Can We Blame A Person Who Has Changed?

“People change all the time.”

— Tony Shalhoub

As we grow, time will change, society will change, political instances will change, people will change. The world will change because the world isn't a static place where it's only fixed in one place — kasabay ng pagbabago ng panahon, magbabago rin ang mundo. We will learn new things from life, and it's normal to see that the world is changing because people grow over the years.

When we're young, our physical attributes will change into an adult. When we're already an adult, we will be the next-year-old generation. Our lives will evolve, and we will change at a slower pace.

Have you encountered someone who has changed? ‘Yung tipong mapapatanong ka ng “hindi naman siya ganiyan dati, ano‘ng nangyari?”

‘Yung mapapasabi ka ng “nasaan na ‘yung dating nakilala ko?”

“bakit hindi na katulad ng dati ‘yung ugali mo?”

“naninibago na ako sa‘yo”

Have you heard these words to someone else? In your friend, siblings, parents, loved one, or anybody?

Or are you one upon that complaining it to your family, friends, or loved one?

Well, regardless of who you are in these two things, or even you're not yet experienced the first one or the second one, you should always remember that people grow and change for good or for bad.

Circumstances either good or bad makes us change, and that changes make us grow.

Changes are uncomfortable, it's okay to feel bad if there are people that has changed a lot from comfortable into a strange. But, don't blame them if they're changed unexpectedly. If they're changed more than you'd anticipated. Don't complain to them or either leave them. Don't say something off to them because of the change. Don't blame them if you didn't see any more you want to their character.

People that has changed didn't intention to change.

Did you see what they went through before they changed?

Did you see what they received treatments of the world before they changed?

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We just need to ask ourselves why people need to change.

— Bago pakawalan ang galit, sinisigurado muna na hindi na kayang indahin ang sakit.

We can't blame someone if it's changed to another kind of character. Every stage of our life, there's always a change. We must grow, we have to learn from our mistakes, we have to let off the hatred, we must cure the wounds of the past, we must move forward and choose ourselves at the end.

kaya ‘wag ninyo sanang sisihin ‘yung mga taong nagbago o magbago, minsan kasi mundo na ang naghuhulma sa atin bilang panibagong tao.