One of the things I always hear from the people is that I am a quiet person. On the other hand, there are some people who constantly say I am a very talkative person. This gives me confusion about my whole and real personality. Am I a quiet kind of person? Am I really a talkative person? Well, it's a big question about myself.

Let's have a first glimpse on my personality. I am an introvert person. I do not like parties and I do not like hanging out with people 24/7. I can stay home the whole time with my phone in my hands and foods. I like to have a lot of time where I am only alone and thinking. I do not feel bored and I do not get paranoid if I stay indoors for too long. I can withstand solitude. I can be away from different people.

On the other hand, I am the person who is not embarrassed to talk to different people. I talk as if I know that person for a long time. I talk as if I'm just a person who loves to make friends. I am not embarrassed everytime I ask questions from different strangers. I am not embarrassed to approach someone even we are not close. I like to mingle with different personalities I meet and I like to make people laugh. I enjoy the vibes and I always treat everyone as a new friend.

So what am I? Am I a quiet person? Am I a talkative?

Well, it really depends. When I met the person for the first time, I would be so quiet as mushroom. I would only speak once I am asked a question but if not, you will never hear from me. However, once I started to become closer with the person, a different version of me appear and everyone will start to love it. Once I started to become closer to someone, I can instantly get your humor. I am the person who doesn't even shut my mouth. So the people would always end up saying, "I thought you were quiet person but now we can't even let you shut up for a while."

Does it make me an ambivert?

I do not know if I am. For now, I cannot totally say I am an ambivert. The introverted traits in me are still dominant and if ever I would like to become an ambivert, I must put the two equally. Even though I do not hang out with everyone all the time, I still love meeting different people. I love hearing and learning new things from everyone. I am a listener and I can also tell a lot of things. My bubbly and talkative side appear during the times where I am comfortable to the people. I also want to say that I do not select the people whom I become bubbly with, I talk to everyone with fun, so it's just a matter of time before someone can realized that I am not really a quiet person based on their first impression of me.

It's really funny that sometimes our first impression about someone changed. From being quiet into talkative is such a real quick change. This is what I possessed. I tend to be quiet, as if I am in "A Quiet Place" movie. But when the time passed by, I become a loud boom box. So people are always confused about me because the others encountered me in that way while the others encountered me in the opposite way. All I can say is that stay for a while and get to know me better and soon you'll hear the voice behind the silence I possessed and it's more than silence. Because I never run out of words and things to say. I am an introvert but it doesn't mean I do not prefer meeting people. In fact I really love knowing each and every one. I tend to be excited everytime I met new friends and everytime I met strangers. It's not so typical for an introvert to be excited about meeting different people, but I am one of the kind.

July 7, 2022

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