Mothers for me is the best kind of human being. They can do everything for their child because if their love to them. Imagine the pain, sweat, tears and the heavy weight they carry when they are pregnant with their child. The suffering that for them is all worth it because they got the best blessing in the world and that is their children. Being a Mom is hard as they say and that is true.
I saw it on my sister in law, the partner of my Big Brother. I saw her in her big womb that when I look at her, I am the one who's feeling uncomfortable. I mean, I feel like she's carrying a big ball with a lot of water on it. Lol, she's carrying her first born Sofia that time. I feel like if I'm in her situation, I will just sit on my chair all they long because of the weight that I think I can't carry. That's why in my mind, I din't want to get pregnant and carry a child
And after giving birth She had to watch her kid 24/7 because if she will not do it, her kids will cry non-stoo and that is the only sound that I don't wanna hear. I hate yhe cry of the baby, I will panic if I heard it. Especially if she will leave that baby to me. I don't know what I'm gonna do of it's me. When my sister in law will visit our place to see their Lolas and her beautiful Tita, I can see that she's suffering because she's having a hard time to make Paiya eat.
And I'm the one who will feel annoyed on her. She's like a spoiled brat and I just want to spank her hands because she's just playing with the foods. Some was already spilled on the ground and I just hate the sight of it. Aside from it is when I had to play with Piaya, well I also love Piaya it's just that I can't stand her being "Makulit." She's cute and I adore her but the only thing I hate about her is she's soooo, arghhhh! Annoying sometimes.
When I experience taking care of her, I just breath a deep sigh because she went home already with her Mom. I salute Lady (Piaya's Mom) because she's not hurting her kid even if she's really naughty. I don't think I can stop my self from not doing it, I mean hurting a kid if it's me. And seriously, the only kids that I can stand is that Piaya. You know when I get to bed and sleep, Mom told me that I am sleeping soundly on my bed like someone make me work until night, lol.
And yeah, I sleep that night peacefully but when I woke up the next day. All of my body was in pain. My arms, my legs because of the stairs. Pia is going up and down on that and I have to attend to her because she might go to the highway so baba't panaog din ako sa hagdan 🤦. That kid is really a pain in the neck. But I can't still resist her cuteness so, every time that she will visit her I'm the one who's looking at her.
So that's what I experience in that one day taking care of my niece. I had experience a massive body pain, then how about her mother who's carrying her all day long. She said Piaya really love to be carried always and she's just indulging her. I asked her one time if hindi sya nakaka experience ng body pain lalo sa braso nya. She just said that she's already used to it and she has a lot of exercise when she's still carrying Piaya in her womb.
I'm just wow, kinakasanayan pala yon. I mean, it's really hard being a mother. The sacrifice that our mother had to do for her precious children. Imagine, she had to woke up so early on the morning or at 3 am because her baby is crying and need to breastfeed. You are in the middle of sleeping but you have to get up in bed to change their pampers. You have to get up again in the middle of the night because they are crying non-stop without reason ans you have to stay awake to make them asleep again
This is not the only sacrifices that they went through. Because even when we are still in their womb, their life is also at stake, that time when you are about to gave birth to your child. The pain, the suffering but once they see us and hold in their arms, those suffering will vanished. It was replace with joy and excitement that seeing the face of your newborn child will give you so much happiness.
By the way, my sister in law said that when she gave birth to her second child. They are stitching her up without anaesthesia and she said it is so painful, as in. And I was like "What the fudge, why they didn't inject anaesthesia to you!" I forgot her reason but, since then I said to myself, "You are never gonna get yourself into this kind of trouble self! Never!" I can take the pain of my boyfriend cheating on me, but physical pain is a no no. Lol.
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So to tall of the Mothers Days out there. May you have more pasensya to your child and please, maybe they want a sister or a brother na so why not get romancey romancey to your hubby 😉. You know, candlelit dinner and all. With beef steak on the round table with a lot of roses. Dancey dancey sa saliw ng musika ni ka Renz Verano na "I keep on Loving you" and ready for a battle later lol. Just kidding, or not? Lol.
May 9, 2021
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belated happy mother's day po!