Understanding People And Their Differences

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This is vital to our daily coexistence, to know that Jack is different from bill and Mary is different from rose, there is no particular law to generally bind everyone together so you can simply follow and you'll be at peace with everyone. I bet you that no matter how good you are, some people still wouldn't like you, oh in fact they would step on your toes and pinch your last nerves. You also aren't exempted, as you also can be very annoying at times, some people you make smile while some people you know you're stepping the border lines, well all this exist and life keeps being interesting.

Accepting peoples differences is one of the first steps to peace coexistence, only then can we take out time to know that person for who they truly are, are they emotionally matured to accept some things or not, would they understand your humor or take it as they will, have they gotten any past experience that would disrupt the manner at which they see and treat life currently, are they always smiling genuinely or hide a lot of bitterness behind a smile. All this and more would be know from careful engagement with another individual.

Peoples differences are not their suppose to be their weakness, we are supposed to learn rightly in the course of our living so as to turn such weaknesses into strength, however currently its a weakness to many of us because we haven't yet seek to correct our flaws. Like that is past of the essence of living if I'll say, to become better. As I strongly believe heaven is the goal, so earth is the game stage and for us to scale through with better scores then we have to learn. Already learning never stops, not with age, not with time.

So everyone must learn and possibly adjust to the seriousness of our living right. How bad it is that many have learnt via experiences, sometimes such experiences aren't so lenient, sometimes such experiences steals something so painful that we can't help but always remember to adjust. However its more blessed and better to learn because we have heard and believe its the right thing to do. Life's journey teaches us all, and with our differences comes the different hurdles we are going to face, in other words our differences determine how our life games would be played. I'll explain further.

A good example is someone who is quick to anger, already we know anger is a natural occurring habit, but we have to learn to curb it as far as we are living and are going to keep interacting with people. So someone who hasn't yet learnt to deal with his anger issues would someday get into trouble, cause from anger comes bitterness, it sure last a while but that moment it comes, be sure it's going to do enough damage. Sometimes if you go to jail because of anger then you should be consider lucky because anger has caused much worst. Many have died, many have lost something or someone they can never get back, many good marriages has been dissolved. So that is a difference someone can possess but it has given him a different game to play form another person.

Another difference someone can possess is excessive ego. Another person could be jealousy, envy, another could be insecurity mainly resulting from past experience, some could posses more than one of such attributes and this all changes their game differently, this adds to what makes peoples different from another. That person having jealousy has a habit would experience a different live game cause while the angry would be dealing with fighting, loss, regrets from actions, the jealous might be dealing with covetousness, stealing, hate and the likes, such as which would create troubles too. However its a game of life we identity our flaws and work on it to be better.

Not only are there bad differences, there are also good differences too, which could be a cheerful heart to always want to help, not everyone does this so its clearly a difference, some are slow to anger and you can't really get them upset rather they turn it around so there is calm, some are justice freak, they fight for the oppressed, fight for the bullied involuntary. So our differences make us stand out, we work on the bad into being good and we improve on the good into being better. That how it should be anyways.

No matter your flaws doesn't make you a bad person, however its wise people tend to adjust to you especially when you haven't worked on your flaws. So they don't turn victims. Looking at the brighter side, our good differences would bring attractions and respect. No wonder they say no one is fully bad, we have good and we have things to work on, if not life wouldn't be sweet and adventurous. So next time rather than hate and be displeased with someone with a bad habit, we can take time out to help them improve into being better. Life is a journey there's no harm in helping someone become better. One love.

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We all have different cultures and beliefs so better respect each other, let us not make others flaws as an instrument for them to be down. No one of us is perfect so better help and encourage one another to have a healthy and better environment.

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2 years ago

Yes you've said it all and said it well, we must see that people grow and feel better than feeling down and down casted.

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2 years ago

Whether we have human, cultural, familial and upbringing differences or physical differences, they are our riches. Nobody is perfect. Let's be tolerant of each other with eyes that know how to look.

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2 years ago

No one is perfect dear, tolerance and love would see us all through.

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2 years ago

would they understand your humor Because I write mostly goofy stuff, I do worry about this point. LOL. So our differences make us stand out, we work on the bad into being good and we improve on the good into being better we can take time out to help them improve into being better Reminds me of a Bible verse that says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another" Wisdom from God. Good sharing.

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2 years ago

Very delightful to seeing this requote, Thank you so much.

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All of us have different flaws which makes us unique from each other but Don't let it hinder you from creating a good relation to others.. I make mistakes so you are .. We are the same ..No one's perfect anyway.

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Indeed you're right, our flaws still contributes to our uniqueness, let's draw people close knowing they can transform for the better.

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Everyone have differences so we will accept every fact that this is life, even we are different to each other but let us show our kindness to everyone. Show them the best of you,who knows we are the reason why their attitude change.

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2 years ago

Indeed a good and consistent show of love can lead someone into changing for the better. Let's not stop at all.

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2 years ago

Your article let me think more either

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Everyone is unique in its own way,so also have differences from the others. But it doesn't mean that we try to degrade others for their differences instead should try to accept everyone as they are.If someone have something bad we should help him/her to make it better.

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2 years ago

This is a complete summary of it all, we all are different and in all sense we must learn to respect our differences.

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2 years ago

This one is great, we need to show empathy and understanding towards people, we are uniquely different from our own, we just don't need to judge people base on the bad side that they showed to you, there's always a reason why they did it, and if we don't know the story behind it, then better we just try to understand them, I have this anger issue, I badly wanted to avoid but sometimes it's better to let it all out, and my siblings always try to understand me and after I let it all out, I apologize to people that I put on all of my frustration.

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2 years ago

Indeed the topic cut across to everyone, we all have a thing or two to adjust to so that we be better than how we were before. Understand who we are relating to is the basis of a more profitable communication.

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2 years ago

For me personally I think it's important to treat people With kindness and empathy... Go the extra mile and try and learn different things about the other person and their struggles...

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Its very good we learn to treat people with kindness, and getting to know them more could be the beginning of a better relationship.

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I agree, adjust to the differences of one another is the key. Being understanding helps too.

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Being understanding helps a lot too. We must learn to adjust to each other, its Paramount.

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2 years ago

This is true and everyone should understand this because oftentimes, we would complain about people's bad behaviour not minding that we have ours too. We just have to be more patient with each other as we all work on improving our bad sides

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This is the summary of it all... Be patient with others and work on our own. Life is meant to be interesting as we let love lead.

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2 years ago

One thing I learned in life and actually good at is not judging others without even trying to understand their story and background, could be disastrous.. great post :)

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Thanks a lot, I'm glad you find the post insightful. We all have a lot to learn off life. 💪

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