Its not enough to live, we need to grow, I mean constantly growing, being better than before, upgrading levels. Last time we were here, this time we are there and there is a much better placement than here. So you see the need to constantly push ourselves, what can I do to take me better. Its the law the world operates in, that why we are certain of a new invention sooner or later, people are constantly striving for better, better than now, and among this few there would be fewer who would reach that supernatural mark and surprise the world. Even in our individual lives we can reach that high mark, that high mark we never thought possible, all for growth, come on Let's grow.
If at this stage of life, after all we have seen and experience, should we still be thinking of quitting, then I guess we haven't yet known the essence of growing. Same way we started off young and were thought basic things, like eating, the A,b,c,d and all we learnt growing up, you'd notice that this was hard when we first began but as we kept growing it became easier, now we can teach them to the younger generation with ease, and we understand that it's hard for them to comprehend now, but with good tutoring, they surely would. Same with life challenges, the ones we faced previously was for a reason.
I know we are tired of hearing, its just a test, it's a phase and would elapse, but its the truth, so many challenges we have overcame and here you are now stronger, should you be faced with similar problem you'll be more relaxed than you were the first time and should you see someone going through a similar phase, you can assist by being a motivator, making the burden lighter, it's good help, a help when needed.
However it'll be rather unpleasant should we be growing in age and not be growing with our mind capacity, that's the essence, a kid might go crazy if grounded by parents, its almost like the world is going to end, you can't see your friends and they can't meet you till you serves the punishment duration, however as a grown adult, we are the one locking ourselves inside for a while, we sometimes don't want to see anyone for some needed reasons and we are fine, the corona virus pandemic got more panics from the young, not because they are scared but because they are missing out of fun, the adults however don't really have an issue, in fact we want to stay safe, but money for keep up was the concern, you see as we grow we grow pass certain issues.
Every one has his or her people of influence, like it or not there are people who are going to be influenced by you, and these people need you to grow, they need you to overcome the challenges you're passing through currently and grow so you in turn can put them through theirs when the time arrive. Among the many people who should make you actively push to be self motivated and a goal getter are your kids, of which if you are not there for them, who is a better person to be, so everything we learn is an added advantage to them, every experience and battles are stories to help them in their time, we came first to shine the flashlight so they can walk easier than we walked.
However not just your kid, the unknown watchers are often more than the known watchers, you can never feel to useless that someone doesn't notice you, your story is a manual someone is going to needing soon, so try to make your manual profer solutions. It'll be like, do you remember that Jake also experienced similar, he did this and did that, and that's how he maneuvered, you should try the same, see already, there's a beneficiary of your exploits. Some have gone to write books after recognizing the fact that people would be needing the knowledge they have acquired overtime as well as the challenges they have been faced with and have overcame.
Different people have different tolerant capacity, that challenge that you can easily deal with is what might make another person consider killing him or herself, suicide cases have occurred for various reasons some of which have happened to other people but they just waved it out, so with different people comes different approach to situations. However it'll be a lighter burden for all, when they can get someone who was faced with similar and overcame, be it they get to see person to person or simply reading about the person, or being told the person's ordeal, any means can ease the burden, just to let them know they are never alone.
Next time when trouble comes don't for a minute think you are the only person of concern, its selfish to think you need to win for yourself alone, moreover you're the only one facing the troubles right, Well you might be the only one Waring against the hurdles but there are thousands of people who really needs you to win so you can show them a way out. So you can clear the path and shine the light for others to walk through, and be forever grateful to you. Someone too is going to help you too remember, some have already helped you, few among those are your parents who catered, the person or people who created the job you're earning from, those few people who have been remarkable helpful to your life, and of course the world's greatest gift Jesus Christ. You too need to grow for others. So stay self motivated.
Thank you for reading.