Effective Communication.....

Hey my reader.....how are you?

Let's learn how to communicate effectively!

I hope you will enjoy it.

Try to learn not to remember:

We used to cram words from our childhood. We have learned to memorize that 2+2 is equal to four. Nobody asks us to find why 2+2 is not 5. do cramming from our childhood weakens our communication skills coz if any person asks us about things which we haven’t memorized we become dumb. we become confused that what should we answer. On the other hand, if we start only learning by books from our daily experiences we will get more confidence while talking to others. We will have more analyzing power. It will make your communication more strong and more effective.

Speak logically and avoid dominating:

Speaking logically means when you are in a serious conversation with a person don’t talk odd things. For example, your friend is saying that once we start our education we must try to complete it with distinctions. And at the moment you rely on oh my goodness look there is a sale on a famous brand. It illogical response. It means you have bad communication skills you have to polish them by listening more attentively. One of the important things is to void dominating any conversation. It is to be said that a good communicator or good learner speaks less and listens more. but some people have the nature to talk all the time no matter whether he is speaking logically or not he used to speak only. Don’t try to dominate during conversation sometimes listen to the other person give your opinion on it rather than when your partner sayss I want to buy some dresses you stop him and start telling your stories. If you do this you have to improve your communication skills.

Good communication means not to convince but share:

We have often seen that everyone is trying to convince others but if we talk about effective communication we have the guts to share out thoughts in such a nice way that others will automatically be convinced not by forcing our opinion on them. For example, salesmen should have enough communication skills so that they can deal with customers. Sometimes when we go to buy any shoes or dress we have noted that they don’t ask us please buy this. You have to buy it. I have to answer my matter about today's sale. no! not at all. They always share their ideas .they pass compliments to us they share their thoughts they use their communication skill we automatically got tangled and convinced to them. I went to a shoe shop. My mother was saying girl buy this shoe I was not considering it in this way. The salesman came to me and said please mam try this I wear that shoe he said gorgeous mam it seems like it is made for you. I think you are the university-going girl I said yes he said ohh! It means a perfect casual but elegant shoe for daily use. he share his amazing point of view that convinced me. so it means he had effective communication skills.

Feel other's feelings or silence is more powerful than speaking:

Often best communication means understanding others. Sometimes you don’t need plenty of words you just need a shoulder to cry. You just need a strong hand to hold. When you feel others by heart your shoulder and your hand will speak instead of your mouth. Sometimes we do not need a person that can tell us whether we were wrong or right we need someone to hold our hand and say babes everything will be all right and let us cry coz you always feel better after it.

People don’t know how to listen:

the most important point. Hahahaha during this time we know very well that everyone has a lot of problems to share .everyone is ready to tell but none is ready to listen. But the person with effective communication only listens to others and take inspiration and courage from them and solve his problems. This is how effective communication works.

 Disclaimer: you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I  don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.

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