Chismis, Life, her Husband and Depression
After playing with the doggos yesterday I decided to take a shower na and I thought I already rest my eyes after taking a nap for like 40 to 50 minutes. But when I open the back door to which I always use as in always, hihi. I was startled because I saw a woman or rather a woman's back and Moms is talking to her. I plan to run to be honest but because the woman didn't notice me I just continue walking and go to the bathroom to pump some water that I can use in bathing.
After doing that I feed again the cats and give some kisses to the kitten and get my things to take a bath. While taking a bath I can hear their voices and as to what I understand I think the woman's husband gone mad (I can't understand the reason) but I hear Mom saying that he is depress and just need the understanding for the wife and thr kids. I also heard that the woman almost lost her legs because hinabol ata sya ng itak ng husband nya.
While the woman is talking I can hear her sobbing and Moms is consoling her. I also feel sorry for her because my Moms is a friend with that woman and to her husband and they are sad that they come into this. Sometimes they are going here in our place and that woman is having a short conversation. Actually Moms become closer to the husband first before the wife. But this wife is just so kind and so chatty that Moms take a liking to her.
It even comes to the point that she will borrow money to my other mom which is Mommy D. And off course she will lend her coz sometimes she will borrow for money while crying. Who can say No to a crying woman right? And what they like to that woman is even though she's late sometimes on paying her debts she will still visit Mom and say it to her face her reasons etc,. At least she's not saying it over a text or a call. And she is not like a criminal who'll go into hiding like what others do, hmmmm ┗(•ˇ_ˇ•)―→
She will really take her time to visit Mommy D and say that she will be late on paying because of this and that and Mom will understand her naman. That woman is also sweet as she always give Moms a hugs and beso beso whenever she will leave or when she just arrive. That is also the reason why they take a liking to her. And right now, Moms are consoling her about her husband that give her husband some understanding and talk if ever the husband got sober.
Depression is a no joke and I think a depress man is much malala compare if woman will experience it. It is like they are weaker than a woman coz a woman can still recover but some man will reside immediately to suicide. I am not so sure about this but just base on the chismis that I can hear here that someone took its life because of depression. When the man lost everything in one snap because of fire. One week after that she commit suicide. It is really sad, aigooo.
Moms are speculating that maybe it is because of the pandemic that the husband of this Woman is like that now. Depress and can't even recognize his self and his own family anymore. All I know ia the Husband of her is a hard working man. Mom even get that man before to rebuild my Mommy D's house because it got wrecked by the typhoon before. That man is also a joker coz when Moms talk to him he is so jolly always like he's not facing any problems.
So we can't really believe that he will do that to his wife. I just hope he come into his senses and make things right with her wife. I hope everything falls into their right place again. And I hope that the wife will have unlimited understanding for his man. ,(。•́︿•̀。)
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So to you, who's reading this right now. If you are going through a hard times I hope you don't decide to just end your precious life. I hope you will still choose to fight and experience the beautiful life on earth. I know it is not that easy but I also know that you are strong.
So fightuuuuuu ᕙ( : ˘ ∧ ˘ : )ᕗ
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June 26, 2022
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I guess most people go through that pace of life and it really depend on us on how to handle such emotions and feeling like depression. The big help the family can do is to have longer understanding tlaga....di talaga madali pag depress ka...