Love Vs Lust!!

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2 years ago
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Hello my loves, good evening to one and all. Today was a productive day to me in read cash after so many days. I was being super active during Halloween month as I posted 31 posts for 31 days and after that, I wanted to take a break.. But before I could even decide on taking a break, I had no choice but to stop doing everything as a massive cyclone hit my city and stayed here for solid 2 plus weeks annoying the crap out of all our lives... and after that is gone, I have already told this here in Read that my Mom in law has lungs issues and got admitted in hospital so my work at home had been doubled... I just couldn't catch a break during November which broke my Rusty visits as he still to this day, visiting not so well compared to previous months.. But it's okay, we can always pick pace back up... so after a long while, today I was able to read and comment in many posts at once and it genuinely made me so happy.

Husband and I

And today is my husband's birthday.. He just turned 40 and people doesn't even believe if I say his age lol. He looks good for his age. Every time I visit any shopping store, the girls behind the counter openly flirt with my husband right in front of me saying "Sir looks handsome, Sir looks good" haha I wanna ask, do you even see me standing right here sisters?? 🤣🤣 and I would never interfere with them as I want hubs as I don't want to stand in his Sunshine 🤣.. These thoughts actually provoked me the thought about Love and Lust.. and why looks have been prioritized in our lives than character?

The difference between true love and lusting is pretty much easy to understand but yet some people are so confused to understand it. I have encountered many people who have the opinion as true love contains elements of lust too. That is never true. True love sometimes tries hard to hold on to the loved ones and also can let go of them if the situations doesn't favor them and always wish for their well being but lust creates a crazy obsession to possess an object or person no matter what the situation they are in or they are going to be in. I'd rather give a small example to show the difference much clearly.

Imagine you are going somewhere and you see a beautiful flower in a pot. If you truly loved the flower and its beauty, you'd water it everyday and would keep looking at it thinking how the plant is growing and new flowers are appearing. But when you have the lust over the beauty, You'd simply pluck the flower on the first sight and keep it for you regardless of whatever happens to the plant.I always advice people to truly love their parents or life partners or friends or anyone for that matter. In this way, no one would ever even try to hurt another human being. But on the other hand, lust killed dynasties. Beware people, at the end, it's not worth it..

So, the end advice is not to have possession over others or over their looks and actually care about their character without trying to own them or something.. I'm not at all saying those girls are trying to own my hubs or anything, they are such sweet girls.. but this advise is actually for all of us..we should never have obsession over things or people.. it could be deadly sometimes either to us or others. Take care..

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The worst thing about love and lust is that a lot of people don't even know the difference, some persons don't even know that lust exists! There's a thin line between love and lust, and sometimes what a person might be experiencing might just be lust.

Happy belated birthday to your husband, truly he does look good for his age

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2 years ago

happy birthday to your partner )))

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2 years ago

Wait a min! You let flirt with your hubby. I would slap them.

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2 years ago

Hahaha those are just some innocent flirting.. nothing serious.. and they are sweet girls.

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2 years ago

Hey Happy Birthday to your hubby, you two are beautiful 🥰🥳.

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2 years ago

Happy birthday to your hubby, bhargi! Keep doing great of the both of you! Hehe

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2 years ago

Happy birthday to your husband. I agree with what you said. I think love is a stronger feeling, than lust and yes we can really enjoy the process of anything or anyone we are in love with.

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2 years ago

Pretty Bhargi… happy birthday to your handsome husband, a graceful year for you both.. you will see ladies flirt over the people they can never have anything with, we have to break every barrier of lust and wait for the appointed time.. we can’t keep chasing shadows

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2 years ago

Happy birthday to your husband!!!!🎊

You should be ready for even more of that 😂 that tells you, he's good looking.

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2 years ago

Looks like the black doll will wait for for them take her husband before she takes action. .lol. I'd suggest you stop them next time, you could do it in a fun way like..."hey I'm right here".. amd smile.

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2 years ago

that's hilarious hahaha

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2 years ago

They'd laugh as well... it's a stylish way of claiming what's yours.

Anyway this is my second day on this platform. Wrote two weird looking articles and simply beating about the Bush.

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2 years ago

First of all happiest birthday to your partner, may he have everything he wants to achieve and many more years to spend with you happily and contently. I do not have specific idea but I think we can make differentiation between love and lust coz your heart will help to do this. Stay safe and enjoy your day

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2 years ago

Adorable couple. Not only him but I also didn’t believe you when you told your age. Pinch me..... Still don't believe.

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2 years ago

Love? is when you feel that his the one and lust is when you just need one thing with that person. Anyway, Happy Birthday to your hubby.

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2 years ago

Happy birthday to your husband mate, anyway your pretty 😉

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2 years ago

good evening dear doll. You are really so beautiful. Happy birthday dear brother in low. Wish you a best life

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2 years ago

It’s good to see other women admiring your men. After all you know he chose you and you him. Happy birthday to your hubby 💙

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2 years ago

Hey doll nice to see you dear. your hubby is so handsome dear. happy birthday to my dear brother in -low. God bless you.

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2 years ago

This often happens with me as me and my hubby both are 30 and he looks like he's unmarried and many times even his office colleagues try to flirt with him,Even though the girls know my hubby is really rude to unknown girls except my close friends.But they really dont care☺️ Anyways Happy birthday to your hubby dear

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When you see beautifully packaged candy on the counter, do you see the middle of it right away? No!!! Not until you buy it and try it! There are just some girls with that nature. And flirting with everyone doesn't mean that your husband is so interesting to them it's just this type of people it's not bad and not nice just they like doing it and so on your husband they don't care.Don't pay attention. Congratulations to your husband on his milestone!!!🎈

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2 years ago

Happy 40th birthday to your huddy,I wish him more years to come.Btw many people if we love someone we should prove it to them and make them happy always rather then hurting them.

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2 years ago

You are so pretty sis and I am sure your hubs will never replace you with some random flirtees haha..

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