Chismis, Life, her Husband and Depression

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After playing with the doggos yesterday I decided to take a shower na and I thought I already rest my eyes after taking a nap for like 40 to 50 minutes. But when I open the back door to which I always use as in always, hihi. I was startled because I saw a woman or rather a woman's back and Moms is talking to her. I plan to run to be honest but because the woman didn't notice me I just continue walking and go to the bathroom to pump some water that I can use in bathing.

After doing that I feed again the cats and give some kisses to the kitten and get my things to take a bath. While taking a bath I can hear their voices and as to what I understand I think the woman's husband gone mad (I can't understand the reason) but I hear Mom saying that he is depress and just need the understanding for the wife and thr kids. I also heard that the woman almost lost her legs because hinabol ata sya ng itak ng husband nya.

While the woman is talking I can hear her sobbing and Moms is consoling her. I also feel sorry for her because my Moms is a friend with that woman and to her husband and they are sad that they come into this. Sometimes they are going here in our place and that woman is having a short conversation. Actually Moms become closer to the husband first before the wife. But this wife is just so kind and so chatty that Moms take a liking to her.

It even comes to the point that she will borrow money to my other mom which is Mommy D. And off course she will lend her coz sometimes she will borrow for money while crying. Who can say No to a crying woman right? And what they like to that woman is even though she's late sometimes on paying her debts she will still visit Mom and say it to her face her reasons etc,. At least she's not saying it over a text or a call. And she is not like a criminal who'll go into hiding like what others do, hmmmm ┗(•ˇ_ˇ•)―→

She will really take her time to visit Mommy D and say that she will be late on paying because of this and that and Mom will understand her naman. That woman is also sweet as she always give Moms a hugs and beso beso whenever she will leave or when she just arrive. That is also the reason why they take a liking to her. And right now, Moms are consoling her about her husband that give her husband some understanding and talk if ever the husband got sober.

Depression is a no joke and I think a depress man is much malala compare if woman will experience it. It is like they are weaker than a woman coz a woman can still recover but some man will reside immediately to suicide. I am not so sure about this but just base on the chismis that I can hear here that someone took its life because of depression. When the man lost everything in one snap because of fire. One week after that she commit suicide. It is really sad, aigooo.

Moms are speculating that maybe it is because of the pandemic that the husband of this Woman is like that now. Depress and can't even recognize his self and his own family anymore. All I know ia the Husband of her is a hard working man. Mom even get that man before to rebuild my Mommy D's house because it got wrecked by the typhoon before. That man is also a joker coz when Moms talk to him he is so jolly always like he's not facing any problems.

So we can't really believe that he will do that to his wife. I just hope he come into his senses and make things right with her wife. I hope everything falls into their right place again. And I hope that the wife will have unlimited understanding for his man. ,(。•́︿•̀。)

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So to you, who's reading this right now. If you are going through a hard times I hope you don't decide to just end your precious life. I hope you will still choose to fight and experience the beautiful life on earth. I know it is not that easy but I also know that you are strong.

So fightuuuuuu ᕙ( : ˘ ∧ ˘ : )ᕗ

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June 26, 2022

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I guess most people go through that pace of life and it really depend on us on how to handle such emotions and feeling like depression. The big help the family can do is to have longer understanding tlaga....di talaga madali pag depress ka...

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2 years ago

Depression is something to be taken lightly. Sana madala yung guy sa proper health care facility para matulungan siyang maka recover.

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2 years ago

Naging lesson na sakin tong kamay ko madam. Kaya I have learned in the past. Her husband needs treatment. Abusive na sya :(

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2 years ago

aigoooo, its a red flag na halos habulin sya ng itak. kung ako un di ko na uuwian ung lalaki. kakatakot. do they have kids ba?

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2 years ago

Siguro mas okay rin talaga na mag seek sya ng help and also medical help. Mahirap kasi kapag yung mga bata rin is mapahamak tho sa personality nung husband as you described it is di naman sya yung type na mananakit kaso para maka sure lang din huhu

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2 years ago

Kaso di nila kaya chachan, walay ding pera. Pray nalang muna siguro ang magagawa.

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2 years ago

it is better to suffer because it does not cause sin than to end one's life.

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2 years ago

True but some people with big problems can't think that way. 🥺

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2 years ago

I feel sad for the woman ate and also to her husband if he is really going into depression. I hope they will become okay.

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2 years ago

I really hooe that too. Sana malampasan nila yang phase na yan ng buhay nila aigooo

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2 years ago

Like I wrote in my article today with topic seasons come and go. If am facing with hard times today I will believe that that's it's season. It wouldn't last forever once it's season is over another season would come which would be come with good moments.

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2 years ago

Baka may ibang rason na hndi mo lng nalaman...naki marites ka tlga madam.pero kawawa naman..depression is difficult to handle especially if the one suffering is weak and doesn't want to let go of the monster in his head . family support is much needed to help him recover sooner.

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2 years ago

Hahaha madams no choice ee naririnig ko usapan nila hahaha 6 steps lang layo ko sa kanila 🤭🤭😆.

Totoo madamss lalo if parang ayaw din nyang maalis mga isipin nya. If sana binubuksan nya ang isip nya for his family ee.

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2 years ago

Depression is a serious matter that a person can deal with, there's no such thing as strong enough once it will hit someone. We should always be kind, because we never know who are experiencing this stage.

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2 years ago

True, kahit gaano kapa kalakas kapag nag overthink ka ng malala naku. Pero sana kapag di na kaya mag kusa ng mag seek help sana.

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2 years ago

Merong mga Tao na sayang di vocal sa feelings Nila, kasi dito sa amin may nagself distruct a few months ago, clueless lahat NG ka pamilya nya kung bakit, pero sabi nila di daw talaga yon nagsasalita masyado Kaya sobrang nasasaktan sila.

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2 years ago

The most worst thing we do, we didn't give time to our partner and made him more depressed than relieve. It will no doubt enforced him to sucide when no one will understand him. Your mom did a very sacred job but I think lady ignored her instructions 😢.

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2 years ago

Aigooo, I hope the husband and the wife get the chance to talk again.

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2 years ago

Never heard of a man fell into depression. Stigma na kasi na kapag lalaki matapang at malakas. Kaya tama talaga ang kasabihang "Don't judge a book by its cover". Intense yung part na hinabol ng itak yung babae, kawawa naman. Pero hindi naman din natin masisisi yung lalaki, may pinagdadaanan sya kaya ganun nagagawa nya. Sana lang maging okay pa sila and more patience pa sana si babae. Intindihin nya muna ang asawa nya. But if it is too extreme hingi na sya ng tulong kasi kawawa sila ng mga anak nya.

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2 years ago

Mga lalaki magaling magtago ee. Yong ang lakas nila kapag nasa labas but deep inside, may dinaramdam pala. Yon din anh mahirap ee aigooo.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga. Yung hirap din silang ilabas kasi baka anong isipin ng iba lalo na't lalaki sila.

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2 years ago

Sorry to hear that, suicidal person ako sis lalo na pag feeling kong di ko talaga kaya. Pero yung iba bago nag commit yan, sinubukan nilang lumaban pero di na talaga kaya, no choice kumbaga. Kasi kung ipagpatuloy pa, para san pa? Kung ginawa na nila lahat.

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2 years ago

Yon na nga ee, ang hirap ein mandin mag convince ng taong may suicidal thought. Tsk.

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2 years ago

nakakatakot naman po ang habulin ka ng itak, tatakbo ka po talaga ng mabilis non ehh,.

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2 years ago

Totoo, pero what if napangunahan ng takot ano, aigooo.

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2 years ago

Grabe kawawa naman yung mga anak nya at asawa. Sana gumaling sya at tumaas pa ang pasensya ng asawa nya.

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2 years ago

Sobra, sana nga ee. Sana malampasan nilag mag asawa talaga.

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2 years ago

Mostly po kase sa mga lalaki is natatakot or nahihiya na magshare n.g kanila problems sa kanilang family or friends kaya siguro yung iba sa kanila made depress na. Pero I do hope po naging okay na yung hubby nung friend ni Mommy mo po

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2 years ago

Oo yan nga problema ee. Yong iba kapag tatanungin mo ee sasabihin walang priblema pero deep inside, aigooo

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2 years ago

Ka-cringe! Pero isa talaga sa rason tung pandemic lalo na't kinakapos sila huhu naawa ako sa friend ni mudra mo.

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2 years ago

Nakakaawa talaga sya iyak, yon nalang magagawa nya for now and to pray na sana gumaling hubby nya 🥺

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2 years ago

I think yung mga lalaki mare ang prone sa depression dahil hindi nila ugaling mag share sa iba ng nararamdaman nila.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga mare ee. Mas takot sila mag pakita ng totoong nararamdaman nila kesa sa girls aigooo

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2 years ago

Giving up isn't an option and taking own life is something i can't even imagine

We all go through hard times but it doesn't last forever but some are weak who are alone no one to give them hope and sometimes all they need to read something like you did!

More respect to you aunty!

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2 years ago

Ikr, some are just weak or maybe they can't really think right anymore coz they already have a lot on their mind aigoooo

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2 years ago

Yea can't disagree with it anymore.

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2 years ago

Feeling ko tama po kayo mas mahirap kapag mga lalaki yung nadedepress kasi nga po naiisip talaga nila na wakasan agad yung buhay nila. Pero sana kung depress nga po yung asawa ng friend ng mom nyo ay magamot po sya para bumalik na sa dati at maging maayos na sila ng wife nya and ng mga kids nila.

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2 years ago

Mas mahirap kapag lalaki ang na depress ee paranh only way lang nila ks sumuko. Pero yeah, sana sana malampasan nilanh dalawa ito at gumaling na sya. For his wife and kids. Tho nga binata naman na unh iba, still. ⊙﹏⊙

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2 years ago

Yes tulungan at damayan po ng wife and ng mga kids nila yung tatay nila para mas madaling gumaling.

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2 years ago

Mas maayo pud na naa imo mother sis to comfort sa imo neighbor para sad dele madala sa emotion na mas lisod na kung unsa palang masulod sa utok din magpatay madugay,saun nalang ang mga anak lisod jud ng ma depress kay dele nana sila kahibaw sa ilang nabuhat

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2 years ago

Woi woi, ano sinasabi mooooo .·´¯(>▂<)´¯·. Me can't understand it huehue

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2 years ago

Marami ang na depress nung panahon ng pandemic dahil nawalan ng trabaho ang karamihan at hindi maiwasan ang mag alala kung saan sila kukuha ng panggastos sa araw_araw kaya madalas mainit na ang ulo at naghuhudyat na ng away sa mag asawa

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2 years ago

Buti nalang andyan yung mama mo para mag bigay ng payo dahil di biro ang ma depress minsan nakakagawa ng mga bagay na di alam ng kanilang utak baka mamaya ay magpatayan ang mag asawa kawawa naman ang nga anak nila hahaha akala ko nakakaintindi ka ng bisaya ehh sori na sis 😅

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2 years ago

I suspect that the pandemic may have added to whatever may have been wrong with him beforehand. Depression is a bad thing and is always difficult to get out of. I hope he keeps fighting until he becomes fine.

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2 years ago

Yeah that's what we thought too. I just hope he come into senses soon aigoo

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2 years ago

Always fight in life lang talaga ate ruffa, we don't have a choice kundi magpatuloy sa buhay.

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2 years ago

Yes naman, tuloy ang buhay wag papadala sa mga problema na ya

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2 years ago

Yes, fighting fighting lang! And true, a depressed man mas malala saka they having a hard time to express themselves. Feeling nila is nakakababa ng pagkalalaki kaya lalo sila ding nadedepress. Need help. I wish all gets help and have someone to listen when they need. We also get depressed but some experience worst.

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2 years ago

Ikr, they just rather keep it to their self that say it to anyone. Kala kasi nila huhusgahan sa na mahina kapag ganon. Ang masaklap pa minsan ung iba takot rin mag sabi kasj baka mapag tawanan at sabihan na nag iinarti lang aigooo. Sana lang talaga ee malampasan nilang dalawa ito.

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