

This past few days, I was experiencing a lot of surprises with my two kids, the other day, my eldest son who came home from school because of stomach pain and headache. And also, my daughter have slipped her arm last week.

I just keep on sighing, when I can heard them having a problem again. Honestly, I don't want my kids to suffer any pain, but for real, things just happened without any permission. As a mother, it often gives me stress when I read some messages from their teachers in school.

Mother, will always be a mom. In times that our kids needs us, we should be the one who will come to the rescue and help them. That's why, it's very important for a mom to be strong and ready all the time. As for me, we don't have time to say, "ayoko na", I surrender, but our language will be "fighting", despite of any circumstances, mother is needed.

When there was a time that I feel demotivated or discouraged, my family will feel the same too. We need to be strong to in order to faced the challenges that is thrown unto us. A mom's strength comes from the inside, that's why, even if things become worse or negative in form, a mom are courageous enough to face it all.

I know a mom who has 5 children, that even if she has no work, or any business to support her children. But, she will do anything just to feed her kids, through selling her clothes, electronic gadgets, loans, and other ways possible just to survive for a day. She will buy a kilo of rice before she go home and had already enough money to send her kids in school. When her children asked for money for their projects, or requirements, even if her wallet is empty, she tell them, "I will find a way" . A mom is always willing to find a way for her kids to be better and comfortable. She don't mind if she will be hungry, walking a distance to sell her stuff. She's a strong mom.

With all the problems that I've encounter, it molds me as a person, and makes me of who I am today. Motherhood is not an easy task, that's why, I can say, that my parents sacrifices for me wasn't easy. I can still remember, how did my mother supports me while I'm still studying, for providing me the things that I needed. And now, it's my turn, to have kids, I have mixed emotions. Not all the time, that things are going smoothly, there are plenty of rough days along the way.

With love and compassion, we can make it moms. There's no other way that we can surpass everything for our family, days maybe harder, but there's always a time that situation will be calmed.

Everyday, that I wake up early in the morning to prepare food, and things that my kids needed in school. It was a pleasure for moms, a great fulfillment everytime the day is done.

Moms need to be strong physically too, to keep her on the go. So, let us take care of ourselves and be healthy. Spend time to rest and have a good sleep at night as much as possible to keep ourselves on track.

It's also better to treat ourselves sometimes and have time to relax, to refreshed our mind. Our family depends on us while they are young, their core values were learned at home, and their attitude was molded. Moms played a great role in the home.

Lastly, moms are one of the hardworking bloggers here in read,despite of a busy day at home, 24/7,they keep on writing.

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Love and care for moms.