Understanding People And Their Differences

This is vital to our daily coexistence, to know that Jack is different from bill and Mary is different from rose, there is no particular law to generally bind everyone together so you can simply follow and you'll be at peace with everyone. I bet you that no matter how good you are, some people still wouldn't like you, oh in fact they would step on your toes and pinch your last nerves. You also aren't exempted, as you also can be very annoying at times, some people you make smile while some people you know you're stepping the border lines, well all this exist and life keeps being interesting.

Accepting peoples differences is one of the first steps to peace coexistence, only then can we take out time to know that person for who they truly are, are they emotionally matured to accept some things or not, would they understand your humor or take it as they will, have they gotten any past experience that would disrupt the manner at which they see and treat life currently, are they always smiling genuinely or hide a lot of bitterness behind a smile. All this and more would be know from careful engagement with another individual.

Peoples differences are not their suppose to be their weakness, we are supposed to learn rightly in the course of our living so as to turn such weaknesses into strength, however currently its a weakness to many of us because we haven't yet seek to correct our flaws. Like that is past of the essence of living if I'll say, to become better. As I strongly believe heaven is the goal, so earth is the game stage and for us to scale through with better scores then we have to learn. Already learning never stops, not with age, not with time.

So everyone must learn and possibly adjust to the seriousness of our living right. How bad it is that many have learnt via experiences, sometimes such experiences aren't so lenient, sometimes such experiences steals something so painful that we can't help but always remember to adjust. However its more blessed and better to learn because we have heard and believe its the right thing to do. Life's journey teaches us all, and with our differences comes the different hurdles we are going to face, in other words our differences determine how our life games would be played. I'll explain further.

A good example is someone who is quick to anger, already we know anger is a natural occurring habit, but we have to learn to curb it as far as we are living and are going to keep interacting with people. So someone who hasn't yet learnt to deal with his anger issues would someday get into trouble, cause from anger comes bitterness, it sure last a while but that moment it comes, be sure it's going to do enough damage. Sometimes if you go to jail because of anger then you should be consider lucky because anger has caused much worst. Many have died, many have lost something or someone they can never get back, many good marriages has been dissolved. So that is a difference someone can possess but it has given him a different game to play form another person.

Another difference someone can possess is excessive ego. Another person could be jealousy, envy, another could be insecurity mainly resulting from past experience, some could posses more than one of such attributes and this all changes their game differently, this adds to what makes peoples different from another. That person having jealousy has a habit would experience a different live game cause while the angry would be dealing with fighting, loss, regrets from actions, the jealous might be dealing with covetousness, stealing, hate and the likes, such as which would create troubles too. However its a game of life we identity our flaws and work on it to be better.

Not only are there bad differences, there are also good differences too, which could be a cheerful heart to always want to help, not everyone does this so its clearly a difference, some are slow to anger and you can't really get them upset rather they turn it around so there is calm, some are justice freak, they fight for the oppressed, fight for the bullied involuntary. So our differences make us stand out, we work on the bad into being good and we improve on the good into being better. That how it should be anyways.

No matter your flaws doesn't make you a bad person, however its wise people tend to adjust to you especially when you haven't worked on your flaws. So they don't turn victims. Looking at the brighter side, our good differences would bring attractions and respect. No wonder they say no one is fully bad, we have good and we have things to work on, if not life wouldn't be sweet and adventurous. So next time rather than hate and be displeased with someone with a bad habit, we can take time out to help them improve into being better. Life is a journey there's no harm in helping someone become better. One love.

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