Why do you have to visit often?

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Happy mother's day 😍. I hope all mothers in the house are not going into the kitchen today 🤣🤩. Just eat, rest and sleep. I didn't realize it in time that today is mother's day and I don't have anything to write for mothers today but I promise, I will . Enjoy your day.

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Why do you have to visit every time?

Why do you have to visit often? This is my thought right now. There is this person who got close to us. He is not a member of our family. He is just a friend and he has helped us with some things. He has been coming to our house frequently. I am ok with his visits because we get to discuss some things and also with my dad. He has helped us before in a lot of ways but his visit these days his wearying me.

I'm sorry please. I may be wrong in the way I am feeling but please tell me if I am wrong. Three days ago, he came to our house around 6 p.m. It was already getting dark and I was cooking a delicious meal. I'm sure he perceived the aroma because after I finished cooking, he asked me to serve him. I did and he thanked me for the meal and left. Throughout that day, I didn't eat breakfast because I was fasting and I broke with fruits. I was looking forward to eating correct food for dinner but as I served him, I knew my dinner was affected because I didn't prepare any extra food. That night, I served every other person's food while I ate few spoons. I believe that I did it for God so, I'm not complaining about that.

But today, he is here again. He has been around since 2:30 in the afternoon. I welcomed him and served him fruits. My siblings later came out to keep him company while I got myself busy with other things. The time is almost quarter to 7 p.m. now and he is still in our house, discussing. I feel he has overstayed his welcome. Spending a few minutes in a person's house is enough for a visit unless you are invited by that person.

Please, am I wrong with my feelings? Thank you so much for reading. I believe I should express my thoughts here so as to know if I'm wrong or not.

Happy Sunday.

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You are not wrong He have overstayed his welcome ...let him return back to his house😑

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User's avatar Loya-Praise.
2 years ago

He surely had overstayed his welcome...and it is not always nice to be coming over to a house without consent especially when it is meal time...

it would be better for you or whoever is close to him to ask why he comes always..

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User's avatar Momentswithmatti
2 years ago

He has friends around his house but I don't know why he comes even though our house is far from his. Thanks

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User's avatar Tife.
2 years ago

Maybe the man needed some company, my dear, you said he is good towards your family too. If you are close to that person you can ask him too about his families situation, how are they and greet his wife a happy mothers day;).

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User's avatar Kendy42
2 years ago

His parents are late but he has siblings who are married already. Thank you.

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User's avatar Tife.
2 years ago

I think its a normal feeling, and you can't push him to go home out of respect, but maybe never served him anything this time🤣and observe if he will come back tomorrow

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User's avatar Adrielle1214
2 years ago

I didn't prepare anything until he left. Thanks

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User's avatar Tife.
2 years ago

Over staying in someone house looks supert, very soon you will be an embarrassed, it's looks so obvious to overstay your welcome, unlike me if I visited your house today, it's will take me a month for me to visit your house again.

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User's avatar Victainex
2 years ago

I don't even like visiting people. I prefer to call or text. Thanks

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User's avatar Tife.
2 years ago

Happy Sunday to you my friend,but I say this is cheating naa , how many mother's day do we have in a year, though they're worth it but some father's too need some more father's day. Now to ya story,I learnt that visiting a place once gives you respect,but frequent visiting makes you lose the respect. Have a wonderful day my friend.

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User's avatar Fiyinfoluwa
2 years ago

🤩 I think this will be the third one this year. Don't be jealous😆. Enjoy yourself.

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User's avatar Tife.
2 years ago

Sighs... You aren't wrong about your feeling, dearest friend Tife, lol, from what I read... It could either be that's he's just an hungry man, but also... Some people get lonely most times, they seek comfort from the company of others.

It might actually be that he's going through somethings and he prolly just wants to take his mind off it and prolly take his mind of being so bored and feeling so alone, people like this always tend to inconvenience others with their overstayed welcome and except you tell them, they won't even take note. He might actually be going through alot.

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User's avatar Ellawrites
2 years ago

I don't even know what he does for a living but he said he is into mining. I told him about this platform but he is not taking it seriously. His house is like 30 minutes walk to ours

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User's avatar Tife.
2 years ago

Its okay to be suspicious of person and coming to someone house uninvited it’s not pleasing at all

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2 years ago
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