I feel loved when... Date: May 3, 2022 Author: Sequoia Being loved is one of the most wonderful feelings a person could experience in his entire life. No matter how wealthy and powerful you are, if you don't have people who make you feel loved, wanted, and valued, all those tangible possessions don't matter. Love makes everything seems possible and beautiful. Deny it or not but everyone needs and wants to be loved. To wake up in the morning knowing that your existence matter and you are not alone. Love that last and is unconditional. The kind of love that transforms every negative thing into sparkling and aesthetically wonderful. Isn't it amazing? Even the holy scripture stated that the greatest thing of all is love. Without it, everything is void and empty. Having said that, I am also hoping that the majority of us are aware of the "Love language". For those who aren't familiar with it, let me give you an idea about this and its importance. **What is a Love language?** Basically, we have 5 acknowledged love languages. These are the ways in which a person gives and receives love. The five love languages dictate how a person give love and feel that she's being loved as well. It is very essential in every relationship may it be romantic, platonic or storge kind of love. If you want your relationship to work and improve, you should know the love language of each other in order to give her /him the right approach that will make her/him feel loved and not just based on your own preferences of giving and receiving love. Not because you like receiving gifts, means the other person like it as well. Now, let us find out the 5 love languages. *Word of affirmations* These are the people who mostly feel valued through positive words and encouragement. Praising them through words really makes a great impact on their love tank. Also, saying bad words to these people will surely shatter their universe. *Receiving/giving gifts* These are the people who appreciate gifts and presents. In response, their ways of showing love are through giving as well. *Quality Time* Undivided attention, dates, and time spent without any distractions will be truly appreciated by the people who have this love language. *Physical Touch* These are the type of people who feels comfortable, loved, and valued through physical expressions such as hugs, cuddles, kisses, holding hands, and tap on the shoulder. It's not all about s3x. okay? *Acts of service* It is doing something for the other person that you know they would like. Examples of this are cooking them a meal, washing dishes for them, making them a coffee and so on. Take note that the way you received love is also the way that you give love. But sometimes, you have to adjust and give love according to other people's love language and not yours. How to know your love language? You can take a test on the internet that will automatically give you the result. Now, the big question is... What makes me feel loved? Quality time Acts of Service If you want me to be happy and fill my love tank. You just have to spend time with me with undivided attention. Aside from that, I super appreciate it whenever someone does something for me like making me a coffee or cooking a meal for me hahaha. _________________________________________________ **Author's Viewpoint** Hello everyone! I would like to thank you for your unending support of my writings. Anyways, just an update about my Sonomammography, it has been postponed and rescheduled to May 12. I have no choice but to agree. For those who have donated something for my br3ast ultrasound, rest assured that it will not be in vain. I'll give you an update about the result immediately. I guess that would be all for today. Thank you and God bless.
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I fall in Love when I was 19 years. My Gf is my wife now.
really. Awww that's so cute
Exactly being loved or to love someone are beautiful feelings of the world. I think spending quality time and understanding each other is the best way to show someone your love and care
Depends on their love language hihih
HAHA nasa 5 siguro naging ex bf ko before yung ako talaga yung patay na patay pero nong hindi na ako naniwala sa love may dumating namang mas love ako kaysa love ko Sya ano daw 😂
hahah sanaol hahaha
Word of affirmations and quality time naman sakin sis. Gusto ko yung may time sakin at lagi akong kinocompliment.
NIceeee. Ako namn, di masyado ma appreciate yung words
Being loved is an wonderful feelings that is not in everyones fate. But who ever have that fate is the luckiest person. Love makes the life beautiful and thirst for living more.
INdeed. love is such a wonderful thing
I can joke with others but I'll definitely not joke with quality time and my boyfriend almost thinks I'm am attention freak but I just love spending time with the people I love.
Same here. Ilove quality time so much
Love is important and when one loves you, you will feel it, so wonderful and amazing. I have my own love languages and I knew about them when I read the book for the first time. When every partner recognize each love languages among themselves and they exercise it, the relationship would go smoothly.
I totally agree with this my friend
Being in love is the best thing we had langga that's why to avoid chaotic scenes and ruin it should have an understanding and care. Trust and loyalty. Have an awareness of the responsibilities.
Indeed ate.. Love is the greatest thing of all
I honestly read this out loud inside the taxi on my way to my workplace and I am so happy that I did! I am feeling the 💗 in the air now 😹
hahahhaha kumusta namn reaction ng driver sis hahha
I usually feel love the most when I receive gifts it makes me realize that I a surrounded by care and passion
that just means that receiving gifts in your love language
Akooo? Hmmm, i don't really think much about love, be it from family or what hahaha. Basta ano lang, I feel nothing 🤣🤣
hahah grabe nman yung you feel nothing ate ruru hahaha
Hanggang ngayon confused pa rin ako sa specific love language ko. All of the above hah
HAHha take a test sis
I have been single for way too long but I have always wanted to feel being loved and cared for by someone through words of affirmation, and act of service.
Ako sad, gusto kog attention as well as foods ahahahah
HAHAH food is life jud sis hahhaha
Quality time ug physical touch jud ako beb ky mas ma feel man nako ang importance anang duha
Ako sab beb, mao na akoa sauna. na change akoa physical touch into act of service
Mas mabigat talaga un actions minsan e especially pag di sanay na mag express ng feelings through words.
True yarn kuya Lee
words of affirmations and acts of service jud akoa sis, dili kaayo ko touchy gud hahaha
haha sauna ay physical touch ko sis. Karun kay na change
nice sis.. i also read the book from Gary Chapman.. i bought his 1 year devo book too
really. That's awesome sis