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Be that Right Person.

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1 month ago
Date: October 23,2021
Author: Sequoia

"Finding the right person isn't really an arduous deed. However, instead of spending your time and efforts searching for that right person, use it to be better and become the right person as you should be. God will never give us the things that we are not ready to have anyways."

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Short Story

Tina is very beautiful and a head turner lady in their town. She's a 25 years old woman and had been in countless relationship but sad to say, all of it fails. She couldn't understand why she can't find the right person whom she will spend the rest of her life with. The reason of most of her break ups with her exes was because of her attitude. She's a bit manipulative and controlling. However, despite of these toxic traits, her exes will still choose to stay. It's just that, she was the one who always initiated the break ups.

'He isn't the right one'

This phrase was her common thought and mostly the reason why she decided to break up with them. So full of her self and pride that she didn't notice that she was actually the problem.

But the game changes when she meets Roy. Tina and Roy has been together for almost a year now and as usual, Tina is the superior of their relationship. She always get what she wants and Roy would just give way to her because of love.

One day, Tina decided to break up with Roy because she feels like something is missing and she actually got bored. She immediately think that Roy isn't the one.

"I am breaking up with you"

"Why? Is there someone else? Did I do something wrong?"

"Nope. I just realized that we aren't mean to be and you are definitely not the right person."

"What are you basis about the right person?"

"It's none of your business anymore. I fell out of love and I don't wanna waste my time with the wrong one."

"How bout you Tina?"

"What do you mean by how about me?"

"Are you even a right person for that right person that you were constantly searching? You are so blinded by finding the right person without even realizing that you aren't becoming the right one that you wish to have. Let us say that you we will splitand luckily find the person that you are dreaming about. Do you think you'll be a right person for him?"

Tina failed to utter any words.

"You see, right person is just around the corner and will eventually come if you, yourself become the right person as well. Be the right person and I will do all my best to be right for you Tina. I can't lose you. Not this time. Not tomorrow. Never. Let's think and act right for each other."

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Sometimes, without our knowledge, we might already found our person. However, we fail to see it because we aren't ready yet. We still need to go through refinement and sharpening to be fully prepared to meet our soulmate.

Always choose the person who is willing to be the right one for you. Don't settle for less and always set realistic standards.

The person who is going to be our future partner also wants to meet the right person. Work on yourself and allow it to grow. Be the right person that your future other half is looking for. There's no such thing as perfect partner. Long lasting relationship is build by two imperfect person who choose to be right for each other.

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Author's Viewpoint

Looking back, I have realized that I really misperceive some aspects of love. There are things that I thought were right but actually erroneous. And I am glad that I was able to reflect about it in order to apply in my current relationship. Aside from that, my boyfriend was actually the one who made me realized about these things. I am glad that I found the right one who's teaching me to be the right one as well.

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Comments

Oh My I need one Roy in my Life. Where to find that kind of man? Basta ako naghihintay lang ako sa isang tabi, walang hanapan na magaganap. Pag may dumatinf then fine, pag wala then much better hahaha sapat na ang sarili ko para sa sarili ko.

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1 month ago

Hahaha yan sinate ruffa. Strong independent woman.

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1 month ago

From now on, I'll try to work myself out and be a better version for myself first and definitely the right person comes along and we could be each other's God answered prayer :)

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1 month ago

I guarantee you that 🙂

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1 month ago

Happy for you and your partner. In my case, love is not enough. For me, happiness should blossom between 2 persons for a relationship to be successful.

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1 month ago

I agree and people we love will surely give us happiness as well.

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1 month ago

Highly appreciate your writing. You said the truth. Be the right person to click the right section to have right way. Positive vibes.

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1 month ago

Thanks luci. We are all right persons anyways.

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1 month ago

You attract what you are like. If you develop yourself into being the right person for someone, they will do same for you. Everybody is right for everybody if both partners are willing to do the work

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1 month ago

Exactly. Let's be the right person first.

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1 month ago

Searching for a right one is to accept first yourself that you alone is not perfect. You should embrace the imperfections towards your partner. It will be the right person kung ang Ginoo mao ang maghatag.

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1 month ago

Amen! Si Lord rjuy nakbalo kong kinsa kid ang para sa atua.

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1 month ago

It is very good to reflect on the things we do and when it comes to our partner and love more insistence on doing so.

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1 month ago

Let's always evalaute and reflect with our actions.

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1 month ago

You are lucky to meet a bf like him that made you realize many things in life

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1 month ago

Oo nga po ate ehm sobrang blessed ko po.

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1 month ago

Mao jud ateng, Don't settle for less. Kung dili na then dili na pugson, naay mas worth it saimuhang love. What an amaing realization.

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1 month ago

Tama jud. Wlay pugsanay hahaha

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1 month ago

It is so nice to have someone who makes you feel and do better and become better in the real sense too. Congratulations for having the right person in your life Seq

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1 month ago

I agree and Thank you po ma'am.

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1 month ago

It feels so grateful having one person who can understand and comfort us. I'm so insecure to be honest, now that you find the right person, because me I've been crying the whole weekend, so sad

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1 month ago

I am so sorry to hear that :(. Whatever the reason of your tears, I know that brighter days are yet to comr.

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1 month ago

We remain single most of our lives because we don't see things this way... it takes someone who really knows what to do at the right moment never to miss an opportunity as such...

Delay can cause a lot of destruction and i really do hope we don't miss out of our blessings and partners..

Good write up Seq

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1 month ago

Exactly. I believe that God will eventually give us the right person whenever we are ready.

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1 month ago

You're welcome ahahahaha

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1 month ago

Tina was in search of a right person but she was not willing to correct herself first. In this world no one is perfect, but if we truly wants to find right person, we should first correct ourselves. I am glad dear Sequoia you have find your true and right person.

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1 month ago

Unless we are willing to be the right person and corrected, we will never find the right one.

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1 month ago

Isang malaking sanaol dy❣️

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1 month ago

Hihihi

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1 month ago

Yes Langga. We must love the person who are willing to love and care for the entire life, not just temporarily. Holding you no matter what through sorrows and happiness. Never leave and always staying by your side.

Relationship is meant for the two person who truly love each other. There's an infinity exist...

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1 month ago

The right person will never give up on us. But we should also be willing to change for the better.

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1 month ago

Good things that Roy is very mature and understanding man. If it was another man, Tina would be jumping onto relationship without direction.

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1 month ago

Excatly. It is so rare to find someone lile roy.

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1 month ago

Roy is spot on, Tina would become a dried-up old loveless prune, unless she changes....

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1 month ago

True. We really need to change for the better.

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1 month ago

That's true. Minsan kasi, mataas masyado standard. Parang perfect ang hinahanap na tao para maging asawa.

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1 month ago

True tas di tinitingnan yung sarili hihi

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1 month ago

For me, when I am accepted and understood by someone, whether it's a friendly or love relationship, that's the right person. There is a certain thing that from our point of view he/she is the right person for us but others don't think. It is up to us we are free to choose anyway.

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1 month ago

Truue. It will always be up to us.

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1 month ago

The character of Tina is misleading to find the one true love because of her attitude problem. It's difficult to handle that kind of attitude for the right person and maybe she need advice for her misconception.

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1 month ago

Exactly, she need to change her perception and attitude first.

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1 month ago

May ganyan talaga ugali sa isang babae :).

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