Gender Male are suffering immensely

In contemporary times, I have looked at how men suffered in the hands of women. I have come to learn some hardcore truths which of course might not be accepted by most women, but if course who cares?😊. I learnt that more than seventy percent of men are controlled by women either consciously or unconsciously. Sometimes we say we are in a man's world because man has always been the head, but is that true? I don't believe that a bit. I will be discussing on some of the ways men are really suffering while the society is just looking away.

1. I have always said this and will continue, it might take a lifetime for a very poor man to see love, why? Because women don't want to be associated with someone who is poor, like poverty is made for some gender. Now let's take it the other way round, a poor lady will not find it difficult to marry especially if she is pretty but is it the same for the men. Men are often desired based on their pocket value, based on their materiality... and trust me women has that intrinsic talent, they will have scanned a potential suitor or boyfriend and they know their net worth already. Men if you are not rich enough are considered worthless, women will always try to replace them at any slight second a better alternative comes by.

2. Even though we are different physiologically which ultimately determine our diverse strength, but does that mean that men don't have feelings too. Men are always expected to do the heavy work regardless of their health, though I don't find any fault with this, but I find fault in it when you started making it out because of your own self interest. If you are always expecting your man to do everything without you offering any help, you are not been helpful and understanding. Some women use the male strength and ego to satisfy their desires, something they can do themselves. I could vividly remember when I was almost electrocuted by electricity when we have a light problem in our hostel sometimes ago, can you believe some ladies were using me to laugh. I learnt from that day that I can't be used again to satisfy  all these female gender at my own detriment.

3. In the aspect of family, who works harder most, is it not the man, he is the one expected to pay for the bills, he is the one to pay for the school fees of the children and is also expected of him to bring food to the table. But is the love for the father always shown to be equal as the amount of his sacrifices? Many fathers today are not loved by their children just because their mother didn't let them be. It's this same man that will work to care and provide for the family but their wives and most especially the children don't really appreciate him in a way that will be happy. They always justify their act on the basis that it's the responsibility of him that is to be done.

You always imagine why mother's day are always celebrated more than the father's day. Just because the wife is at home, she has craftily deceived the children into believing that she is the one providing it all when in reality, she is not doing anything.

4. Women since inception are always been the prize, I always amazed by the women gender, most of them don't really do anything yet they are the prize desperately been seeking for by men, by the superior power. A man will be thinking of working hard and having enough money to impress a girl, the girl will be thinking of having more make ups and clothes to increase their worth and definitely to attract the highest bidder (the richest man). Men have always been the one to suffer to keep a relationship going with a pretty girl. I find it amusing, maybe that's why I'm still single.

5. Ladies are always known to be more favored than men. There is a fact that most people don't take notice of but it speaks volumes about who we are. Assuming you are a father and you have a boy and a girl, now both of them are crying because they want something from you, as in crying so hard, who will you attend to first, of course the baby girl because you probably think that "well, boys have to be crying sometimes". So you take care of the needs of the little damsel first while leaving the boy behind.

Let's look from another scenario, a gorgeous good looking lady who's seeking for appointment in a company with another male will always have the higher chance of being employed than the other male. Why because she is beautiful and probably have something to offer to the manager, you understand me now. You know of course the man might be very intelligent and qualified for the job but he has been tossed behind. Everyone believe that a lady has been cheated on if she was ever found crying, why men who are found crying are always seen as a weak person.

My lessons I have learnt for myself.

Never gather wealth or work hard because of a girl. If you are doing that, I think you are a failure yourself. Think of your mummy and sisters who needs your help. And if you are a man that do make fun of your fellow men whenever you are with your girlfriend, keep on at it. The day of reckoning is coming. Because at a point in your life, you will come to understand that most ladies love you because of what you are providing. Someone who can love you wholeheartedly whether you are rich or poor is only your mother, but have you not abandoned her.

You know all these things happen because of the society stereotypes and what we have all come to believe by the society. But is this right? Share your thoughts in the comment box.