Can you still cry?

Did you know that there is a tendency that our tears will no longer flow in our eyes, and we can lose the ability to cry? Where the pain is no longer present, our eyes dry up, while the pain keeps on going inside us.

During the day, I had a chance to visit a friend, at her house before lunch, we had a long conversation, and we talk about her married life, which seems like a bittersweet experience. I'm glad to talk to her because we shared the same sentiments in the end, and we're talking about our husband's attitudes and character and how we cope with it.

She shared a lot of her experiences as a wife, that there were times that she and her husband have fought. Sometimes she turns out like a monster because she was angry, and his husband too felt the same.

Until she shared to me that she no longer feels the pain, she can't even cry recently, and her tears won't flow in her eyes, even if she wants to cry out. She comes to the point of hurting herself, by pinching her skin, but it doesn't cause her pain. Pain no more, feelings are gone. I forget to ask her if she still loves her husband the way she did before. How frustrating if the feelings are fading, what will happen to their marriage in the coming days?

She was asking me why did it happen to her, and I asked her if she cries very often before. And yes she did, because every time she's mad, she will not talk, but she just keeps on hiding in her room without minding the people, and the time that she's started crying.

Warning

In this part, proper communication is very necessary in every relationship. Ignoring our feelings is not reasonable, it's very important to express what we feel, to tell what is in our minds and heart. Don't just be content in the habit of disregarding your feelings, or crying alone without solving the main reason.

I can't believe that it's happening in real life, I thought it was just in a movie. What would be the possible reasons that it happened to her? She tells me that crying is her only solution to keep her problem away when she heard something that causes her pain, she cried, when she's offended she cries until she will be fine. But this time, it turns out that crying is not for her anymore, because she can't be able to cry again, she was confused about on how did it happened and how to fix herself.

I don't know how to react when I heard it. I was totally surprised, that pain is no longer in her. But, it doesn't mean that she's free, the more she can't cry, the more that the pain won't come out, and her emotional baggage will become heavier as the days go by because her emotions have no way out.

As a woman, our common denominator is crying, whether we are happy or sad. Imagine that you won't be able to cry, how hard life is, right? Which I think it's no longer a normal cycle. During our small talk, I can see in her eyes the heaviness inside her, she looks so tired and stressed, and the way she dress and even her face was very lonely.

Is there someone that you know who has the same situation? How often did you cry?

For thirty years of my existence, this is the first time that I met a person like her. I'm confused how to advise about her condition, maybe the doctors have an explanation about it.

She is a wife, and a mother of two, even if she has such a kind condition, I can still see her smile because of her children. Marriage is a serious commitment, it can challenge us in different areas of life.

I plead for every man not to hurt that much your woman if you wouldn't want to make her live a miserable life. Just love her and make her happy as long as she is with you for her emotions are not the same as yours.

The woman who is now unable to cry, feels like she's living in a different stage of her life, how come she can't even cry?

Dear women of this generation, you don't need to cry that much, if you noticed that your frequently crying, please tell yourself that you shouldn't do that, don't abuse your tears, your emotions may break down if it's too already too much.

Spend time with yourself, you deserved happiness, and you are a special one.

Can you still cry?

Then , your still living in a normal life, if your tears will drop down from your eyes, you should be thankful about that.

Tears are the best language of our inner self.

I hope that my friend will cry again,because she desperately want it back.

Thanks for reading guys.