Everyone Is A Failure Here
Tell me have you never failed in anything in your life? Sometimes life isn't what we think rather far different from our beliefs and thoughts. And those who took and believe these beliefs by heart face a deadly and wasted fate.
Especially in student and teenage life. Both of them believe that scoring better marks and grades is the only way to shine and be respected and make their parents proud. But the reality is far from that.
A day before I saw on someone's WhatsApp status that a 12th standard student did suicide when failed in the final term. He was of 17 years young, the son of a CISF Commandant like a Major level person in the Army.
I am sure by this time you have seen enough examples like that and when I was in 12th standard I was aware of these things and luckily none of my batchmates did something like this even though some of them failed.
This suicide for failing exams is a very poor and deadly virus for students. I know students with good and bad backgrounds have a lot of family pressure. But this is not the solution. The days are long gone when failure decides success.
There are hundreds and thousands of examples living in your city failing in their academics and studies while still being successful and living great lives. The degrees, the marks, the grades will never be enough to measure you, my dear brothers and sisters.
You have to believe in yourself and not underestimate yourself. There are so many options and opportunities for you to explore. If 20 years is enough to judge your future then why the hell you are given 50-60 years of average life.
I myself was among the top 5 student in my class till 10th standard. Then my grades went on downhill due to hormone imbalance, lol you got my message, wink. And in the 11th standard, I failed in my MATHs subject and scored 19 out of 80. Can you imagine the shame and mental stress I went through still I believed in myself and thought that teacher intentionally didn't give me step markings or I could have at least passed.
This was my personal fake belief to reassure myself that this was not the end of my life. No offense to the dear teacher.
A Real Life Example:-
I had a friend who failed in the 12th standard final examination. And he didn't pursue any further studies. He was a playboy-type guy, lmao. Straight away started hotel decoration business and damm he got a contract in the previous month to decorate one of the top 5 rich high-class marriage banquet halls.
And made around 10 lakhs of profit in that single day. I am telling you he was very bad in his studies caught cheating many times. Still, at present, he is on way better terms than me in terms of life and success.
But that doesn't stress me or make me jealous. I am confident that I will surpass him soon in the future. Yeah, competition is necessary for life. Being a playboy he was a very confident guy and that lead him to give big decoration contracts. And he is now a good guy, haha. Not playing with other people feelings.
Open Your Eyes And Ears Along With Your Mind
If you look around, you have so many examples like these. Academic marks or your weakness or failures can never decide your future. Rather what you do after that will decide your future.
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Final Thoughts
So, my dear teenage and adult folks don't be stressed by your weakness and failures. Use the quality you possess, fail, try again, again till you make your name known. And everyone possesses a unique quality, you have to find it on your own. And when you aren't getting desired results based on your efforts. Leave it that isn't for you. Find some other interest. Remember when you were a kid, you fall so many times while trying to walk and how you walk now. Better, some of you even know Catwalk and Moonwalk, hehe.
Same for students and teens, we are in the building phase of our future and our one fall and failure can never decide what we will be in future.
Let's teach our young ones, what life really is out of the academic marks and grades. Some people are made to do a different role and follow a different path.
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Failure comes in everyone's life. We cannot be interested in work unless we fail. There are few people in the world who have not failed. Learn from our failures and move forward to a brighter future.