My Ideal Kind Of Relationship

I belong to the 'NBSB' club or No Boyfriend Since Birth. It doesn't mean that because I have never been in any romantic relationships then I don't have any insights or ideals about the kind of relationship that I want to experience. In fact, I have the ideal kind of relationship that pushes me to remain single for a long time until I will find the person that I think is suitable for me.

Relationships are complex especially when both of you lack communication, understanding and patience for each other. Even though I haven't been on this swinging page, I really know the ups and downs. This is exactly why I do not want to tie myself into something I do not know how to fix once it becomes twisted. However, I have an ideal kind of relationship that I know is worth waiting for.

I want a mature kind of relationship

This is the kind of relationship that I would like to experience one day. I want both of us to be mature in our actions. I want that kind of relationship where both of you are mature enough to deal with something and instead of fighting about the matter, both of you will find ways to fix it as soon as possible.

I want an understanding kind of relationship

I think this is the reason why most of the relationships fail nowadays due to a lack of understanding. If neither of you understands each other then the relationship will fall apart. I want to have a relationship where both of us will understand each other, that we have other priorities in life. I want a kind of relationship where both of us will listen and understand the situation.

I want a kind-hearted relationship

I want a kind-hearted relationship where both of us will treat each other kindly. Instead of saying hurtful worlds, we will speak in a way that we are not hurting each other. This is the relationship that I adore when both of you will not utter or do any hurtful things because you know how much it can ruin the trust and love you have for each other.

I want a kind of relationship where God is the center of our lives

I am not an extremely religious person but I am a God-fearing person and I want a kind of relationship where both of us worship God. I want our relationship to be align with God's plan and I want God to become the center of our lives. I want our relationship to be strengthen by our faith towards the heavenly God.

I want a patient kind of relationship

I want both of us to be patient with each other. I want both of us to understand that we cannot always give each other time. But that doesn't mean we have no time, it only means we have to be patient that one day both of us will have the time to spend together. I want a kind of relationship where both of us can wait, where we trust the perfect timing and we do not rush anything.

I want a kind of relationship where both of us have financial goals

I want the kind of relationship where both of us will help each other to become financially stable. I want that relationship where both of us will manage the funds together, create financial goals, invest together, grind together and save together for the future. I want that kind of relationship where both of us knows how to grow and manage our money.

I want that kind of relationship where we don't let our fight last longer

I think this is the most difficult part of a relationship when both of you don't know how to fix the problem or situation. I want that kind of relationship where both of us will immediately fix the arguments and ask forgiveness for each other instead of letting the pride rule over. I think this is very rare to find nowadays but that doesn't mean it is impossible.

Most of all, I want that kind of relationship where you are contented with each other. This is the kind of relationship that I really want to have one day. I want that kind of relationship where you won't look for what the other half don't have because you know that each of you are unique and special. I want that kind of relationship that as the time goes on, both of you grow together. I am not looking for a perfect relationship, I am just looking for a relationship that is not toxic and is nurturing for each of you. A kind of relationship that will help and mold each other to become a better individual.

November 6, 2022

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