Premarital Pregnancy

Not sure the topic is a word that goes together, just felt it explains what I'm about discussing today. Its a crazy world we live in already and those things we thought were totally wrong are gradually being accepted in the society as well as Celebrated. Keeping your marriage vows till the D day is no more held with high regards, well I can't say I'm not guilty, but you know what's bad is bad regardless, and what's good must be encouraged, it's the only way to ensure the society would be sane. Pretty sure a larger percent of the world's population are guilty, but if we don't talk about it, it'll get worst before the coming generation of our kids.

The sooner we accept that people wouldn't stop having premarital sex just because they know its bad, the earlier we start focusing on more trivial areas. some are discipline enough to hold their bodies until the right time, while many others don't care as much as they should. The quest for fun is eating deep, and yes its enjoyable, God made it so, its a special act and meant to make the moment special... Well not so special anymore, our boyfriends and girlfriends, even friends are already partakers of the special cake, we just have to move as though we are not pained, what's that popular slang again, oh i remember, we move.

After fun doesn't just end after the zip up, they extend into pregnancy, and if its not wanted at that time, we start looking for the quick option out, like you mean going to stay 9 months without fun, I don't need any baby now, oh what can I do, and the Brain start chorusing get rid of it. The men are also partakers of the burden, although some irresponsible men might reject the pregnancy, it still doesn't stop the fact that they now have someone they are responsible for, they are only being a coward for rejecting to accept the responsibility too. Sadly the ladies don't have this easy option of shying away and they just have to come to gleams with reality sooner later.

Every life is important, just as your life is important, before now we were being taught that we never know who could be the next president or prime minister or any top official, that it could be anyone, well as time begin to go by, we begin to care less, we just want to enjoy ourselves at the expenses of anything and anyone, everyday we see people hurt another person and doesn't even feel remorseful about it, injustice everywhere and its like a norms, we yet make it look like we all have to be strong to survive in this world, chanting life is a jungle and only the tough survive, please life is not a jungle, rather the justice system needs to seat up and restore back law for the powerless also. So everyone is important even your unborn baby is highly important too.

Yes, your parents are disappointed, your boyfriend has rejected the baby, but all these doesn't make the child evil, or less of a star, as long as you can train that child with love, you'll be thanking God everyday for your decision to keep such a wonderful girl or boy. However some young fathers have also taken responsibilities and are working hand in hand to see the baby born and train to be a good adult, such men and women are applauded.

Yes, it's a gift any child can only hope for that the father and mother would be united and train them in love, cause however we look at it, one can't fully occupy the space of the other, they can only try but a man can better act as a father and woman a mother, so yes you do right by joining your spouse to train up a child be it an unwanted pregnancy or not, every child deserves the best.

The use of contraceptive should be taken seriously, the risk of having sex without it is too much and is likely going to lead to unwanted pregnancy, we can never be too careful guys. Starts thinking on what your react would be should you get pregnant now and what your likely actions might be or if you're a guy and your girl gets pregnant, what are you likely to do, then you can use a contraceptive or not base on what you decide, but since we can change our minds anytime when the real pressure surmount, its still advisable we just stay safe, abstinence or contraceptive.

Having an unwanted pregnancy doesn't mean the child is bad or has bad luck, and should not be named based on the troubles you faced during the duration of his or her birthing process, give a good and sweet name, a name that would not remind you of the anguish, the life of the child is more than you, you are only a helper and God ordained caretaker, the child has the world to conquer as a task so he must be giving a victorious name instead.

Undoubtedly, some parents have given birth to their kids against all odds, some parents have stood by their kids even after the shame they brought home, and today the child is growing and they are everyday they see the once upon a time kid they distested and love him or her now more than ever, and could only thank God for giving them to courage and strength to do right. Abortion is a choice and I'm not going to kick against it, I guess its already legal in some countries. Yet that kid is special, any child you're blessed with, be sure he's a gift from God and God doesn't make bad, everything he makes is good. God bless every young parent out there.

Thanks for reading guys.