To Live the Life that I Want - I Must Try It

ganyan na ganyan talaga isip ko before nung nag start nako mag work....yung gusto ko maging independent at nangyari naman...but now that I am away from my family, sobrang lungkot ko lang baby gerl...iba kasi pag may family kang uuwian after work eh

Go spread your wings Ruffaness!

I've daydreamed too, most of the time when I go to bed I stay up for a while. Living alone is good but not so good, in the long run you will always want to have someone by your side.

Same Ruffa, nakakainggit yung mga teenagers sa YouTube na nagba-vlog tas andaming views. Nag-eenjoy na sila tas kumikita pa habang nagbibiyahe. Parang napaka independent na nila sa financial support ng mga magulang nila. Malay mo Ruffa mangyayari din satin yan balang araw.

Minsan, ako nagwoworry sa future mo 😅. Hndi pwd forever ka mag daydream madam..you need to move, step forward and pursue your dreams.. Step out of your comfort zone...that's when you'll achieve real freedom and happiness

Di tayo mag progress sa life madam if we stay stuck into where we are right now. Agree ako sa comment ni madam @Jane. Hehe. It takes courage to step out of our comfort zones. I guess it's time for us na to explore and see what the real world is. That's where we learn most in life. ❤

Isang taon pala tanda ko sayo Ruffa dapat tawag mo sakin kuya hahaha. If you're always thinking of living alone you must try to daydream first what is the pros and cons of it and write them down, if one outweighs the other you must assess if it is still worth it.

I know you can do it..I became an independent as early age of 16. San saan na ako napadpad

I have also such imagination that I'm alone living on a simple house but secretly a billionaire having billions of net worth but seems like my imagination differs from reality, the important is daydreaming limitless since those daydreaming might be turn to reality someday. I also want to become independent but I'm worry about the expenses since the way of living is too expensive.

Try ate, pramis may matututunan ka. Ako takot nung una pero iniisip ko it's time for me to travel around and to try my best lalo na sa lahat. So far sobrsng goods, kahit stressful work ko at the same time masaya naman na.

mahirap po mamuhay ng independent pero makakaya mo po iyon kapag nag tuloy tuloy ka po.

Do it, sis. It will be worth it.

I think you can naman, as long as you have enough allowance for your expenses, or if you have a job and then marunong ka ng magbudget, kasi mahirap naman kung walang kang panggastos diba? Na try ko na yan 😂, may work naman ako nun pero hindi ako marunong magbudget ng pera ko kaya kahit malayo ako sa family ko at may trabaho ako, sa kanila pa din ako humihingi ng pang allowance KO kasi yung sahod ko kulang pa din dahil ang gastos ko, kaya ang ending failed yung goals ko, umuwi din ako agad sa bahay. 😁. However maganda siyang experience at madami ka talagang matututunan, hopefully magawa mo din yan soon . Anyway i can relate, hirap din akong magisip ng isusulat ngayon, ayaw gumana ng utak ko😂.

True yan ate ruru. Iba talaga pag ikaw lang mag isa. Like building something from a scratch. Yung wala kang ibang maaasahan kundi sarili mo. Hmmm, I am actually thinking to move out from our home since I alerady graduated from college. But thinking about them leaving behind breaks my heart.

You can make it happen soon ate! Sana masubukan mo na yung mga gusto mong gawin. Hehe. Wag ka matakot ate.

daydreaming can also lead you to work abroad.

Saka grabe sis, yun Ibang teenagers, andito sila sa site na to as writer. Mababasa mo na lang mag cocollege pa lang pala sila ganun. Tapos yun Iba na 20+ ceo NG sariling business, tapos tayo pinanganak lang para mainggit

Try it, pramis may mga matututunan ka pa about yourself. I lived alone when I was in college, di naman kalayuan hahaha pero mga 2 hrs pa rin byahe from ours. May video call naman na kaya di ka masyado mahhomesick if ever. Planning to go abroad din, in God's time.