Hello my loves, good evening to one and all. Today was a productive day to me in read cash after so many days. I was being super active during Halloween month as I posted 31 posts for 31 days and after that, I wanted to take a break.. But before I could even decide on taking a break, I had no choice but to stop doing everything as a massive cyclone hit my city and stayed here for solid 2 plus weeks annoying the crap out of all our lives... and after that is gone, I have already told this here in Read that my Mom in law has lungs issues and got admitted in hospital so my work at home had been doubled... I just couldn't catch a break during November which broke my Rusty visits as he still to this day, visiting not so well compared to previous months.. But it's okay, we can always pick pace back up... so after a long while, today I was able to read and comment in many posts at once and it genuinely made me so happy.
And today is my husband's birthday.. He just turned 40 and people doesn't even believe if I say his age lol. He looks good for his age. Every time I visit any shopping store, the girls behind the counter openly flirt with my husband right in front of me saying "Sir looks handsome, Sir looks good" haha I wanna ask, do you even see me standing right here sisters?? 🤣🤣 and I would never interfere with them as I want hubs as I don't want to stand in his Sunshine 🤣.. These thoughts actually provoked me the thought about Love and Lust.. and why looks have been prioritized in our lives than character?
The difference between true love and lusting is pretty much easy to understand but yet some people are so confused to understand it. I have encountered many people who have the opinion as true love contains elements of lust too. That is never true. True love sometimes tries hard to hold on to the loved ones and also can let go of them if the situations doesn't favor them and always wish for their well being but lust creates a crazy obsession to possess an object or person no matter what the situation they are in or they are going to be in. I'd rather give a small example to show the difference much clearly.
Imagine you are going somewhere and you see a beautiful flower in a pot. If you truly loved the flower and its beauty, you'd water it everyday and would keep looking at it thinking how the plant is growing and new flowers are appearing. But when you have the lust over the beauty, You'd simply pluck the flower on the first sight and keep it for you regardless of whatever happens to the plant.I always advice people to truly love their parents or life partners or friends or anyone for that matter. In this way, no one would ever even try to hurt another human being. But on the other hand, lust killed dynasties. Beware people, at the end, it's not worth it..
So, the end advice is not to have possession over others or over their looks and actually care about their character without trying to own them or something.. I'm not at all saying those girls are trying to own my hubs or anything, they are such sweet girls.. but this advise is actually for all of us..we should never have obsession over things or people.. it could be deadly sometimes either to us or others. Take care..
That's all for today ya'll... Thank you spons, for being awesome as always
Yours bloggingly
The worst thing about love and lust is that a lot of people don't even know the difference, some persons don't even know that lust exists! There's a thin line between love and lust, and sometimes what a person might be experiencing might just be lust.
Happy belated birthday to your husband, truly he does look good for his age