Right decision are poised to when you can control your reaction to situations or information heard.
Reactions matters a lot, below are some emoji reactions.
When you first hear an information , how you react/treat to it matters . Your attitude to any given news or information is the benchmark for any other thing.
No matter how shocking or exiting the information you just received, heard, saw or conceived in your mind, your attitude towards it will go a long way in knowing what becomes of the information you just let into your stream.
Words means nothing when its not well interpreted in the receiver, words are those attached to it by the reciever or hearer.
When someone tells you "Are you mad?"
Whats your next reaction?
Are you going to act mad and accept being mad or reply the person with a mad word?
Ignore the person? Or ask the person why they said so?
Walk away? Or develop anger?
all the above are likely reactions to the βyou are madβ. The key note here is that words are just mere words not until you read meaning to it.
Within lies the biggest moment of self-control. You always have a choice to choose as to what to do next and how to react.
No issue how quick you respond to some random news or data or sentence or words.
Therefore, try your best to watch the interpretation or meaning you give to things you hear or saw; therein lies the key to self-control and making the right decisions not based on emotions.
Organised considerations are difficult to make a habit. Be that as it may, when the structure is set up, each passing hour turns into an exciting thrilling moment of happiness.
This is a helpful article specially to those people whose having difficulty in controlling their emotions. Keep writing!π