Our Selfish Desires

It's so crazy nowadays, selfish desires every here and there, its crazy indeed. Its a fake kind of love, they are here for the benefits alone. Only while it favours them do they act to be devoted. The quest for our selfish desires especially money has done more harm than good, we rarely know who truly likes us or not, a wealthy guy or lady has to be more careful in his or her selection because everyone acts like they are into him or her and plays the game so well, but the time when the benefits is halted, would they still be there to shoulder the responsibilities with you. Take a walk around, look at the relationship you can find around you, the numbers of fake love is doubling by the day.

If we don't have an issue with this yet, then we haven't yet understand that marriage is a life long affair and it'll be risky to stay together with someone who is not into you, when they finally have it all and have no need for you any longer, what would happen then. Flee selfish love, go for those connected to you by heart and not by kind. No matter how wealthy or how broke you might be there is always someone, the right one for you, we must carefully select for the sake of our peace and happiness.

Well its not one sided, as those who engage in selfish loving has to be caeful on who they prey on, the wealthy really knows how to play the game too, they know why you came around, most are not decieved by the acting and claiming to love, they are also engaging in selfish love too, they probably have what they stand to gain then dump, many people end up in tears because they were in a love that was not genuine, it had what it was hanging on, once that leverage is removed, its all over. Love right, try deciphering the reason behind the affection, know this for peace sake.

Many beautiful ladies are sadly victims of selfish love, the guys comes with promises of love and affections but only wants to lay with them, they moment they have gotten their desires they see no need to keep going in the relationship, some have experienced this for consequentll times that they have concluded that all men be the same, but so untrue as they are capable of finding true love amidst the wrongs.

Selfish love has its fair share on both the male and on the females, the simple way out has been to use ones head rather than using emotions, from the first instance we must do well to understand what the relationship definition would be, why are they attracted to you, is it really true love or there is an ulterior motive, do well to be watchful. They say its wrong to test your partner, well then do it before you both finally becomes partners, make your findings before you both finally gets serious with each other, love is blind but then study the road while you can see, so you know how to walk in the blindness of love.

Today you see ladies get married to a man way other than her father and mother and you say its true love, are you serious, why does she still watch movies and love the actors and have crushes, then what brought them into such conjugal Bliss, you need no soothsayer to spell it to you. Should another older man surface, one without enough money as they desire, I bet the insult he would receive would be enough to make a grown man cry. Lol.

More pronounced in relationships but not limited to relationship only. I can remember back then in the university, in the quest to get good grades, during examination times, a brilliant boy or girl is bound to make many friends, you would start wondering why now? Why not during normal lecture times, then there was no pressure and they did what they really wanted, followed who they truly want and catch their fun, but as the exams starts approaching, its time for them to cling to that boy or girl who can help them. Be sensible to know those who are true to you and those seasonal people only there for the benefits.

How about in the office, how many are loyal to the boss in his or her front but disdain him or her when she's no longer there. How many of the friends you have kept thinking they are your best friends have now betrayed you, how many times have you helped but when you are in dire need they seem not to care. Shun fake selfish love.

We are not desperate to live or be loved. We wait patiently as we are positive we would surely get the right ones, if we maintain our wisdom and principle. Selfish love is a short term love and its very dangerous, flee from it once you discover. Be vigilant. Some people really don't care about you, they are here for the gain only.

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