Not for work alone; Time!

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Time and tides waits for no man as they use to say to us. Wow! Those words always prompt me to do many things in those days. I always thought that all that matters most in life of human being is chasing time. But it is obvious that we can not chase time other than to accept it as it has been made to be by God. I wrote about things that are attached to the fulfillment of human goals yesterday and and it won't be balanced for ahuman being to identify a problem or problems that human being confronted with daily without providing a reasonable and affordable solutions or a practical guide to get out of such situation.

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Avoid broken home!

One of the practical thing that we are battling with individually as a person is different from each other. Some people are facing the issue of time management and that has been affecting many things in their lives. It has scattered their relationship and because they have no time for their wife and children. The wife become vulnerable.

Human being have a particular thing that is significant to all human. The need that every human being and no man can deny it. Whether you are in a market place as a seller or at home as a wife, as a child in the house. This currency that is generally spent by human being is attention. That is What we are hunting for daily. As a writer who is trying to build name on many websites, what you are actually working to get is attention. If it gets to a point where you can not give the person(s) that you cherish in life the attention that they deserve, then you are at the verge of losing them.

On many occasions, many husbands has lost their wives because they do not give them the necessary attention. I have seen many fraustrated men out there who claims to love their wives and yet, they could not give them the attention that they deserve. Most times when I interview them, the only response that they van give is that "I don't have time" "honestly, it is because of my job. So, she broke up with me."

Accept it or not, you have all the time in the whole world, however, it is you that chose to live your family out of your map. Many men give excuses to their wife, "I am working to put food on the table for us" ... You have gone for two weeks and you never put a call through to your families and yet, you claimed that you are working because of them. The fact is, money is not all things.

Always take your family as the remaining part of you, they are your responsibilities and so you must put them in your priority list. If you have any spared time. Always try to interact with them and build relationships with them. You can not have all the time in the world for yourself, definitely.

Take your family out...

During festive period, don't hesitate to take your family out, buy a lot of gift for them, let them feel your presence wherever you are at home.

Many men will not take time to complete their work in office and they will bring it home and stay indoor throughout the day and night. Some men will even waste the food that their wives food have struggled to prepare. Oh no! I don't even like it too.

Consider the woman and wonder the stress that she has been through before she is able to prepare the food. It is stressful.

Your children needs your guidance in many ways of their lives. They have a lot of questions to ask you but yet you have no time to attend to them.

Days to always remember!

Wedding anniversary day; even if you can not celebrate it every year, make call to you partner and assure them that you still remember them. Assure them that you love them.

Birthday ; always remember your partner birthday, though not all men like surprise but if you partner is a fan of surprise, plan a surprise celebration and even for your children.

It is your fault, but you choose to complain!

Kindly read this short storyline...

There is a young boy called Toni, he was crossed by a group of some bad boys in the high school. Those boys are members of a cult group and they asked him to join them but he refused. They keep on coming for him, yet he kept his stand and because it is a private school, he complained to his class teacher who promised him to find solution to the case but he never did.

Toni's father is a trader and each time Toni want to discuss the issue with him at home, he always complain that he has been working since morning and he is tired already.

Long story short, the boy was rushed to hospital, where he gave up the ghost one day. He has been brutally beaten and harmed by those students. He lost his life all because of his father's negligence.

Although he took the case to court, but what is lost is lost and it's late already. We should have our family in our priority list.

Thank you for reading!